After our last session, I had my newest model slave Liana perform a written assignment wherein I asked her to consider why it is that a slave needs to be taught unshakeable self-discipline and control, which reigns over her (or her) even in her Mistress’ absence. I wanted her to give this some serious thought, as –despite her yearnings to learn and obey- she has very expectedly encountered some issues in managing the self-control I require. As I expected, she was incredibly prompt in completion of her assignment, and impressed me yet again with her seriousness in this endeavor that was readily apparent in her final product. As another reward, I am sharing her insights with you –especially those of you who have pondered entering into slavehood- as a trainee who is truly committed to the process of relearning established ways of thinking…

“Training as a slave for Empress EmmaJane requires me to develop a whole new outlook on life. No longer am I the centre of the Universe, no longer am I the most important person in the world. No! – my whole view of life, where my male views were dominant, has to be re-learnt. In order to cater to the needs of my Mistress, and women in general, I need to learn how to think and feel as they do. For this to happen I have to suppress all my male urges as these get in the way of this process and this requires me to master myself – to learn the art of self control. My urges, my fantasies, my thoughts are no longer important and I need to manage them in such a way that they become irrelevant. By this exercise of self control I can respond fully to the needs and emotions of my Mistress – spend my time pleasing her rather than myself.

I am truly grateful to Empress EmmaJane, who agreed to train my as her slave, for helping me to recognise the needs women have, for having the strength and patience to guide me through this transformation. I know with her guidance and dominance I will make her proud of the work she has done on me by being able totally to respond to her and the women around me.

Slave Liana”

Once again, Liana, you have made me very proud in your enthusiasm and introspection. Job very well done, my Pet!

I am proud to announce that my new slave underling – who is now known as Slave Liana- has via official ceremony pledged and fully committed himself –now HERself- to my service and training. During her naming ceremony, she was dressed in nothing more than a pair of panties, which she went out prior to our ceremony and purchased (per my specifications) herself. (That was her first ever panty-purchasing adventure!) While attired in her new lacy white panties, she professed her dedication, loyalty, and subservience, and I explained to her the great importance of learning empathy for and relating to women on an incredibly deep and new level of understanding. Once we had discussed this goal, she then received her new –feminine- slave name. After bestowing upon her the new moniker, I presented her with positive reinforcement for continuing to be so obedient and respectful. I decided to show her what kind of reward lay in store for her when she pleases me and invests great thought and effort in learning the ways of a slave who knows how to properly honor and regard women. While I do not make a habit of presenting brand new slaves with such rewards, I knew this would prove to make a very strong impression upon this particular newbie. I felt that her experience of what delights I might allow her throughout our journey would add new gravity to her intense desire to serve and please me, as well as other women.

While I am exceptionally impressed with the seriousness with which Liana is approaching her status as a slave, I am further pleased by her depth of insight and willingness to give “real” thought and consideration to what it means to be a woman, how women feel and think, and how to make women happy with respect, honor, and subservience. I cannot recall when I have had such faith and confidence in the intentions and abilities of a new slave to succeed. I must confess that I am genuinely impressed with and excited over the great potential I have found in this new slave.

I am very pleased to announce that I have taken a new slave pledge under my wing, who not only exhibits a very strong yearning to learn how to properly serve, obey, and be submissive to women, but shows enormous promise in becoming an example to those who would also wish to surrender to subservience. As one of his first assignments, I asked him to write an essay, telling me why he wished for me to dominate and train him. I also asked him to profess his commitment and dedication to being subservient and fully obedient. The following is the fruit of his first task – and it is truly impressive, underscoring his awareness of what is expected of him and his purpose.

“Mistress

I have had this growing feeling over the last few years that I would like to be dominated by a woman. I wanted to know what it would be like to put a woman first: to serve a woman. I wanted a woman who would take complete control over me, over my life: to command me to do things that she wanted – not to do the things I wanted.

After the first session with you I knew I had picked the perfect Mistress. You took time to find out what was going on in my head and I know you are strong enough to take charge of me. I know you will demand the appropriate behaviour of me at all times and instruct me on how I can please you and in doing so please other women.

I pledge Mistress:

To do my utmost to obey all your commands.

I realise that at times I will need disciplining and I will accept any punishment you give me without question or appeal.

I will be at your service 24/7 and be at your beck and call.

I pledge I will remain loyal to you until your tire of me and discard me or pass me on to someone else.

I pledge that from now on I will put the needs of women first – especially your needs.

In short I pledge to worship and serve you for as long as you will have me.

From

Soon to be named.”

