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Crossdressing, Feminization, and Submission: A Recipe for Stress Relief

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 26 May 2011 03:55:02 +0000

Better than Calgon: “Crossdressing, Take Me Away!“

It’s an important topic we’ve discussed previously, and –due to a delightful and very insightful caller with whom I had a session yesterday- I feel that now is an appropriate time to revisit the sense of stress relief some men derive from crossdressing. Even if you’re not familiar with my posts or we haven’t personally discussed this phenomenon, there are many of you who can very easily identify with the experience I am about to describe…

He’s the Man in Charge During the Day…

To the external world, you exhibit the persona of a man’s man: confident, in charge, masculine, maybe even aggressive. When you are at work, your image is further reinforced. You expected and required to function at the peak of machismo performance: incredibly responsible, able to direct and motivate others, making snap executive decisions, always on top of your game. You are always in charge and in control – perhaps to an extreme.

When the Man Always in Control Needs to Be Controlled

But… While you are busy keeping everyone motivated and each day running smoothly, when do you ever get a break from the stress that coincides with being “the” man? When do you get to just relax and enjoy a worry-free moment that is completely for you? How do you just let the stress go? Yours is an unconventional but very effective method for regrouping: You get all dressed up and have someone else temporarily do your thinking for you.

Stress Relief Is Just a Satin Slip Away

The moment you have time to yourself, you know exactly what will help you to breathe a huge sigh of relief. “Crossdressing” and “feminization” are the magic words, so you select something very feminine to wear. Perhaps you long to slip into a lone pair of delicate panties or a soft satin bra and panty set. Maybe you want to go a bit farther and wind a garter belt around your waist, slide your toes into a pair of nylon stockings, delicately fasten those metal garter hooks to the cloud of lace at the top of each stocking, and gingerly work your nylon-clad feet into a lovely or sexy pair of heels. Then again, you may desire to go all the way, and select a very feminine dress or a skirt and blouse ensemble. In any event, you choose what feels just perfect at the moment.

Submitting to Your Crossdressing Calling

Then questions begin to arise: Do you want to dress yourself first OR do you long to hear a strong dominant woman sensually or strictly lead you through your dressing ritual? Whether you present yourself all dolled up for her or desire her to have you get dressed per her instructions, how submissive do you want to be to her? Do you want to be her classy protege or her sexy slut? Do you want her to humiliate you – and, if so, how and to what degree? What kinds of things do you want her to order or coax you into doing?

Potential answers to these questions swirl around in your head as you go for the phone, feeling your stress already beginning to decline, knowing that by the end of your session, you will be feeling like a new man…

To be continued…

Calling All Foot Fetishists, Lovers, and Worshippers: The Attraction to Your Mistress’ Feet

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 01:01:09 +0000

Fancying Feet: The Current Craze

Hello, my dedicated feet and toe lovers! It seems to me there’s been quite a buzz about honoring and worshipping feet lately, so let us take some time to talk about your love of tootsies – aka your blazing podophila!

What Is the Attaction?

What is it about feet that makes you want to drop to your knees where your face is inches from those color-tipped, immaculately manicured toes? Why is it that you get all revved up and excited when you slip a shoe slowly off of a nylon-covered tootsie and slide your hands all over it? Just what do you find so appealing about bowing in front of and glorifying a pair of peds?

Lustful Leering at Those Tempting Tootsies

Is it that you find unmatched visual appeal in the foot’s appearance? Oh… Your gaze fixes upon the gentle slope of the topside of those lovely feet. So soft… So smooth… Your eyes then fall upon each and every painted toenail, then wander to the sensitive undersides of them. You’re drawn to that delicate, sexy, subtle rise and fall of the arch, which joins the ball of the foot to the heel. Your eyes roam while your hard cock grows…

Kiss Those Toes and Lick Those Soles

Let’s not forget one of the aspects over which so many foot lovers drool: the smell of feet that have been encased within the strict confines of shoes all day long. How do you feel when you release a foot from its leather prison, and the first essence to waft up your eager nostrils is the pungent scent of sweat. Of course, that aroma of nastiness only makes you salivate, anticipating the moment when your lips will brush against those toes, just before you extend your tongue and slip it between each and every one of those smelly digits.

