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From the Inside Out: “Guided” Mental Masturbation

Empress EmmaJane — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 01:40:02 +0000

“It’s all in your head.” How many times have you heard someone utter that statement within any context? With regard to the mental aspect of masturbation, there is a great gem of truth in that assertion.

While your own thoughts and mindset are an integral part of getting yourself all revved up and making your cock feel good, there is another aspect of the psychology of masturbation that revolves around other ideas in your head: those thoughts that are put there by someone else….

I’m not just talking about someone leading you step-by-step through a rousing session of guided masturbation, providing you with trigger words and fiery sexual mental imagery that takes you in the present moment to the apex of your stroking efforts.

No. I am talking about seemingly innocent suggestions, subtle considerations, hidden meanings, and insidious hints that surface in your mind’s eye hours, days or even weeks later. These are words that you hear when they are spoken, but they infiltrate your subconscious in a way that they linger without your immediate cognizance long after the conversation has ended. These are words that sink their claws into the essence of your fantasies and cause an erotic rush when perhaps you least expect it. This kind of mental masturbation –while presenting as obvious exchanges- is an erotic dance that seductively undulates as it winds its way through the fibers of your mind, triggering flashbacks of your lust and reminding you of those cerebral hot buttons you long to have pushed over and over again. It’s an ongoing mind game of directed masturbation and tease and denial, an intellectual game which drives you back to the source of the seemingly expert understanding of just what fires your pistons. The sensation is so unique that you long for more.

If there’s anything more titillating than being stroking your cock to the point of momentary release, it’s having your psyche tempted, teased, and thoroughly penetrated well beyond the end of a session.

Are you ready to be perpetually psychologically primed? There’s only one way to find out…

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Sensory Overload: A Prelude to Mental Masturbation

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 23:13:44 +0000

While it immediately looks like just a physical act, there’s much more involved in getting your jollies than just your hand and your cock. Self-stimulation –whether solo or guided masturbation- is an act that is progressively heightened by the addition and involvement of each sensory avenue. One begins with the most obvious sense -touch or tactile stimulation- in an effort to give your cock that wake-up call that will begin the journey to eventual orgasm. You might even stroke your cock while engaging in assplay or tweaking your nipples. Very often, many of you add that component that is essential to men, being the visually oriented creatures they are, and that is sight. You browse porn –pictures and/or videos- online or pop in your favorite steamy DVD. Some of you inject taste and smell into the formula for being even more turned on with attractions to dirty panties or a fascination with cum. Then, of course, each of you who embarks on a hot phone sex session is implementing that aural stimulation with the sounds of a sexy, sultry voice. With each sensory route you integrate into your (un)directed masturbation, you make your stroking experience more memorable.

It’s just like building a bonfire. You stack your wood, saturate it with an ignitable substance, and set your fire. As the wood is consumed in flames, you may throw another log or two on the fire, fan the flame so oxygen will encourage the burning, and/or douse the fire with more gasoline or kerosene, all of which perpetuates and accelerates the burning process. The various components intermingle and feed that burning process until you have a veritable inferno, glowing and raging higher and higher. I think that by this point you understand precisely what I mean.

Now, for as much as flooding your five senses with sexy stimuli will elevate your arousal, there is another aspect that is much more abstract and trickier to fire up. Since the brain is the body’s largest sex organ, mental masturbation –especially that which you experience when someone gets inside your head and pushes your mind’s hot buttons- is the proverbial icing on the horny cock cake. Now is when we shift our focus to masturbation of the mind – and being fucked from the inside out…

More Fetish Fun for 2010: Guided Masturbation and Tease & Denial Served with a Side of Forced Bi

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 14:54:14 +0000

Welcome back, my dear readers! As I promised, there’s more in store for you from your Mistress EmmaJane in the upcoming year. Read on to discover more tasty morsels…

Femdom Fetish Fascinations

Control… Domination… Making you beg to serve… Defining Femdom for you… Whether you dream of being submissive to an aggressive, confident, powerful woman who can lull you into submission with fiery yet gentle sensuality – or bring you to your knees with the ferocity and harshness of a stern Domme – I absolutely intend to have my way with you and bring you the welcome relief that comes with surrendering and giving up control.

