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Crossdressing, Feminization, and Submission: A Recipe for Stress Relief

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 26 May 2011 03:55:02 +0000

Better than Calgon: “Crossdressing, Take Me Away!“

It’s an important topic we’ve discussed previously, and –due to a delightful and very insightful caller with whom I had a session yesterday- I feel that now is an appropriate time to revisit the sense of stress relief some men derive from crossdressing. Even if you’re not familiar with my posts or we haven’t personally discussed this phenomenon, there are many of you who can very easily identify with the experience I am about to describe…

He’s the Man in Charge During the Day…

To the external world, you exhibit the persona of a man’s man: confident, in charge, masculine, maybe even aggressive. When you are at work, your image is further reinforced. You expected and required to function at the peak of machismo performance: incredibly responsible, able to direct and motivate others, making snap executive decisions, always on top of your game. You are always in charge and in control – perhaps to an extreme.

When the Man Always in Control Needs to Be Controlled

But… While you are busy keeping everyone motivated and each day running smoothly, when do you ever get a break from the stress that coincides with being “the” man? When do you get to just relax and enjoy a worry-free moment that is completely for you? How do you just let the stress go? Yours is an unconventional but very effective method for regrouping: You get all dressed up and have someone else temporarily do your thinking for you.

Stress Relief Is Just a Satin Slip Away

The moment you have time to yourself, you know exactly what will help you to breathe a huge sigh of relief. “Crossdressing” and “feminization” are the magic words, so you select something very feminine to wear. Perhaps you long to slip into a lone pair of delicate panties or a soft satin bra and panty set. Maybe you want to go a bit farther and wind a garter belt around your waist, slide your toes into a pair of nylon stockings, delicately fasten those metal garter hooks to the cloud of lace at the top of each stocking, and gingerly work your nylon-clad feet into a lovely or sexy pair of heels. Then again, you may desire to go all the way, and select a very feminine dress or a skirt and blouse ensemble. In any event, you choose what feels just perfect at the moment.

Submitting to Your Crossdressing Calling

Then questions begin to arise: Do you want to dress yourself first OR do you long to hear a strong dominant woman sensually or strictly lead you through your dressing ritual? Whether you present yourself all dolled up for her or desire her to have you get dressed per her instructions, how submissive do you want to be to her? Do you want to be her classy protege or her sexy slut? Do you want her to humiliate you – and, if so, how and to what degree? What kinds of things do you want her to order or coax you into doing?

Potential answers to these questions swirl around in your head as you go for the phone, feeling your stress already beginning to decline, knowing that by the end of your session, you will be feeling like a new man…

To be continued…

Mistress’ Tired Toes in Need of Foot Lover for Massage and General Adoration

Empress EmmaJane — Mon, 25 Apr 2011 22:44:46 +0000

So… I spent my Easter Sunday outside amidst my flower garden. (Yes. I am very much a true Southern girl when it comes to pretty things – especially my flowers!) I spent all day stooping, squatting, bending over, and crawling around in the dirt – barefoot and in my sexy little shorts. (Yes. Go ahead and get your mental image – especially of my naked tootsies…)

When I finally finished planting and tending my herbs and colorful flowers, I walked to my back door, and had a flash: I most certainly was in need of a passionate foot slave… a podophilia pet, who would greet me with hands and mouth fully prepared to service my tired, sweaty, dirt-covered feet. I could clearly envision a dedicated foot boy, kneeling just inside the door, eagerly waiting to gently brush the specks of dirt and dust from my toes and the soles of my feet. He would also be ready to massage my tired tootsies in an effort to help me relax.

Once inside and after his initial attention to my lovely but brown-tinged feet, it would be time for my foot slave to place my feet into a hot and steamy foot bath, where he would rinse my feet just before lifting each foot from the tub for a very personalized cleaning with his mouth and tongue. Ah… I imagined just how delightful it would feel to have my foot boy’s tongue slipping and sliding between each and every one of my gritty, smelly toes, winding his busy lips over and around toe after toe… Maybe even burying his face between my feet and wallowing in them as if they were a soft, inviting pillow.

After the delicious foot bath, it would be time for a long, lengthy, luscious massage with my foot slave showing just how much he adores worshipping my tantalizing tootsies – regardless of how clean and sweet-smelling OR dirty, sweaty, and smelly they might happen to be. After all, a true foot slave cares not what shape his Mistress’ feet appear to be; his desire to serve is enflamed simply by having those objects of desire right there in front of him… in his face… touching his lips… filling his mouth… He just wants to worship!