Hit Those Knees and Worship ‘Til Your Heart’s Content

To worship, to wallow, to adore feet… Smelly feet… Dirty feet… Your Mistress’ feet… You’ll bow at them at a moment’s notice and pay full homage to them – relishing those feet, regardless of the current condition in which you find them. Why? Because you have a foot fetish that just will not stop!

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Four)

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 17 Mar 2011 03:59:02 +0000

More Cock Control Fun!

In our last get-together, we began exploring some techniques for learning cock control. We began our technique tour by taking a look at masturbation training, stroking schedules, tease and denial, and edging. Now, we’ll push forward and take a look at some additional proven remedies for taming your itty bitty clitty, wee little man or ever-edgy, big boy’s cock.

“No!”: When Release Is Denied

When tease and denial just doesn’t work, what is one to try next? Let’s take the teasing out of T&D, and what do we have left? We have denial! Actually, we have more than simple, temporary denial. While you may be allowed to edge for hours or days, the only word you will hear when you beg for release is “No.” If you behave your hands and keep them otherwise entertained, maybe I will set a date on which you will be allowed your jerk-off joy. Fail, and there will be no relief in sight for you.

Locked Up for Your Own Good: Denial Via Chastity

However, if your idle hands become the wanker’s workshop, trusting you to maintain denial will be a privilege promptly removed. We then kick things up a notch and go for orgasm deprivation with a twist: a twist of the key in the lock of your chastity device, where you will remain until such time as I feel you have learned a lesson and/or earned the reward of release. You could be caged for days, weeks or months before being allowed to remove your “penis protector” – and you should consider your break to be just that: a temporary reprieve because after the “O,” back in you go…

Next Up: Even More Methods for Controlling Your Cock

What about adjuncts and additions to the aforementioned techniques? Yes. There are some, and our next post will look at taking the fun out of your release and delving into tricks of the mind that can also help you back off as opposed to constantly getting off.

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Three)

Empress EmmaJane — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 07:29:41 +0000

Now, Who Are Those Chronic Strokers?

In my last post, we discussed several different types of chronic willie wankers and how each kind can get completely carried away and consumed by curling their sticky little fingers around their “equipment” and stroking, stroking, and stroking! We talked about a sissy’s fondling fascination with her little clitty, that leaps to attention as soon as those soft satin or silky panties slide over that tiny bulge. Also, there was talk of men whose growth deficiencies leave them in the position of being a worm wrangler, and we closed with men who just can’t say “No!” to the head-rearing of their lap lizard.

Introducing Mission Cock Control…

The next thing we need to begin addressing is this question: How does one control a stroke-craving clitty, dicklet or cock? Despite these different members, there are some remedies that are applicable and successful with all of them, and we shall explore some of these all-purpose cock control efforts in this post. This will be an introduction of methods into which we will delve more deeply in future posts.

Masturbation Training with a Side Order of Scheduled Stroking

Masturbation training is an excellent way to “teach” you how to better control that driving compulsion to jerk off constantly. One of the things we’ll do is put you on a stroking schedule. The severity of your “problem” and my perception of your ability to follow instructions to the letter will determine how frequently –or rarely!- you are allowed both masturbation privileges AND relief. Just because you get to work on your trek towards carpal tunnel syndrome, this does NOT mean you will get to release.

Tease and Denial: To Cum or Not to Cum…

This leads us to another method that can be used to address your palm pounding: tease and denial. Perhaps I will have you relentlessly edging yourself –either on your stroking schedule and/or within our sessions. You will work your hand only when I tell you to do so – and you will either stop your hand or remove it completely when I instruct you to stop. The temporariness or extendedness of your denial will depend on your ability to follow directions, and do precisely what I expect of you.

Now, if you are unsuccessful with these methods, where do we go next? Stay tuned…

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Two)

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 06:27:44 +0000

Dick Diddler ISO Cock Control!

