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More Fun with Ass Play and Strap-On Sex: Well-Lubed for –Highly Recommended- Warm-Up Time

Empress EmmaJane — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 21:20:56 +0000

With the helpful assistance of your partner, your virgin rosebud is wet, slick, and ready to be introduced to that dildo that your partner is just about to affix to her harness. Although she has stepped into her brand new harness, that does not mean it is mandatory that you jump from point A to point B without hesitation or go from zero to sixty in 5.0 seconds flat. In fact, that should not at all be the case.

Based on my personal preference and the ensuing ease of progressing from the preparatory to the full action phase of strap-on sex, I highly recommend that –regardless of any other sexual activities in which you engage with your partner before you are ready to tackle her strap-on- you should take some time to stretch, relax, and loosen up a bit – and, no, I am not talking about your general bodily musculature! Whether it is intermingled with other sex play or done immediately before you are ready for your strap-on debut, you and your partner must make a concerted effort ensure that –again, only after being well-lubed- your sphincter muscles are as prepared as possible to open up to accommodate the dildo you have chosen for this event. This should include some general ass play with your partner taking more than just a few minutes to use her fingers, a vibrator or perhaps another smaller dildo –whether exclusively or in combination- to slowly and gently begin opening you up and allowing you time to relax and become accustomed to this particular time instance of anal stimulation. She should begin by taking her time and then gradually increase the tempo and vigor of this warm-up ass play. Regardless of the particular phase of ass or strap-on play I which you are involved, remember this very important point: It is much easier for you to pace yourself and allow anticipation and speed to increase than it is to proceed too fast too quickly, causing both your mind and body to become tense and potentially causing you physical discomfort. While enthusiasm is commendable and highly encouraged by your Mistress, I do not advise you to be so overzealous that you throw a roadblock in your own path – and maybe one that will immediately squelch your continuance with ass play and make strap-on play in the moment an impossibility that must now be delayed until a later time.

So… To recap: Once you are well-lubed, you want your ass slowly relaxed and stretched. Once you have opened the door (so to speak), it will be much easier to cross the threshold.

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More Fun with Ass Play and Strap-On Sex: Preparing for Your Introduction to Strap-On Fun

Empress EmmaJane — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 19:41:30 +0000

After careful searching and scrutiny, you and your partner placed your order and eagerly awaited the arrival of your special strap-on shipment. When it showed up at your door, you could hardly wait to tear your parcel open and inspect the harness and dildo(s) contained therein. Of course, you vowed to perform this special unveiling ceremony together, so the oohs and ahhs could be shared – and shared sighs of excitement there were when you took your goodies out and began examining them. Now… You have to tools you need for your new anal adventure, so it’s time for the real fun to begin!

Before you begin, ensure that you have some quality lube – preferably some that is made especially for ass play. Rule Number One is this: Do NOT be stingy with the lube. You must use it liberally in order for it to provide the ease and comfort that it is intended to do. While I personally prefer and use only J-Lube, a lube that comes in powder form to which water must be added until the desired consistency is achieved, there are several excellent lubes –including Gun Oil and Boy Butter- on the market produced with ass play in mind. Once you have your lube in hand, you are ready to prepare yourself for your role as the receiving end. (Pun very much intended!!)

In order to have this experience be as much as team effort as possible, allow your partner to do the lube honors – or at least have her help you. You will want to lube your waiting hole in at least (in my opinion) in a full two inch radius all the way around and out from the center. To make the impending activities even easier, you and/or your partner should lube a finger or two and gently slide then between one to two inches inside of your ass and slowly rotate them in a circular motion in order to get you wet just on the inside. Remember, too much lube is better than not enough!

Once this procedure has been thoroughly completed, it’s time for her to get strapped in and you to assume the position. Next stop: Strap-on sex!!

More Fun with Ass Play and Strap-On Sex: Saddling Up With A Good Harness and Dildo

Empress EmmaJane — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 18:21:00 +0000

You’ve gotten the all clear for take off – and are you ever ready! Regardless of your level as an ass player, you have committed yourself and your time to paying more diligent attention to and, hence, “preparing” your strap-on seeking backside for Round One of Arse Invaders. You have become incredibly aware of and made intimate introductions between your fingers and/or toys and your ass, grown even more familiar with your part-time playground, or found yourself happily better or re-acquainted with your “man’s own special love hole.” You have put forth your best efforts to get warmed up for the pending activities, and the time is drawing near.