Guided Masturbation Manipulations

You enjoy hearing a sexy, seductive voice directing your stroking, telling you just when and how to move your hand. I’m always prepared to tell you precisely how I want that cock to be touched – from the strength of your grip to your stroking speed to the exact motion of your hand. Guiding you down that path to release is an exquisite journey, and your cumming on command is the icing on my masturbation cake.

Coerced Cocksucking and Forced Faggot

You fantasize about having a dominant woman subject you to the ultimate humiliation of forcing you to your knees and instructing you on building your oral skills. Never would you imagine the thrill forced bi would bring with your having a cock in your mouth, but the idea of a woman putting you through the paces and insisting that you WILL serve another man with your lips and tongue is too much to resist. Regardless of your initial misgivings or resistance, you will find yourself giving in to those taboo urges and becoming my very own faggot cocksucker.

Tantalizing Tease and Delicious Denial

Do you simply want me to tease you and lead you down that arousing path to a mind-blowing release? Do you long for that repeated edging yet you want to experience a surprise ending – which may or may not culminate in an explosive climax, the decision on which you leave entirely up to me? Maybe you yearn for the ultimate tease of being completely denied? Whether you desire to have me direct your stroking, pushing you to the point where you’re teetering on the verge of orgasm then snatching you away, or you need to be told “No!” repeatedly, I very much enjoy teasing, encouraging, tempting, and –yes- even depriving you.

Oh! The fun there is to be had! Cum join me when you can. I’ll be waiting…

When You Need Cock Control, I Am Here…

Empress EmmaJane — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 12:00:05 +0000

Some of you simply cannot seem to control yourselves when it comes to touching that cock between your legs. Day in and day out, you stroke and stroke and stroke like you have a jerk-off quota to meet. This is obviously a problem across the spectrum, and applies from those of you whose manhood is a mentionable, noteworthy size… to those of you who are just average in your equipment… all the way down to those of you who suffer from stunted growth aka little dick syndrome. (Of course, you guys with a shortage in your pants –or panties- do appear by far the most out of control and shameless wankers there are.) You cannot stop the incessant and nonstop tugging on your own, whether you give it the good ol’ college try or only a half-hearted effort. This is where I come in…

You need a Mistress who will control that wild Willie for you, telling you when you can grope it and when you cannot. Maybe I need to put you on a masturbation schedule and train you to think and behave in a completely new way when it comes to your self-pleasuring time. Yes. While I can be understanding of your dilemma, I realize you may need a Mistress who will be firm and very strict with you, giving you guidelines, restrictions, rules, and maybe even masturbation assignments and/or exercises – and I can be as whip-cracking as need be if it means you follow instructions or not. Of course, you will follow my every instruction to the letter – or suffer the consequences, which may well be orgasm deprivation or chastity!

Are you prepared for what your training will entail? Do you think you have what it takes to exercise some serious self-discipline? There’s only one way to find out: Take a deep breath, and let’s see if you have what it takes…

800-601-7259 Calls are 2.50 per minute, with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Calls are $2.50 per minute, with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Celebrate The Season With Double The Fun!

Empress EmmaJane — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:26:21 +0000

Since I’m a Mistress on a mission and want to make the holidays special for all, I just had a fantastic idea for what you can give as a special gift to yourself this season. Why not double your fun and reward yourself with a two-Mistress call?!

For as much as I enjoy having my way with each and every one of you on a one-on-one basis, I have a blast when another Mistress joins me in toying with you. There’s just something about how the dynamic is changed when you have two Mistresses whose styles integrate in a very complementary way that adds a twist to any session. Regardless of your particular fantasy, there is always a way it can be explored, developed, and enriched by a superb team of Mistresses.

Take a moment to think about how your fantasy can be maximized or take a new turn with two women in control, and consider the following possibilities:

*Two Mistresses take turns in telling you how to stroke. If you want to make that even more exciting, imagine having both of them watch you via cam simultaneously.

*You fantasize about being with two women at the same time. Here is your chance!

*You are a sissy who’s taken on a project of two Mistresses, who choose what you will wear, dress you up, style your hair, and apply your make-up.

*You’re an ill-equipped man who is mocked, humiliated, and ridiculed by your girlfriend and her best friend.

*You are a very obedient –or maybe naughty!- sissy who is “used” as entertainment by your Mistress and her friend, both of whom take turns using their strap-ons on you.

