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penis sizeWhat Really Matters to Women When It Comes to Penis Size?

I recently penned a post on penis size and small penis humiliation, really only mentioning girth almost in-passing and failing to notice that I was really focusing more on -and unintentionally reinforcing- the unidimensional, end-all-and-be-all, completely incorrect assumption by all too many men that dick length is where it’s at.

Thanks to a valid comment by one of the small pool of men who proactively mention the real deal -girth!- this oversight jumped out at me, and I would like to set the record straight.

…But What About Girth?

In response to my post “One Small Penis, Two Big Questions,” “length and width” posted the following questions and comments on penis size and women’s preference:

Everyone is always talking about length, but I’ve been told that girth really is more important. Nobody talks about what is large/average/small in girth though. When it comes to length I’m definitely on the smaller side – maybe in the chapstick to lipstick range. I think the only reason that I’ve been able to satisfy my partners is because my girth is a lot closer to being “average.” Where is the acceptable range for girth though?

I had one really good friend that I was open with about my size tell me that she thought it would be a good idea for me to try and become skilled with my tongue and fingers. But everyone I’ve actually been with seems to have been relatively satisfied. I’m not quite sure.

Is it true that girth is really what matters?

Girth as Length’s Bargaining Chip

Length-and-width, what you’ve been told about girth is certainly true! When it comes to penis size and women’s sexual satisfaction, WIDTH is key!

Furthermore, in my personal opinion, there is absolutely some room for negotiation when it comes to length, IF and only if the length is at least “respectable” in my assessment AND has an above-average girth. Sometimes a good penile girth can be the savior of a small deficit in length (as judged by MY individual standards).

Give Me Girth… Or Give Me My Favorite Dildo!

Now, down to the brass tacks of girth… According to a 2015 literature review of 17 previous studies -the most comprehensive review ever done on penis size, which included a total of 15,521 men across all ages and races- by a team at King’s College of London (1), found the average circumference of an erect penis to be 4.59″ (11.66cm); that’s 1.46″ (3.7cm) in diameter. The diameter of a “standard” cardboard cylinder inside a roll of toilet paper is roughly 1.625″.

While that may be the average girth, I scoff at those measurements, as I am a true size queen when it comes to girth, and a man needs to be sporting (at least) 1.75″ in diameter to really get my attention.

So, after all that, the most important thing I have to say (as a femdom AND a Woman) about girth is “Go big or go home!”

emmajane@enchantrixempire.com YIM: empress.emmajane Call 800-601-6975

emmajane@enchantrixempire.com
YIM: empress.emmajane
Call 800-601-6975

Reference

(1) Veale, D., Miles, S., Bramley, S., Muir, G., & Hodsoll, J. (2015). Am I normal? A systematic review and construction of nomograms for flaccid and erect penis length and circumference in up to 15 521 men. BJU International, 115(6), 978-986.