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Five)

Empress EmmaJane — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 00:54:15 +0000

“May I Cum?” Well… Yes AND No…

Last time on the denial-go-round, we took a look at “no” meaning just that, both in and out of chastity. Now, how about times when “yes” may sound like music to your horny little ears, but that affirmation is NOT indicative of fun times ahead for you? To that effect, I have two words for you: ruined orgasm…

Cock Control Via Ruined Orgasm

“Ruined orgasm”… I’m sure in your perpetual prick-pulling state that all you hear immediately is the word you so long to hear: orgasm. As opposed to letting Mr. Hard and Horny Head between your legs do your thinking, you need to stop for a moment and ponder things with the head that rests on your shoulders. Look at that word preceding “orgasm.” What does “ruined” mean in this case? Hint: Nothing good for you, whether you’ve got a sissy clitty, nubby needle dick or an ever-excited cock.

What Is a Ruined Orgasm?

Merriam-Webster online defines “ruined” as “facing certain defeat, disaster…” – and you better believe that to be an accurate description of your impending orgasm! While you may just whip it out and go to town with your cock stroking or edge for hours –or days!- there will be an ending, but it will NOT be a happy one. When you are eventually given the go-ahead to erupt like a geyser, you will also be given further instructions, which will turn that cumming sensation that usually feels like a magnificent Fourth of July fireworks display into something like the absent “pop” of a single, dud firecracker.

How Is an Orgasm Ruined???

Whether you are told to take your hand away (aka abandoning) or directed to employ a technique like palming, thumbing, dictating or thwacking, your orgasm will feel like a balloon that has just been deflated. You will experience a sensation that says “Hey! Someone took my orgasm away!” There’s nothing like the orgasm deprivation of a ruined orgasm.

Stroke all you want, my chronic wanker, but your release will NOT bring relief…

There’s Nothing Like Watching a Big Dick on Cam to Wake a Girl Up!

Empress EmmaJane — Fri, 25 Mar 2011 05:25:48 +0000

The Stuff of Every Girl’s Dreams: A Big Dick and a Webcam!

I know I’ve been focused on rolling out my series on compulsive masturbation and stroking control, but I have been temporarily sidetracked by something that’s guaranteed to stop any woman in her tracks: a big, thick, absolutely beautiful cock! I have seen proof positive that not all gorgeous, delightfully appealing, and sizable cocks are the stereotypical BBCs. No! This is NOT at all the case of a certain “shinyknob”…

Not Just Any Big Cock… The Perfect Cock!

While I have previously watched him stroke his hot and hard stuff on cam, several days ago I was once again wowed when our shinyknob, who is the sexy, smoldering owner of a “perfect” dick that is well-known by our Mistresses, sent me an instant message in which he invited me to get an eyeful of his superb specimen of manhood once again. Of course, I was already answering in my mind before he even got the question typed out: “Oh! Yes! Yes! Yes! Let me see that big dick NOW!”

The First Glimpse of That Strikingly Gorgeous Big Dick

As if I weren’t already needing to change panties upon hearing his sexy, soft-spoken, and incredibly alluring voice, I cannot begin to tell you how much my excitement grew –and the tingle in my nether regions was amplified- when shinyknob sent me a cam invite. I was all too prepared for some intense guided masturbation! My green eyes were fixed on that little black box, eagerly awaiting the first image of that hard, slick, and absolutely perfect cock! To say that engorged, deep red cock was as mouth-watering as always is an understatement.

Stroke for Me While I Melt…

I watched in awe as those fingers curled around that proud, horny, twitching dick, and continued gliding up and down that lube-coated crimson shaft in an almost effortless manner. Every now and then, shinyknob would slip his talented fingers down to his taut balls, tug them firmly, and make that big dick stand at perfectly erect attention. Talk about wanting to run the flag up the pole! I would be thrilled to have shinyknob’s flagpole planted in my front yard any day of the week!! (*Overtly sexual metaphor!!*)

Guided Masturbation of a Big Beautiful Dick

That big cock bobbed, jumped, and lurched, as I feverishly watched. I’m quite certain my eyes were glazed over and I was foaming at the mouth like a wild, rabid animal. Of course, that is precisely how that huge perfect dick of shinyknob’s makes me feel: wild, full of abandon, passionate, and completely on fire! Then… To see that rock hard dick arch, pulse, and copiously drool strand after silky strand of precum in his hand as it edged again and again was both thrilling and torturous (as I could think of a lengthy to-do list for that big dick only required shinyknob to lie back and take it!).