So we have established your “issue”: You have a “problematic” prick that is in dire need of cock control. Now, you need to ask for help. “How do I go about it?” you ask. Well, it is quite simple: Step into the virtual office of sexpert EmmaJane, and together we will collaborate, form a plan, and keep your hands from permanently freezing in a clenched stroking position!

What Kind of Pud Pounder Are You?

The first thing we need to establish is what kind of chronic masturbator you are (as well as your stroking severity) so that I will have a clear idea of why you can’t keep your hands off of yourself. Knowing your prick-pounding personality will help me to determine the reason(s) for your incessant hand-humping. Tell Mistress EmmaJane all about yourself…

The Self-Loving Sissy Stroker

Maybe you’re a sissy who has an ever-excited, itty bitty clitty, and it’s always rearing its mini-head, begging for attention. You’re so overwhelmed when you get all dolled up in your lingerie and frilly dresses that you can hardly keep your tiny pee-pee tucked inside your panties. Even when you do manage to keep your almost-microscopic clitty in your ruffled panties, you can’t keep from slipping your hand beneath your petticoats and straight toward your crotch.

The Little-Dicked Gherkin Jerker

Perhaps you are a man who is all grown up now, but your little dick didn’t get the memo. Every time you look down into your lap, the corners of your mouth turn down in frustration and you are reminded of how inadequate you are. So… Since you know all too well that women will scowl, laugh, and be completely disinterested in having any form of sex with you, you simply take the easy route and tend to business yourself, but you just can’t get enough…

The Compulsive Carrot Cuffer

On the other hand, maybe your cock is a decent or even above-average size, and, while you get plenty of action with a partner, you are still compelled to spend entirely too much time with yourself. “It just feels so good,” you say, and, of course, it feels good. However, it feels good to do many things, but you don’t spend every waking moment preoccupied and distracted by thoughts of the next time you’ll have a chance to do them – and you don’t insist on doing them over and over and over… Give it a rest already!

Next Step: Learning to Limit Your Mule Loping

Once we have determined into which classification of compulsive cock crankers you fall, it is now time for me to decide how to help you put on the brakes – before you break off your boner!! Join me for the next installment, where we will begin looking at some methods for getting your excessive hand-humping under control…

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part One)

Empress EmmaJane — Mon, 28 Feb 2011 20:34:50 +0000

Admitting You Can’t Leave Your Dick Alone

Choking the chicken… Spanking the monkey… Playing pocket pool… You just love to masturbate, and you wrestle your eel every chance you get. However, you know your naughty habits are entirely too excessive and a bit too much for you to handle. You’ve tried to slow yourself and give your wrist a rest, but you can’t seem to stop. What is a chronic wanker to do? It just so happens that I have the answer to your diddling dick dilemma…

Acknowledging That You Need Cock Control

First, you must admit that obviously you cannot do it alone. You are in dire need of assistance, guidance, and –most of all- discipline. Where will you get such direction? Well… The help you need is in the form of a strong woman who can exert her influence over you… a dominant woman who will hold you accountable and refuse to settle for lame excuses. This woman will teach you something very important; she will teach you cock control. That woman is… Me!

How Big –or Little!- Is Your Problem?

Whether you are an unruly stroking sissy, owner of an ever-horny little dick or simply a man obsessed with jerking off every chance you get, you need to learn some boundaries, limits, and rules. The first thing I will do is to assess the severity of your chronic masturbation. Once I have determined the depth of your problem, I will then decide what we need to do in order to control that cock!

What Will I Do With Your Compulsive Cock?

Some of the obvious options are providing you with masturbation training, putting you on a stroking schedule, teasing and denying you, instituting more aggressive orgasm deprivation, subjecting you to ruined orgasms, and even locking you in chastity. If we attempt one avenue but it does not appear to be working, we will up the ante and take a stronger approach! In any event, you WILL learn to control that cock and your desire to incessantly stroke. What method will you require?

