phone sex toy play, anal playWhether you are a sissy or a man who is interested in sharing his anal play fun and fantasies while engaging in phone sex toy play with your Mistress, there are certain things you need to do to make your call successful AND safe…

#1: Communicate Clearly

During your phone sex toy play session, be very open, communicative, honest, and precise with your Mistress about everything!

Tell her about any previous anal play experiences you have had, the sex toys you have on hand, and whether or not you have previously used said sex toys and when last you used them.

Give her feedback, feedback, and feedback! She who is guiding you needs to know your progress and how your body feels throughout your play.

IMPORTANT: If, at any time during your session, you feel ANYTHING your body translates as pain, STOP and let your Mistress know what and how your body is or is not responding!!

#2: Know Your True Skill Level

If you have never engaged in assplay, this is something your Mistress needs to know up front! An anal play virgin needs to be handled with caution and great guidance lest you do something that may keep you from enjoying your ass any time in the near future. NEVER go too fast, hard or big if you have never explored you ass – and one finger does NOT count as experience!!

Whether you have minimal to extensive experience, you need to brief your Mistress on your frequency of play, the size range of toys you have used, and how softly or vigorously you tend to play when on your own. Also let her know if you have only played solo or you have enjoyed anal toy or strap-on fun with a partner. The more info, the better!

#3: Have Realistic Expectations

If you are an assplay virgin, novice or infrequent player, know ahead of time that you CANNOT just drive it home! You are also NOT going to jump from a 1/2” (diameter) toy -butt plug or dildo- to a 2” toy!

Increases in size and “enthusiasm” come with time, practice, and patience. It may not sound like 1/4” is much, but when it comes to the delicacy of your tushie, that seemingly small increase in girth actually FEELS much bigger!

Oh! Also… Please do not think you are going to get a foot-long dildo all the way inside your ass; you’re NOT! It’s an ass, not a bottomless pit.

#4: Be Prepared

Along with the previous preparations above, don’t show up to your phone sex toy play session without lube! In addition to knowing what toy(s) you intend to use, have plenty of lube, even if you are only planning on a 10-minute session. There is no such thing as too much lube when your ass and toys are involved!

#5: Understand That Your Safety Is Paramount!!

Always remember that your safety in your anal play session always comes first – and your assplay Mistress takes the feedback and information you give her to safeguard YOUR health and well-being.

While you may be eager and enthusiastic to get your ass groove on, you must be committed to following the rules that guarantee you are in the same condition -or hopefully much better!- than when you began, so never fault your Mistress for pacing, advising or even stopping you. A mistreated ass can easily become a no-fly zone – and none of us wants that!!

As long as you ensure that you are prepared across the board for your anal play session and are completely honest with your Mistress about your past experiences and current plans for an ass-wowing adventure, a successful phone sex toy play awaits you and lays the foundation for many more!!

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