During the interim, you and your partner have been scrutinizing potential harnesses and attachments. While a typical, run-of-the-mill, generic harness, which can be found in any online of physical location of a store that caters to accoutrement for strap-on play, is acceptable for beginners, you (and especially your partner) may find that it does not afford the strength and stability you need for markedly vigorous strap-on fucking. If you want to be more than adequately prepared, I suggest investing a little more money in a harness that is a bit sturdier in construction. That said, I would be terribly remiss in neglecting to adamantly suggest that you investigate the Vac-U-Lock system of harnesses and compatible dildos. In my book, that is the way to go with strap-on sex play – especially should you decide you and your partner wish to make her bending you over and giving it to you a regular occurrence.

While you will likely wish to begin with a dildo that is from a small to average size in order to gauge your physical comfort level with ass play via strap-on, don’t think you are restricted to bouncing from one average-sized dildo to the next because you can get anything larger. I’ll let you in on my secrets to bigger and better strap-on sex later…

More Fun with Ass Play and Strap-On Sex: Selecting Sex Toys

Empress EmmaJane — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 05:05:33 +0000

You’ve sparked her interest and have her mental wheels grinding. You’re behaving yourself and being patient, giving her time to digest the “interesting” discussion you had, and you wait… Eventually, the moment arrives when she initiates discussion and tells you she’s been thinking. You feel butterflies flitting around in an excited frenzy in your stomach. What is she going to say? Calmly, you sit back and prepare to listen. You know the time for the strap-on verdict has arrived…

Perhaps she takes her time, recapping your discussion of earlier and telling you how she’s been thinking very carefully. She winds her way down a lengthy explanatory path, prefacing her “decision” with a well-rounded preface. Of course, it could be that she cuts to the chase and gets right to the point, firing her decisions at you like a sniper opening fire from a rooftop. In either event, she tells you that she is agreeable to trying your strap-on fantasy, and she is curious to see just what that would be like – for both of you. She is willing to give it a shot!

Now, if you already share toy time together – or either of you have playthings you use for solo purposes, it may be that you already have a goody or two you can use to kick off strap-on time. Take a look at the options you have and proceed from there. In fact, you may want to increase the frequency of your ass play before you decide which toy –whether it is a dildo you have already or you need to acquire one that is compatible with a harness… and you need to help your partner find an adequate –and sturdy!- harness.

If you haven’t gone into the land of sex toys together, it is time to sit down together, browse the Internet, and get an idea of just what you may want to integrate into your ass play fun. If you have never –or have rarely- used toys in your ass play escapades, it is a good idea to acquire a few basic toys in order to get accustomed to with “receiving” penetration. Once you are comfortable with basic anal exploration, browse dildos and harnesses with your partner until you find something which you both feel is appropriate.

Now, it’s on to the next step…Strap-on time!

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More Fun with Ass Play and Strap-On Sex: When You Get The Green Light

Empress EmmaJane — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 05:25:28 +0000

Oh yeah! Houston, we appear to have lift-off! You are even more excited now! Not only did your partner listen to what you had to share with on your strap-on fantasies, but she really seemed to listen – and was obviously quite intrigued, given her calm and interactive discussion with you. Perhaps she began musing over how strap-on play might be from her playtime perspective. Maybe she smiled and said she suspected you were into that – and she has wondered about it as well. Maybe she breathed a huge sigh of relief because she’s thought about it as well, but has been unsure of how to broach the subject with you! It could even be the case that she began planning your first strap-on escapade then.