Edging Turns Into Enormous Eruption!

Finally, that beautiful dick could take no more, and shinyknob released an amazing load all over his stomach. However, did that magnificent dick begin to soften (or rapidly deflate like a punctured balloon) as all too many cocks disappointingly do? Absolutely not! After all, this is one of the most amazing cocks –in length, girth, patience, shape, stamina, and so on- that I have ever seen! I am more than happy to encourage shinyknob to stroke that mesmerizing dick any time he likes, as it is an opportunity to stare at a vision of manhood – and what woman would not enthusiastically welcome visions like that every day?! No woman I know…

Thank you, shinyknob, for making my day, and giving me plenty of my own stroking material…

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Four)

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 17 Mar 2011 03:59:02 +0000

More Cock Control Fun!

In our last get-together, we began exploring some techniques for learning cock control. We began our technique tour by taking a look at masturbation training, stroking schedules, tease and denial, and edging. Now, we’ll push forward and take a look at some additional proven remedies for taming your itty bitty clitty, wee little man or ever-edgy, big boy’s cock.

“No!”: When Release Is Denied

When tease and denial just doesn’t work, what is one to try next? Let’s take the teasing out of T&D, and what do we have left? We have denial! Actually, we have more than simple, temporary denial. While you may be allowed to edge for hours or days, the only word you will hear when you beg for release is “No.” If you behave your hands and keep them otherwise entertained, maybe I will set a date on which you will be allowed your jerk-off joy. Fail, and there will be no relief in sight for you.

Locked Up for Your Own Good: Denial Via Chastity

However, if your idle hands become the wanker’s workshop, trusting you to maintain denial will be a privilege promptly removed. We then kick things up a notch and go for orgasm deprivation with a twist: a twist of the key in the lock of your chastity device, where you will remain until such time as I feel you have learned a lesson and/or earned the reward of release. You could be caged for days, weeks or months before being allowed to remove your “penis protector” – and you should consider your break to be just that: a temporary reprieve because after the “O,” back in you go…

Next Up: Even More Methods for Controlling Your Cock

What about adjuncts and additions to the aforementioned techniques? Yes. There are some, and our next post will look at taking the fun out of your release and delving into tricks of the mind that can also help you back off as opposed to constantly getting off.

Do You Jerk Off All the Time or Are You a Chronic Wanker? Varied Terms for Male Masturbation

Empress EmmaJane — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 04:00:31 +0000

What Do You Call Your Masturbatory Activities?

I’ve been thinking about our venture into the Land of Compulsive Masturbation, and something occurred to me. During my pondering of the plethora of terms for masturbation, I thought we might have a little bit of fun. I would like you to share with me your favorite words and/or phrases you find yourself most frequently using to describe your “private time.” So, without further adieu, I’m going to throw out a list of colorful masturbatory terminology – some you often hear, some you don’t – and you tell me which ones are a common part of your masturbation vocabulary – and which ones you find as funny and “interesting” as do I!

Commonly Used Jargon for Male Masturbation

Some of the most common terms that seem to be par-for-the-course when describing male masturbation include beating off, jerking off, stroking, beating your meat, blowing your load, and the ever-popular playing with yourself. Other well-known words and phrases include diddling, wanking, fist-fucking, rubbing one out, spanking your monkey, and the generic hand-job.

Describing Your Stroking and Having a Laugh!

Humorous descriptions for masturbating include choking your chicken, playing pocket pool, draining the vein/monster, jerking the gherkin, whipping your willie, and couch hockey for one. More phrases sure to make us all laugh are charming the cobra, answering the bone-a-phone, rounding up the tadpoles, and shaking hands with Shorty. Slap-boxing the one-eyed champ is also more than a bit humorous!

“Head-Scratching” Verbiage for Masturbation

Some of the following comprise the more amusing phraseology: choking Kojak, playing the stand-up organ, riding the Great White Knuckler, and ropin’ the longhorn. As if these don’t elicit enough giggles, we also have fondling the fig, galloping the antelope, hand-to-hand combat, jiggling the jewelry, and loping your mule. Manipulating the mango and tussling with your muscle are phrases I find to prompt an immediate amused look too!