*You’re a sissy who joins your girls for a night out of man-watching, and you all decide to choose a man to take home and share. Maybe they have special plans for you, and the lucky man gets to have his way with you while your girlfriends direct the fun.

These are just some suggestions to “stimulate” your creative juices and encourage you to consider what fun you may be missing. Even if you prefer your sessions to be just you and your Mistress, why not make an exception and allow yourself a new experience. I promise –as always- to make sure your session is a most gratifying one!

800-601-7259 Calls are 2.50 per minute, with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Kudos To My Chronic Stroker Boys Who CAN Actually Say “No”!

Empress EmmaJane — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 13:23:02 +0000

While most chronic masturbators and keepers of “little men” (which more often than not go hand-in-hand…) cannot keep their hands away from themselves even under direct, “no-touching” orders, I would like to give enormous kudos to the steadfast, self-enforced deprivation that has been successfully managed of late by a couple of my stroker boys. Believe it or not, some chronic wankers really can behave themselves – even when they are not under explicit instructions to refrain from spanking the monkey.

I have experienced some remarkable awe and amazement over a couple of my stroker boys who managed to go for a week or more without indulging themselves. The shock of it is the fact that I am referring to a couple of self-professed chronic masturbators who forsook pleasuring themselves – in the absence of it being forbidden by a Mistress, without any threat if they did so, while wearing NO chastity device, and under absolutely no duress from anyone to abstain. They remained “hands-free” simply by virtue of self-control and willpower.

I am pointing out these exceptional stroker boys to prove a point: Where there is a will, there IS a way! Given these shining examples of masturbatory abstinence, I do not want to hear another whining wanker moan and whimper about how he just cannot stop yanking his own chain. If you must insist that you cannot keep from tugging that little nub, I must immediately counter you with the blatant fact that you have no desire to stop – and even a few days is more than your weak mindset and nonexistent self-discipline can manage. I have only one word to describe your inability to control your own compulsion: pathetic!

On the other hand, I am exceptionally proud of my stroker boys who have looked at the big picture of how explosive it would be the next time they came if they managed to be stroke-free for a while, instead of endlessly whining over their compulsive need to jerk off three or four times a day and inability to take pause. Good job, my strong, self-controlled strokers! I hope the release I so willingly granted you for your good behavior made your efforts worth the while!

: 800-601-7259 Calls are 2.50 per minute, with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Time For Lockdown (Part Two)

Empress EmmaJane — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 06:09:08 +0000

If you’re one of the enlightened ones who realizes your “self-serving” habits have spiraled out of control, I am here to help you get a (figurative only!) grip so you can get something else accomplished during those sixteen waking (not wanking!) hours of the day when you’re busy endlessly groping and molesting yourself.

If you currently have a chastity device, take it out, have a look at it, and make sure you have all of the parts – and that they are in functional order. I will gladly evaluate whether you have the most suitable device for your own unique, individual needs and lifestyle, and I will ensure that you cannot weasel your way out of it once it is locked. If the one you have is not appropriate for any reason, I will make a recommendation on the particular device I think you need.

If you do not at present time own a chastity device, I can easily determine –with a few questions- just what type of or specific device you need, and I can even direct you to a vendor who carries it. Afraid to go out in public and pick up a cock cage? No worries. You can place your order on the Internet and have your cage promptly delivered to your front door!

So… Get ready to either whip out or order your chastity device, and let’s get you started on a strict, well-monitored stroking program. I’ll have you thinking again with that head on your shoulders in no time!

800-601-6975 Calls are 1.99 per minute with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Red Alert! Red Alert! Time For Lockdown (Part One)

Empress EmmaJane — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 18:55:35 +0000

What is going on these days? Is there something in the Fall air that has prompted so many stroker boys and sissies alike to become more obsessed than usual with their favorite pastime? I’m not sure what has caused this explosion of uncontrollable stroking, but I am definitely seeing a trend precisely in that direction. Compulsive masturbation is on the rampage, and it is my opinion that the time has come for some of you to be locked up until you can NOT get a grip on things!!