If your partner listens intently, stops you and asks questions, and/or frames her own aspect of the discussion from the viewpoints of you, her, and your identity as a couple, take this as a positive sign, but don’t scare the living daylights out of her with your rabid enthusiasm – at least not just yet. Even if she seems to be anywhere from mildly to moderately to incredibly agreeable, you should still allow her time to digest what you have (finally) shared about longing for and dreaming of her using a strap-on on you. Now that it is out in the open, give her some time to think of and imagine how she will feel in accommodating your “special” ass play request (or finally realizing her own!), and let her approach you with her own independent findings, suggestions, and input. If you encourage this new suggestion as a joint –aka team- “effort” in adding some zest to your sex life, it will be much more gratifying due to an equal playing field of interest and enthusiasm.

Of course, now that the door is open, you know there will be an even more interesting conversation to follow: With what do we play and when?!

More Fun with Ass Play and Strap-On Sex: When The Answer Is “No” or “Maybe”…

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 08:21:02 +0000

You have a partner, but you have not yet approached this woman with your yearning to try strap-on sex with her. That is the million dollar question: How do you present this idea to her? The answer to that question will depend on several factors, which you must carefully assess before you plan a strategy.

First, we’ll say she does not know you enjoy anal stimulation. In this event, have you ever hinted at or broached the subject in order to gauge her response – or have you blatantly presented the topic for discussion? What response(s) did you receive? Did she actively listen to you and interact or did she shut down and refuse to hear talk of such kind? If she allowed you to present your case, did she dismiss you as a sick pervert, seem tentative and perhaps a bit curious, or was she full of questions about your longing to have her use a strap-on on you?

If you have been vehemently overruled with the defense being deprived of their chance to present a solid argument in favor of strap-on fun, pushing the issue will in all likelihood prove futile and may make a sticky subject even stickier. Leave well enough alone – at least for now. Given some time to think, she may –or may not- come around and be prepared to actually discuss the topic. Just give her some space, and see what happens.

If she seemed to be mulling over your words as you presented them, yet she did not display much of an overt response, do not push for immediate feedback. She didn’t run screaming from the room, so that’s positive! Give her the freedom and space to decide what she wants to know and when. Maybe she is not against the idea, but she is concerned as to how that will reflect on her if she does it. The best thing you can do is be reassuring, respectful, and supportive of her own personal viewpoint.

In cases where her thoughts are adamantly oppositional or quietly reserved for review, granting plenty of time and understanding to digest your request may make all the difference…

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Ass Play Training for the Beginner to the Pro: Taking Advanced Ass Aficianados to the Next Level

Empress EmmaJane — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 04:10:29 +0000

Now… For my back door boys who are all too familiar with my affinity for all things ass play, do not think I am focusing my attentions only on my ass novices, and have in turn forgotten about you. That is far from the case!

You have certainly learned by now that I take my toy play seriously, and I enjoy –with great zeal!- leading you farther down that certain play path. In our efforts to heighten your more advanced ass play, we will push the bar and have you working up a lusty sweat more so than ever before. It’s not just about pushing your limits and stretching you to the limit; it’s about prompting you to branch out and enlarge your varied experiences with and acquiring new and different anal toys.

Our world of accelerated ass playtime will include taking a look at the methods and toys you have used to date. We will go more in-depth on the importance of lube and the best types to use for easier and more comfortable bottom banging. We’ll explore the perks of using more fingers, vibrators, dildos, and/or butt plugs. If there is one type of toy you prefer, we will discuss why it is your favorite. If you haven’t tried the gamut of toys that can give you exquisite anal stimulation, we’ll hammer out a plan for having you broaden your scope of toy play. We will even explore the realm of strap-on fun, and assess whether this is something you would consider, have thought of, and/or would like to try.

It is your Mistress’ opinion that you should be fully informed of the vast array of toys and techniques that are available to you for maximizing your backdoor pleasure. Let’s take you to the next level…

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Ass Play Training for the Beginner to the Pro: Getting You Started

Empress EmmaJane — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 18:16:50 +0000

It’s time to exercise, my Dears! Bend over. Touch your toes. Look out behind you! My idea of exercise is having you work that ass, and I am ready to be your personal trainer. Mind you, I run a tight ship, but the benefits and payoffs will tremendous and leave you feeling like a new man.

