Last time on the denial-go-round, we took a look at “no” meaning just that, both in and out of chastity. Now, how about times when “yes” may sound like music to your horny little ears, but that affirmation is NOT indicative of fun times ahead . . . → Read More: The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Five)]]>

“May I Cum?” Well… Yes AND No…

Last time on the denial-go-round, we took a look at “no” meaning just that, both in and out of chastity. Now, how about times when “yes” may sound like music to your horny little ears, but that affirmation is NOT indicative of fun times ahead for you? To that effect, I have two words for you: ruined orgasm…

Cock Control Via Ruined Orgasm

“Ruined orgasm”… I’m sure in your perpetual prick-pulling state that all you hear immediately is the word you so long to hear: orgasm. As opposed to letting Mr. Hard and Horny Head between your legs do your thinking, you need to stop for a moment and ponder things with the head that rests on your shoulders. Look at that word preceding “orgasm.” What does “ruined” mean in this case? Hint: Nothing good for you, whether you’ve got a sissy clitty, nubby needle dick or an ever-excited cock.

What Is a Ruined Orgasm?

Merriam-Webster online defines “ruined” as “facing certain defeat, disaster…” – and you better believe that to be an accurate description of your impending orgasm! While you may just whip it out and go to town with your cock stroking or edge for hours –or days!- there will be an ending, but it will NOT be a happy one. When you are eventually given the go-ahead to erupt like a geyser, you will also be given further instructions, which will turn that cumming sensation that usually feels like a magnificent Fourth of July fireworks display into something like the absent “pop” of a single, dud firecracker.

How Is an Orgasm Ruined???

Whether you are told to take your hand away (aka abandoning) or directed to employ a technique like palming, thumbing, dictating or thwacking, your orgasm will feel like a balloon that has just been deflated. You will experience a sensation that says “Hey! Someone took my orgasm away!” There’s nothing like the orgasm deprivation of a ruined orgasm.

Stroke all you want, my chronic wanker, but your release will NOT bring relief…

In our last get-together, we began exploring some techniques for learning cock control. We began our technique tour by taking a look at masturbation training, stroking schedules, tease and denial, and edging. Now, we’ll push forward and take a look at some additional proven remedies for taming your itty . . . → Read More: The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Four)]]>

More Cock Control Fun!

In our last get-together, we began exploring some techniques for learning cock control. We began our technique tour by taking a look at masturbation training, stroking schedules, tease and denial, and edging. Now, we’ll push forward and take a look at some additional proven remedies for taming your itty bitty clitty, wee little man or ever-edgy, big boy’s cock.

“No!”: When Release Is Denied

When tease and denial just doesn’t work, what is one to try next? Let’s take the teasing out of T&D, and what do we have left? We have denial! Actually, we have more than simple, temporary denial. While you may be allowed to edge for hours or days, the only word you will hear when you beg for release is “No.” If you behave your hands and keep them otherwise entertained, maybe I will set a date on which you will be allowed your jerk-off joy. Fail, and there will be no relief in sight for you.

Locked Up for Your Own Good: Denial Via Chastity

However, if your idle hands become the wanker’s workshop, trusting you to maintain denial will be a privilege promptly removed. We then kick things up a notch and go for orgasm deprivation with a twist: a twist of the key in the lock of your chastity device, where you will remain until such time as I feel you have learned a lesson and/or earned the reward of release. You could be caged for days, weeks or months before being allowed to remove your “penis protector” – and you should consider your break to be just that: a temporary reprieve because after the “O,” back in you go…

Next Up: Even More Methods for Controlling Your Cock

What about adjuncts and additions to the aforementioned techniques? Yes. There are some, and our next post will look at taking the fun out of your release and delving into tricks of the mind that can also help you back off as opposed to constantly getting off.

For as much as I enjoy having . . . → Read More: Celebrate The Season With Double The Fun!]]>

Since I’m a Mistress on a mission and want to make the holidays special for all, I just had a fantastic idea for what you can give as a special gift to yourself this season. Why not double your fun and reward yourself with a two-Mistress call?!

For as much as I enjoy having my way with each and every one of you on a one-on-one basis, I have a blast when another Mistress joins me in toying with you. There’s just something about how the dynamic is changed when you have two Mistresses whose styles integrate in a very complementary way that adds a twist to any session. Regardless of your particular fantasy, there is always a way it can be explored, developed, and enriched by a superb team of Mistresses.