To be continued…

Is That It?!?! Well-Deserved Humiliation for a Pencil Small Dick

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 24 Feb 2011 05:00:37 +0000

Words of the Small Dick

Little… Runtish… Wee… Shrimpy… Miniature… Tiny… Inadequate… Scrawny… Slender… Pin-like… Oh! The list of words that are so “fitting” when describing a small dick seems almost endless. Too bad there is such a large pool of descriptors for something so pathetic, useless, and teeny! If you’re a man who has heard any of the plethora of terms that can be uttered by a woman in shock to describe the horror and disappointment of seeing a wimpy weenie, we need to talk…

Defining a Small Dick

So… You with the dinky dick… the puny pecker… the bite-sized boner… Let us get one thing very clear: YOU are insufficient and have a waifish worm if (1) Your dicklet is small and toylike and/or (2) You have a skinny pencil dick. If you are lacking in length and/or girth, then YOU have a small dick! 7” in length, but no bigger around than a needle? Small dick! As thick as a fireman’s hose, but a mere 3” with a full hard-on? Small dick! If you’re on the proverbial short end of either stick, then YOU are lacking AND you DO, in fact, have a less-than-desirable –and small!!- dick!

Deserved Humiliation for the Small Dick

Now, while no woman in her right mind is going to have any interest in your lack of manhood, at least it can provide her with some amusement! Since you do not measure up, it is only natural that laughter and humiliation should be directed at the scrubby, fingerlike projection between your legs. Seriously! What do you expect? To be welcomed with open legs and invited in for a visit? I think not! In such a case, laughter is definitely the best medicine for being subjected to a dainty dick. Not to mention the fact that you deserve to be embarrassed, maligned, and ridiculed for calling yourself a “man.”

Not a “Real” Dick? NOT a Real Man!

A “real man” has a real cock, one that can satisfy a woman’s desire to be stretched AND filled. When you cannot accomplish BOTH of these goals, you are a worthless, pitiful, and pathetic wannabe man. You’re a prick poser! The next time you think about revealing your “little” secret to an unsuspecting woman, keep in mind just what you deserve: fits of laughter, merciless mocking, chastising, and full-on humiliation! Then… Once you have been made to feel as miniature as your nipped nub, put that thing away and keep it where it belongs: out of sight (or in a pair of panties)!!

Cuckolding and the Humiliation of a Small Dick (Part III): The Thrill and the Angst

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 03:41:13 +0000

You now understand that you were meant to be a cuckold. Being a cuck is your true position in Life, and the more you think of the woman you love being fucked and filled by a big cock, the more you begin to experience a flurry of colliding and opposing emotions. One moment you are utterly humiliated because you know your small dick will never be enough to satisfy your partner. You feel helpless because your lack of size is beyond your control to change or correct. The embarrassment of another man being aware that you must defer to him the enjoyment of pleasuring your partner’s pussy because he has what you do not is overwhelming. You also find yourself experiencing feelings of great jealousy at the prospect of your woman being fucked and filled by another man. It’s not that you’re wanting her to fuck other men out of some voyeuristic kink of yours, but rather you want her to experience the fucking, filling, stretching, and pussy pumping that you cannot give her with your nub. Perhaps this jealousy spawns anger, shame, guilt, and/or other negative feelings, but…

From another perspective, when you imagine her lying back, legs spread with a most substantial cock making her writhe, moan, and cum, you cannot deny the shiver of excitement that races right down to that tinker toy dick, making it twitch and wriggle. When you experience this rush, you find yourself bewildered and puzzled at how you can feel this warped sense of arousal over “your” woman being pleasured by another man. It’s confusing for you to feel jealousy and titillation both at the same time. You want her to be happy and satisfied, but you feel twinges of angst over having to rely on someone else to provide her with the sexual fulfillment she wants and needs. On the one hand, you feel at least somewhat proud of –and maybe even impressed with- yourself for being open-minded enough to encourage your partner to fuck other men. On the other hand, you feel like a pitiful excuse for a man for “granting permission” to your partner to seek out a “real” man who can please her sexually. You simultaneously feel that you have a choice yet no choice at all – especially if you have any hope of keeping your woman in the relationship.