For those of you who are new to my special assercise program, I will assess your individual “fitness” level, so I will know precisely with what I am working. If you are brand new to anal aerobics, we will begin you with some simple and easy digital, warm-up exercises. I will have you touching, teasing, fingering, and exploring your tushie. We’ll take it slowly, but I do expect that you will advance at a steady pace. Once you are comfortable using your fingers, it will be time to move on to bigger and better things: toys, toys, and –did I mention- toys?

Whether you have access to sex toys (wife’s, girlfriend’s…) or not, I will again investigate your own unique situation and decide how we will ensure that you have the appropriately-sized implements with which to continue your pleasurable probings. I’ll then put you on a workout schedule so we can see an increase in your, uhm… “progress” over time – and, of course, get you accustomed to staying well-stretched. I might even decide to set a specific goal for you to reach in size and/or time spent with your playthings – aka your new “official” exercise equipment.

Under my tutelage, you will become a new man who has a new appreciation for his backside being much, much more than just something to sit upon. You will learn to love using your bum to sit upon something that will send thrills of delight through you from head to toe…

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Mistress Says “Successful Man = Successful Submissive”… (Part Two)

Empress EmmaJane — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 22:33:47 +0000

Yes. You know the ways in which you are perceived by others every day as the big man on campus, making executive decisions and keeping the ranks in line – and you are ready to give that all away in private. That man is not the one you see when you arrive home and you’re all alone, looking at yourself in the mirror. No. That man looking back at you when you are out of the scrutinizing eyes and away from the expectations of others only wants to take off his “boss” hat and trade it in for a slave’s collar or a pair of panties.
When no one else is looking, you desire more than anything to make a 180-degree turn and become the diametric opposite of what and how others see you in your day-to-day life. You wish for this role change because men in your powerful, responsible, and position of control make the best submissives. The reason you make the ideal sub is that you are willing to give yourself completely to a woman – a Mistress- who will strip you of all of your perceived authority and power, and reduce you to a place where all decisions are made for you. You long for a woman to put you in your place, a place far from what you experience in your daily life.

Maybe you long to be dressed in panties or dolled up like a sophisticated, classy woman… or naughty slut! Perhaps you want to be taken by a woman and submit completely to her strap-on. You might even want to be coaxed with firmness into serving other men. What you always know with certainty is that you need a strong, dominant woman to make you her own and do your thinking for you. You want simply to be submissive putty in her firm hands. Whatever your desired flavor of surrender, I am ready to take the reins.

You want it. You need it. Are you ready for it?

~~~Mistress EmmaJane
800-601-7259

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Mistress Says “Successful Man = Successful Submissive”… (Part One)

Empress EmmaJane — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 18:08:12 +0000

Let me ask you a question: Can you repeat any or all of the following and assert them to describe you perfectly?

“I am seen by others to be a man’s man and/or a ‘macho’ man.”

“Others see me as always well-organized, put together, on top of things, and/or a mover and shaker.”

“I strive to always be control of every aspect of my life.”

“I hold a powerful position in my career/workplace.”

“When I am at work/In my career, I am (expected to be) highly responsible, in charge, and always ahead of the game.”

“I am responsible for managing a substantial number of other people and/or departments.”

“Especially in my work position, many people look to me for answers and/or solutions to their problems, and it is my job to address their concerns.”

“In my career, I am highly driven, motivated, and strive for perfection.”

If you can relate to any of these statements, I have several more statements to present for you to try on for size: “I (secretly) tire of being (expected to be) so responsible every day.”

“Always being ‘in charge’ exhausts and drains me.”

“I do not truly enjoy the ‘power trip’ some think my position affords me.” And finally… “I dream of giving up control and letting someone else take the wheel and drive for a while.”

If you can relate to the above, I heartily welcome you for you have found your sanctuary.

I, Mistress EmmaJane, understand how you feel, and I am prepared to give you that freedom that you seek. While you may be seen by others in ways I initially described above, we both know that you long to surrender control and give responsibility for yourself and your actions to someone else, even if only temporarily. In tomorrow’s post, we will explore why you, the man of control, make such a good submissive and slave when placed in the capable hands of a dominant woman…

~~~Mistress EmmaJane 800-601-7259 Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.