Take a moment to think about how your fantasy can be maximized or take a new turn with two women in control, and consider the following possibilities:

*Two Mistresses take turns in telling you how to stroke. If you want to make that even more exciting, imagine having both of them watch you via cam simultaneously.

*You fantasize about being with two women at the same time. Here is your chance!

*You are a sissy who’s taken on a project of two Mistresses, who choose what you will wear, dress you up, style your hair, and apply your make-up.

*You’re an ill-equipped man who is mocked, humiliated, and ridiculed by your girlfriend and her best friend.

*You are a very obedient –or maybe naughty!- sissy who is “used” as entertainment by your Mistress and her friend, both of whom take turns using their strap-ons on you.

*You’re a sissy who joins your girls for a night out of man-watching, and you all decide to choose a man to take home and share. Maybe they have special plans for you, and the lucky man gets to have his way with you while your girlfriends direct the fun.

These are just some suggestions to “stimulate” your creative juices and encourage you to consider what fun you may be missing. Even if you prefer your sessions to be just you and your Mistress, why not make an exception and allow yourself a new experience. I promise –as always- to make sure your session is a most gratifying one!

800-601-7259 Calls are 2.50 per minute, with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

If . . . → Read More: Time For Lockdown (Part Two)]]>

If you’re one of the enlightened ones who realizes your “self-serving” habits have spiraled out of control, I am here to help you get a (figurative only!) grip so you can get something else accomplished during those sixteen waking (not wanking!) hours of the day when you’re busy endlessly groping and molesting yourself.

If you currently have a chastity device, take it out, have a look at it, and make sure you have all of the parts – and that they are in functional order. I will gladly evaluate whether you have the most suitable device for your own unique, individual needs and lifestyle, and I will ensure that you cannot weasel your way out of it once it is locked. If the one you have is not appropriate for any reason, I will make a recommendation on the particular device I think you need.

If you do not at present time own a chastity device, I can easily determine –with a few questions- just what type of or specific device you need, and I can even direct you to a vendor who carries it. Afraid to go out in public and pick up a cock cage? No worries. You can place your order on the Internet and have your cage promptly delivered to your front door!

So… Get ready to either whip out or order your chastity device, and let’s get you started on a strict, well-monitored stroking program. I’ll have you thinking again with that head on your shoulders in no time!

800-601-6975 Calls are 1.99 per minute with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

World Class – And Erotic!

As we have built and grown our erotic telephone entertainment company over the past 7 years, one thing has become clearer to us . . . → Read More: Ms Ally’s Promise of A Superb Phone Experience AND Exceptional Customer Service – Both Guaranteed!]]>

An Erotic Experience – Combined with World Class Customer Service
by Ms Ally, Owner and HeadMistress of Cock Control: 800-356-6169
Updated September 23, 2009

World Class – And Erotic!

As we have built and grown our erotic telephone entertainment company over the past 7 years, one thing has become clearer to us each day: despite the fact that we’re working in the “Adult Industry”, despite the fact that many of us consider ourselves “Mistresses”, despite the fact that many of our clients come to us in search of a woman to worship and adore and share an erotic experience which is “Femdom” in nature – despite all this, there is one thing that we owe to each and every one of our callers, and that is a World Class customer service experience.

We want to make it very easy, and enjoyable, to do business with us. We want you to be able to pick up the phone and and enjoy yourself fully, and not be concerned that you might not get what you’re hoping to get, or that your billing information might not be secure. Many of the ladies who work here, including me, come from a professional background with a heavy focus on customer service and customer relations. In fact, when we interview potential Mistresses, a background in customer service is definitely something we’re hoping to find. We promise our callers the very best in customer service, and we screen new Mistresses at length to ensure that their own attitudes and beliefs on this subject are in line with the company’s dedication to making our customers happy, each and every time you visit our sites.

Our Promise To You

Here is what I, as owner and Head Mistress of this site, promise to you, my treasured customer:

To read the promise of Head Mistress Ally, which is also the philosophy of each and every fine Mistress of LDW, please see Miss Ally’s letter in its entirety on our Cock Control website.