Someone Had Too Much Time on Their Hands…

Some rather “odd” descriptors include bludgeoning the beefsteak, bashing the candle, rubbing the unicorn’s horn, and roughing up the suspect. As if those aren’t unusual enough, we also have squeezing the cream from the flesh twinkie, snapping your carrot, squeezing the burrito, ironing some wrinkles, and launching the hand shuttle. Taming the wild hog and waxing the dolphin are also sure to raise an eyebrow or two as well!

While the above-mentioned terms and phrases are far from an exhaustive list for male masturbation, the list here is comprised of some of the “best” – and cause for some hearty chuckles if nothing else! Feel free to throw in your two-cents, and we’ll keep the list growing!

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Three)

Empress EmmaJane — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 07:29:41 +0000

Now, Who Are Those Chronic Strokers?

In my last post, we discussed several different types of chronic willie wankers and how each kind can get completely carried away and consumed by curling their sticky little fingers around their “equipment” and stroking, stroking, and stroking! We talked about a sissy’s fondling fascination with her little clitty, that leaps to attention as soon as those soft satin or silky panties slide over that tiny bulge. Also, there was talk of men whose growth deficiencies leave them in the position of being a worm wrangler, and we closed with men who just can’t say “No!” to the head-rearing of their lap lizard.

Introducing Mission Cock Control…

The next thing we need to begin addressing is this question: How does one control a stroke-craving clitty, dicklet or cock? Despite these different members, there are some remedies that are applicable and successful with all of them, and we shall explore some of these all-purpose cock control efforts in this post. This will be an introduction of methods into which we will delve more deeply in future posts.

Masturbation Training with a Side Order of Scheduled Stroking

Masturbation training is an excellent way to “teach” you how to better control that driving compulsion to jerk off constantly. One of the things we’ll do is put you on a stroking schedule. The severity of your “problem” and my perception of your ability to follow instructions to the letter will determine how frequently –or rarely!- you are allowed both masturbation privileges AND relief. Just because you get to work on your trek towards carpal tunnel syndrome, this does NOT mean you will get to release.

Tease and Denial: To Cum or Not to Cum…

This leads us to another method that can be used to address your palm pounding: tease and denial. Perhaps I will have you relentlessly edging yourself –either on your stroking schedule and/or within our sessions. You will work your hand only when I tell you to do so – and you will either stop your hand or remove it completely when I instruct you to stop. The temporariness or extendedness of your denial will depend on your ability to follow directions, and do precisely what I expect of you.

Now, if you are unsuccessful with these methods, where do we go next? Stay tuned…

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Two)

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 06:27:44 +0000

Dick Diddler ISO Cock Control!

So we have established your “issue”: You have a “problematic” prick that is in dire need of cock control. Now, you need to ask for help. “How do I go about it?” you ask. Well, it is quite simple: Step into the virtual office of sexpert EmmaJane, and together we will collaborate, form a plan, and keep your hands from permanently freezing in a clenched stroking position!

What Kind of Pud Pounder Are You?

The first thing we need to establish is what kind of chronic masturbator you are (as well as your stroking severity) so that I will have a clear idea of why you can’t keep your hands off of yourself. Knowing your prick-pounding personality will help me to determine the reason(s) for your incessant hand-humping. Tell Mistress EmmaJane all about yourself…

The Self-Loving Sissy Stroker

Maybe you’re a sissy who has an ever-excited, itty bitty clitty, and it’s always rearing its mini-head, begging for attention. You’re so overwhelmed when you get all dolled up in your lingerie and frilly dresses that you can hardly keep your tiny pee-pee tucked inside your panties. Even when you do manage to keep your almost-microscopic clitty in your ruffled panties, you can’t keep from slipping your hand beneath your petticoats and straight toward your crotch.

The Little-Dicked Gherkin Jerker

Perhaps you are a man who is all grown up now, but your little dick didn’t get the memo. Every time you look down into your lap, the corners of your mouth turn down in frustration and you are reminded of how inadequate you are. So… Since you know all too well that women will scowl, laugh, and be completely disinterested in having any form of sex with you, you simply take the easy route and tend to business yourself, but you just can’t get enough…

The Compulsive Carrot Cuffer

On the other hand, maybe your cock is a decent or even above-average size, and, while you get plenty of action with a partner, you are still compelled to spend entirely too much time with yourself. “It just feels so good,” you say, and, of course, it feels good. However, it feels good to do many things, but you don’t spend every waking moment preoccupied and distracted by thoughts of the next time you’ll have a chance to do them – and you don’t insist on doing them over and over and over… Give it a rest already!

