Some of you simply cannot seem to control yourselves when it comes to touching that cock between your legs. Day in and day out, you stroke and stroke and stroke like you have a jerk-off quota to meet. This is obviously a problem across the spectrum, and applies from those of you whose manhood is a mentionable, noteworthy size… to those of you who are just average in your equipment… all the way down to those of you who suffer from stunted growth aka little dick syndrome. (Of course, you guys with a shortage in your pants –or panties- do appear by far the most out of control and shameless wankers there are.) You cannot stop the incessant and nonstop tugging on your own, whether you give it the good ol’ college try or only a half-hearted effort. This is where I come in…

You need a Mistress who will control that wild Willie for you, telling you when you can grope it and when you cannot. Maybe I need to put you on a masturbation schedule and train you to think and behave in a completely new way when it comes to your self-pleasuring time. Yes. While I can be understanding of your dilemma, I realize you may need a Mistress who will be firm and very strict with you, giving you guidelines, restrictions, rules, and maybe even masturbation assignments and/or exercises – and I can be as whip-cracking as need be if it means you follow instructions or not. Of course, you will follow my every instruction to the letter – or suffer the consequences, which may well be orgasm deprivation or chastity!

Are you prepared for what your training will entail? Do you think you have what it takes to exercise some serious self-discipline? There’s only one way to find out: Take a deep breath, and let’s see if you have what it takes…

800-601-7259 Calls are 2.50 per minute, with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

While most chronic masturbators and keepers of “little men” (which more often than not go hand-in-hand…) cannot keep their hands away from themselves even under direct, “no-touching” orders, I would like to give enormous kudos to the steadfast, self-enforced deprivation that has been successfully managed of late by a couple of my stroker boys. Believe it or not, some chronic wankers really can behave themselves – even when they are not under explicit instructions to refrain from spanking the monkey.

I have experienced some remarkable awe and amazement over a couple of my stroker boys who managed to go for a week or more without indulging themselves. The shock of it is the fact that I am referring to a couple of self-professed chronic masturbators who forsook pleasuring themselves – in the absence of it being forbidden by a Mistress, without any threat if they did so, while wearing NO chastity device, and under absolutely no duress from anyone to abstain. They remained “hands-free” simply by virtue of self-control and willpower.

I am pointing out these exceptional stroker boys to prove a point: Where there is a will, there IS a way! Given these shining examples of masturbatory abstinence, I do not want to hear another whining wanker moan and whimper about how he just cannot stop yanking his own chain. If you must insist that you cannot keep from tugging that little nub, I must immediately counter you with the blatant fact that you have no desire to stop – and even a few days is more than your weak mindset and nonexistent self-discipline can manage. I have only one word to describe your inability to control your own compulsion: pathetic!

On the other hand, I am exceptionally proud of my stroker boys who have looked at the big picture of how explosive it would be the next time they came if they managed to be stroke-free for a while, instead of endlessly whining over their compulsive need to jerk off three or four times a day and inability to take pause. Good job, my strong, self-controlled strokers! I hope the release I so willingly granted you for your good behavior made your efforts worth the while!

What is going on these days? Is there something in the Fall air that has prompted so many stroker boys and sissies alike to become more obsessed than usual with their favorite pastime? I’m not sure what has caused this explosion of uncontrollable stroking, but I am definitely seeing a trend precisely in that direction. Compulsive masturbation is on the rampage, and it is my opinion that the time has come for some of you to be locked up until you can NOT get a grip on things!!

With regard to my stroker boys, some of you obviously think it’s stroking season with unlimited kills, so you’re working your hand(s) overtime before the season ends. My sissies –so many of whom can’t keep their hands out of their panties for more than 10 minutes as it is- are acting like a masturbatory game of beat the clock has commenced, and the sands through the hourglass are falling like a lead balloon! This chronic wanking has escalated to such an epidemic proportion that it’s a wonder national productivity on the work front hasn’t take a complete nosedive. For some of you, I’m beginning to wonder if you’re trying to see how many consecutive strokes it will take to pull Mr. Happy clean right off!

Given your excessive behaviors, it is this Mistress’ strong opinion that it’s time to drag out and dust off those chastity devices. It would seem it’s time to give a widespread lesson on self-control and discipline via very restrictive means, which give you no choice in the matter. Let’s face it. If you can’t get to it, you can grab it, rub it, stroke it or yank it – at all! While that thought may strike unmatched fear into the hearts of the majority of you and seem to be a fate worse than death, contrary to what you may think, you will not meet a slow, lingering, painful demise nor will your willie shrivel up and wither away.

800-601-6975 Calls are 1.99 per minute with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Many of you who are regulars in the LDW community are aware of and visit our Cock Control and Sissy School forums. You know these forums encourage and provide interaction among visitors with each other as well as with our amazing Mistresses. Some of you prefer to lurk in the background while others remain quite active on a regular basis. Whether you prefer to interact or watch from the sidelines, our forums are free for you to enjoy and provide a wealth of information and answers. 

For those of you who may be unfamiliar with or unaware of our Cock Control and Sissy School forums, let me introduce you to them. These boards serve as avenues where you can ask questions, present concerns, listen to audio clips of each Mistress’ voice, and be kept abreast of various activities going on in the world of LDW. While the forums are a way for visitors to relate to and interact with those of like minds, they are also invaluable routes via which the Mistresses can better get to know potential clients as well as keep in touch with current ones.

Whether you are a newbie or a regular fixture in the forums, I encourage you to explore and take full advantage of the fun, camaraderie, and wealth of information available to you on these boards. This is just another way we enhance the personal touch and community feel of the LDW community. Everyone is invited to join in and interact to the extent that he or she feels comfortable.

For those of you who are forum regulars, thank you for being a part of our community. We are thrilled to have you and thoroughly enjoy your presence and involvement. For those of you who are new or unfamiliar with our forums, come on in, look around, and join the fun. We would love to have you!

800-601-6975 Calls are 1.99 per minute with minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Do you spend an inordinately large amount of time masturbating – whether it is repeated jerking and relieving yourself or it’s constant edging? Do you have a difficult time keeping your hands away from your crotch? Are you more times than not preoccupied with the idea of stroking or wondering and planning when you will next have the opportunity to spank your monkey? When you have free time on your hands, do you typically end up with your willie in your hand? If you answered to any of these questions, you could well be –and most likely are- a chronic masturbator who is in need to some self-control and discipline.

If you truly lack the self-control required to keep you from incessantly wanking, you need a training program in which guidance and direction are provided and definite structure is imposed, whereby you are not given free reign to touch yourself at will. Your out-of-control stroking indicates that you require the oversight of a strong Mistress who will ensure that you adhere to the guidelines, plan, and rules for regulating your excessive behavior.

When I encounter a client who needs help in controlling himself and I consider instituting a masturbation control training program, I first assess the severity of his problem. I gauge the frequency of his self-stimulation, explore his “procedure” (i.e., stroking repeatedly to climax or compulsively edging), determine other sexual behaviors in which he engages, and collect various other pieces of pertinent information. Once I have gathered the details I need, I then tailor to the individual potential options for controlling self-pleasuring. These possible approaches range from methods to prevent stroking completely (such as chastity) to moderating self-pleasuring (i.e., being explicitly directed on stroking while in session, given a stroking schedule, requiring regular status reports on behavior via session, IM, and/or e-mail) to using the technique of flooding, where the client is overwhelmed with being ordered to stroke repeatedly.

This is a primer on how I lay out masturbation control programs for those who cannot gain this control on their own. You know if you are out of control and have a problem. I want to know about your problem – and I have the help you need!