Now, that is a job well done…

Time for a reminder from yours truly, Mistress EmmaJane. I have told you this before, but I feel it is worth regular mention: Your satisfaction, fun, and enjoyment with our sessions is of paramount importance to me, and I take your opinions of our sessions very seriously. That is why I strongly encourage you to always feel free to give me feedback on our time together. I vigorously encourage you to let me know what you liked – and anything you didn’t particularly like. Any input you offer can only help me to more fully develop and expand on your fantasies, which is my ultimate goal.

See… I realize and understand that you have the freedom to speak with the Mistress of your choice and at any time you choose. Because of his fact, when you elect to share your time and fantasies with me, I feel it is a great privilege, and I strive to make you feel that you made the right decision when you asked to speak with me.

At any point during or after our session, I want you to feel completely free and at ease to let me know if you are especially pleased, indifferent or not terribly happy. This experience is all about you, and I will do everything within my power to see that I make it a memorable occasion. If I don’t know something isn’t really working for you or you would like me to change things, then I cannot address and remedy the matter. You will not at all offend me by asking me to take a different approach, tone or tact. In fact, I will be appreciative that you have given me a sense of direction, and I will use the information to improve our interaction.

I have a young man who is newly 21 years of age and has asked for my assistance in helping him evolve into a man who is well-versed and well-rounded in the ways of Life and Women. He wishes to learn how to more effectively communicate and interact with Women, including all things of a sexual nature. The following is an essay he wrote for me as in introduction to our adventure. This young man certainly knows how to value and appreciate a Woman…

Everyone Needs a Figure

“ Where do I begin? First, I just want to say that I’m blessed to be able to get the opportunity to talk to you and work with you in the near future. I know that you are a very busy person on and off the phone so I feel extremely grateful that you are able to spend time with me. Anyways, there are many things I hope to gain from our work together. I obviously understand that there is a bit of an age gap between us and the learning process won’t be as easy mainly because of the fact that we might not have a lot of things in common but I believe that is what will help me grow as a person, mentally and perhaps physically. I didn’t just randomly search the internet and came across your name. If I were to work with someone who was just as old as I was, I don’t think there would be much of a learning curve. I think you have great knowledge of the world and you seem very sophisticated and well rounded. Not to mention you have a very sexy voice.  I hope to open my mind and really learn and hear what you have to say. Being with you physically would be the most ideal situation but I know a lot of things can be accomplished through the ears as well.  I’m at a crucial age right now and I know that you will help me become a confident person and help me not to be ashamed of what I need to say. I hope that you will give me a great sense of awareness about who I am as a person and what I am looking for. I don’t want to be like so many teenagers or young adults who wait around each day thinking that the world owes them something. I know that if I want to improve as a person, I will have to earn it and that’s what I plan on doing with you. As you already know there a number of things I look to work on with you and I will leave that up to you. We can start on the most basic things like communicating, understanding the world, women in general, public manners, etc.  I see this experience as an adventure with you. I want to be able to tell you what and how I am doing in life. I’m moving to another city and the adjustment won’t be easy, but I know you can help me a great deal and I will without a doubt do everything in my power to show you that you are appreciated.”

Hello, my Darlings! I received this e-mail recently from a client with whom I had an outstanding session and who has offered his input on a particular blog entry that was of interest to him. Oh! How I am pleased when you give me your input on a session.

“Thanks for a great session last night. If you want to use this you can.

It was great to talk to you last night. I just would like to comment regarding your 4/6/09 blog and on guys like myself who sometimes wear panties, stockings and pantyhose. I am 100 % heterosexual and I do wear panties, stockings and thigh high stockings. I started about a year or so ago. I am in a stressful job and when I get home, it actually relaxes me and arouses me to put on some panties. I am surrounded by beautiful women at work who dress professionally but when they wear certain skirts I can sometimes catch glimpses of what sexy underwear they have on. Sometimes I rush out and purchase as close as a match as possible to what kind of pantyhose or panties they are wearing and even just walking up to purchase the item gets me going. I think there is a name for that but I cant think of it right now.  I had great birthday sex with a very pretty woman Tuesday before I called you. She wore a very lacy black bra and black panties that drove me crazy (and she knows it..LOL). When I got home I put on my white panties and white thigh highs and called you….Just wanted to stress that not al panty wearing guys are looking to get a strap on put up their butt, maybe it’s not very masculine to wear panties, but you can be heterosexual and have fun crossdressing also….Thanks again !!”

You all have no idea how it pleases me when you give me feedback and let me know what works for you, when I push your hot keys especially well, and even when you feel a session could have been heightened for you in some way. Thank you to those of you who give me such information that I can use to keep you happy and smiling. Remember, I am here for you, so always feel free to share your thoughts and ideas!