Despite this cyclone of emotions, you know you have no choice but to go forward and pledge yourself to be a dedicated cuckold…

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Cuckolding and the Humiliation of a Small Dick (Part II): The Realization That You Are Meant to be a Cuckold

Empress EmmaJane — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 07:33:01 +0000

Attention, future cuck! Whether or not you want to accept it, you know that your small dick is simply not enough to satisfy your woman – or any woman for that matter. Maybe you’ve seen more subtle signals such as her growing lack of interest in sex with you or going out while you are left at home. Perhaps she has decided to cut to the chase and be clear about your inadequacies and her resulting frustration, so she tells you that your cock is too small for her… or she begins talking about her ex who had a nice big dick. In any event, you get the picture, and it is crystal clear: Your teeny weenie has been vetoed. Permission to fuck denied!

As your first course of action, you try to compensate for having such a tiny worm between your legs by using your oral skills to please your woman. You assume that as long as you can use your tongue to get her off that you are making up for being unable to fill her pussy. However, you know deep down that this is at best only a temporary solution because you are still not giving her that sensation of stretching and fullness that her pussy needs – and very much wants. You can even integrate a variety of vibrators and dildos into your oral routine or use a cock extension in order to give her “more” – but still the song remains the same: Your dicklet is still too small. She wants to feel the “real” thing, and you don’t have it! What’s a little dicked man to do now?

So… You love your partner, and you decide you’re willing to do anything to keep her happy – even if that means giving her the go-ahead to find the gratification she needs elsewhere. You wrestle with the idea of allowing her to seek out other men – well-endowed men – realizing that you are entering the Land of Small Dick Humiliation. Nonetheless, you want her to stay with you, even if that means your lack of manhood suffers extreme shame and embarrassment because you are now relying on other men –“real” men- to give your partner that big thick cock she so badly wants. If that is what you must endure to keep her, then so be it.

As you come to fully accept your impending and inevitable status as a cuckold, the emotional turmoil begins… For an erotic phone sex session with me, Empress EmmaJane, call 800-601-6975. Must be 18+ to call. Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum. Discreetly billed to a major credit card http://ratemycall.com/

Cuckolding and the Humiliation of a Small Dick (Intro): Dispelling Dick Myths

Empress EmmaJane — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 00:29:52 +0000

Before we delve into the world of the novice cuckold, let’s establish a couple of facts about your dick size – and differentiate between what you think and what women want:

*If you have to ask whether your cock is (too) small, then it is. Despite the ready availability of statistical averages available on the Internet regarding the range of average cock size (both length AND girth, boys!), it does not take a rocket scientist to determine that 4” is below average and, therefore, small.

*“Small” does NOT apply to length only! Studies, polls, surveys, and interviews consistently show that women attach more importance to girth over length! If your cock is 7” long and looks like an elongated finger, your dick IS small!! Women want stretched and filled, not pummeled and probed like you’re dick is a probing apparatus drilling for oil!

*If you have to ask if your cock is too small to please a woman, then sadly it is.
If you’re “not sure” whether your wife or girlfriend is sexually satisfied with you, then she’s not.

*If you have both a short and skinny cock, you’ve suffered the double whammy, and –before you ask- you already know that no woman in her right mind is even remotely interested in having anything to do with your inadequate dicklet.

*If you have a little dick and a woman actually agrees to have sex with you, she either feels some misguided obligation or she feels sorry for you, and it’s just a mercy fuck.

*Size DOES matter!

*”Knowing what you’re doing” aka technique does NOT make up for having a small dick! When your poor, little, insufficient cock is too tiny to feel, it doesn’t matter how “skillfully” you think you’re using it. When your cock is no more noticeable than a finger when it’s inside of her pussy, regardless of what you do, you’re not doing anything she can’t do for herself!

*Going down on a woman and making her cum via your oral skills does NOT make up for having a small dick!

*If your woman is “overly fond” of her toys, it’s because your inchworm is not getting the job done. Take a look at her goodies, then take a peek into your undies. See a difference in size? Of course, you do…

Next up: Your small dick leads you to realize your fate… You are a cuckold in the making!