It’s an important topic we’ve discussed previously, and –due to a delightful and very insightful caller with whom I had a session yesterday- I feel that now is an appropriate time to revisit the sense of stress relief some men derive from crossdressing. Even if you’re . . . → Read More: Crossdressing, Feminization, and Submission: A Recipe for Stress Relief]]>

Better than Calgon: “Crossdressing, Take Me Away!“

It’s an important topic we’ve discussed previously, and –due to a delightful and very insightful caller with whom I had a session yesterday- I feel that now is an appropriate time to revisit the sense of stress relief some men derive from crossdressing. Even if you’re not familiar with my posts or we haven’t personally discussed this phenomenon, there are many of you who can very easily identify with the experience I am about to describe…

He’s the Man in Charge During the Day…

To the external world, you exhibit the persona of a man’s man: confident, in charge, masculine, maybe even aggressive. When you are at work, your image is further reinforced. You expected and required to function at the peak of machismo performance: incredibly responsible, able to direct and motivate others, making snap executive decisions, always on top of your game. You are always in charge and in control – perhaps to an extreme.

When the Man Always in Control Needs to Be Controlled

But… While you are busy keeping everyone motivated and each day running smoothly, when do you ever get a break from the stress that coincides with being “the” man? When do you get to just relax and enjoy a worry-free moment that is completely for you? How do you just let the stress go? Yours is an unconventional but very effective method for regrouping: You get all dressed up and have someone else temporarily do your thinking for you.

Stress Relief Is Just a Satin Slip Away

The moment you have time to yourself, you know exactly what will help you to breathe a huge sigh of relief. “Crossdressing” and “feminization” are the magic words, so you select something very feminine to wear. Perhaps you long to slip into a lone pair of delicate panties or a soft satin bra and panty set. Maybe you want to go a bit farther and wind a garter belt around your waist, slide your toes into a pair of nylon stockings, delicately fasten those metal garter hooks to the cloud of lace at the top of each stocking, and gingerly work your nylon-clad feet into a lovely or sexy pair of heels. Then again, you may desire to go all the way, and select a very feminine dress or a skirt and blouse ensemble. In any event, you choose what feels just perfect at the moment.

Submitting to Your Crossdressing Calling

Then questions begin to arise: Do you want to dress yourself first OR do you long to hear a strong dominant woman sensually or strictly lead you through your dressing ritual? Whether you present yourself all dolled up for her or desire her to have you get dressed per her instructions, how submissive do you want to be to her? Do you want to be her classy protege or her sexy slut? Do you want her to humiliate you – and, if so, how and to what degree? What kinds of things do you want her to order or coax you into doing?