Next Step: Learning to Limit Your Mule Loping

Once we have determined into which classification of compulsive cock crankers you fall, it is now time for me to decide how to help you put on the brakes – before you break off your boner!! Join me for the next installment, where we will begin looking at some methods for getting your excessive hand-humping under control…

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part One)

Empress EmmaJane — Mon, 28 Feb 2011 20:34:50 +0000

Admitting You Can’t Leave Your Dick Alone

Choking the chicken… Spanking the monkey… Playing pocket pool… You just love to masturbate, and you wrestle your eel every chance you get. However, you know your naughty habits are entirely too excessive and a bit too much for you to handle. You’ve tried to slow yourself and give your wrist a rest, but you can’t seem to stop. What is a chronic wanker to do? It just so happens that I have the answer to your diddling dick dilemma…

Acknowledging That You Need Cock Control

First, you must admit that obviously you cannot do it alone. You are in dire need of assistance, guidance, and –most of all- discipline. Where will you get such direction? Well… The help you need is in the form of a strong woman who can exert her influence over you… a dominant woman who will hold you accountable and refuse to settle for lame excuses. This woman will teach you something very important; she will teach you cock control. That woman is… Me!

How Big –or Little!- Is Your Problem?

Whether you are an unruly stroking sissy, owner of an ever-horny little dick or simply a man obsessed with jerking off every chance you get, you need to learn some boundaries, limits, and rules. The first thing I will do is to assess the severity of your chronic masturbation. Once I have determined the depth of your problem, I will then decide what we need to do in order to control that cock!

What Will I Do With Your Compulsive Cock?

Some of the obvious options are providing you with masturbation training, putting you on a stroking schedule, teasing and denying you, instituting more aggressive orgasm deprivation, subjecting you to ruined orgasms, and even locking you in chastity. If we attempt one avenue but it does not appear to be working, we will up the ante and take a stronger approach! In any event, you WILL learn to control that cock and your desire to incessantly stroke. What method will you require?

To be continued…

Is That It?!?! Well-Deserved Humiliation for a Pencil Small Dick

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 24 Feb 2011 05:00:37 +0000

Words of the Small Dick

Little… Runtish… Wee… Shrimpy… Miniature… Tiny… Inadequate… Scrawny… Slender… Pin-like… Oh! The list of words that are so “fitting” when describing a small dick seems almost endless. Too bad there is such a large pool of descriptors for something so pathetic, useless, and teeny! If you’re a man who has heard any of the plethora of terms that can be uttered by a woman in shock to describe the horror and disappointment of seeing a wimpy weenie, we need to talk…

Defining a Small Dick

So… You with the dinky dick… the puny pecker… the bite-sized boner… Let us get one thing very clear: YOU are insufficient and have a waifish worm if (1) Your dicklet is small and toylike and/or (2) You have a skinny pencil dick. If you are lacking in length and/or girth, then YOU have a small dick! 7” in length, but no bigger around than a needle? Small dick! As thick as a fireman’s hose, but a mere 3” with a full hard-on? Small dick! If you’re on the proverbial short end of either stick, then YOU are lacking AND you DO, in fact, have a less-than-desirable –and small!!- dick!

Deserved Humiliation for the Small Dick

Now, while no woman in her right mind is going to have any interest in your lack of manhood, at least it can provide her with some amusement! Since you do not measure up, it is only natural that laughter and humiliation should be directed at the scrubby, fingerlike projection between your legs. Seriously! What do you expect? To be welcomed with open legs and invited in for a visit? I think not! In such a case, laughter is definitely the best medicine for being subjected to a dainty dick. Not to mention the fact that you deserve to be embarrassed, maligned, and ridiculed for calling yourself a “man.”

Not a “Real” Dick? NOT a Real Man!

A “real man” has a real cock, one that can satisfy a woman’s desire to be stretched AND filled. When you cannot accomplish BOTH of these goals, you are a worthless, pitiful, and pathetic wannabe man. You’re a prick poser! The next time you think about revealing your “little” secret to an unsuspecting woman, keep in mind just what you deserve: fits of laughter, merciless mocking, chastising, and full-on humiliation! Then… Once you have been made to feel as miniature as your nipped nub, put that thing away and keep it where it belongs: out of sight (or in a pair of panties)!!