With regard to my stroker boys, some of you obviously think it’s stroking season with unlimited kills, so you’re working your hand(s) overtime before the season ends. My sissies –so many of whom can’t keep their hands out of their panties for more than 10 minutes as it is- are acting like a masturbatory game of beat the clock has commenced, and the sands through the hourglass are falling like a lead balloon! This chronic wanking has escalated to such an epidemic proportion that it’s a wonder national productivity on the work front hasn’t take a complete nosedive. For some of you, I’m beginning to wonder if you’re trying to see how many consecutive strokes it will take to pull Mr. Happy clean right off!

Given your excessive behaviors, it is this Mistress’ strong opinion that it’s time to drag out and dust off those chastity devices. It would seem it’s time to give a widespread lesson on self-control and discipline via very restrictive means, which give you no choice in the matter. Let’s face it. If you can’t get to it, you can grab it, rub it, stroke it or yank it – at all! While that thought may strike unmatched fear into the hearts of the majority of you and seem to be a fate worse than death, contrary to what you may think, you will not meet a slow, lingering, painful demise nor will your willie shrivel up and wither away.

800-601-6975 Calls are 1.99 per minute with a minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Join The Fun: Frequent The Forums!

Empress EmmaJane — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 06:43:10 +0000

Many of you who are regulars in the LDW community are aware of and visit our Cock Control and Sissy School forums. You know these forums encourage and provide interaction among visitors with each other as well as with our amazing Mistresses. Some of you prefer to lurk in the background while others remain quite active on a regular basis. Whether you prefer to interact or watch from the sidelines, our forums are free for you to enjoy and provide a wealth of information and answers.

For those of you who may be unfamiliar with or unaware of our Cock Control and Sissy School forums, let me introduce you to them. These boards serve as avenues where you can ask questions, present concerns, listen to audio clips of each Mistress’ voice, and be kept abreast of various activities going on in the world of LDW. While the forums are a way for visitors to relate to and interact with those of like minds, they are also invaluable routes via which the Mistresses can better get to know potential clients as well as keep in touch with current ones.

Whether you are a newbie or a regular fixture in the forums, I encourage you to explore and take full advantage of the fun, camaraderie, and wealth of information available to you on these boards. This is just another way we enhance the personal touch and community feel of the LDW community. Everyone is invited to join in and interact to the extent that he or she feels comfortable.

For those of you who are forum regulars, thank you for being a part of our community. We are thrilled to have you and thoroughly enjoy your presence and involvement. For those of you who are new or unfamiliar with our forums, come on in, look around, and join the fun. We would love to have you!

800-601-6975 Calls are 1.99 per minute with minimum of 10 minutes, billed to your credit card.

Mind Over Body: Learning to Control Your Urges

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 08:23:55 +0000

Do you spend an inordinately large amount of time masturbating – whether it is repeated jerking and relieving yourself or it’s constant edging? Do you have a difficult time keeping your hands away from your crotch? Are you more times than not preoccupied with the idea of stroking or wondering and planning when you will next have the opportunity to spank your monkey? When you have free time on your hands, do you typically end up with your willie in your hand? If you answered to any of these questions, you could well be –and most likely are- a chronic masturbator who is in need to some self-control and discipline.

If you truly lack the self-control required to keep you from incessantly wanking, you need a training program in which guidance and direction are provided and definite structure is imposed, whereby you are not given free reign to touch yourself at will. Your out-of-control stroking indicates that you require the oversight of a strong Mistress who will ensure that you adhere to the guidelines, plan, and rules for regulating your excessive behavior.

When I encounter a client who needs help in controlling himself and I consider instituting a masturbation control training program, I first assess the severity of his problem. I gauge the frequency of his self-stimulation, explore his “procedure” (i.e., stroking repeatedly to climax or compulsively edging), determine other sexual behaviors in which he engages, and collect various other pieces of pertinent information. Once I have gathered the details I need, I then tailor to the individual potential options for controlling self-pleasuring. These possible approaches range from methods to prevent stroking completely (such as chastity) to moderating self-pleasuring (i.e., being explicitly directed on stroking while in session, given a stroking schedule, requiring regular status reports on behavior via session, IM, and/or e-mail) to using the technique of flooding, where the client is overwhelmed with being ordered to stroke repeatedly.

This is a primer on how I lay out masturbation control programs for those who cannot gain this control on their own. You know if you are out of control and have a problem. I want to know about your problem – and I have the help you need!