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Crossdressing, Feminization, and Submission: A Recipe for Stress Relief

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 26 May 2011 03:55:02 +0000

Better than Calgon: “Crossdressing, Take Me Away!“

It’s an important topic we’ve discussed previously, and –due to a delightful and very insightful caller with whom I had a session yesterday- I feel that now is an appropriate time to revisit the sense of stress relief some men derive from crossdressing. Even if you’re not familiar with my posts or we haven’t personally discussed this phenomenon, there are many of you who can very easily identify with the experience I am about to describe…

He’s the Man in Charge During the Day…

To the external world, you exhibit the persona of a man’s man: confident, in charge, masculine, maybe even aggressive. When you are at work, your image is further reinforced. You expected and required to function at the peak of machismo performance: incredibly responsible, able to direct and motivate others, making snap executive decisions, always on top of your game. You are always in charge and in control – perhaps to an extreme.

When the Man Always in Control Needs to Be Controlled

But… While you are busy keeping everyone motivated and each day running smoothly, when do you ever get a break from the stress that coincides with being “the” man? When do you get to just relax and enjoy a worry-free moment that is completely for you? How do you just let the stress go? Yours is an unconventional but very effective method for regrouping: You get all dressed up and have someone else temporarily do your thinking for you.

Stress Relief Is Just a Satin Slip Away

The moment you have time to yourself, you know exactly what will help you to breathe a huge sigh of relief. “Crossdressing” and “feminization” are the magic words, so you select something very feminine to wear. Perhaps you long to slip into a lone pair of delicate panties or a soft satin bra and panty set. Maybe you want to go a bit farther and wind a garter belt around your waist, slide your toes into a pair of nylon stockings, delicately fasten those metal garter hooks to the cloud of lace at the top of each stocking, and gingerly work your nylon-clad feet into a lovely or sexy pair of heels. Then again, you may desire to go all the way, and select a very feminine dress or a skirt and blouse ensemble. In any event, you choose what feels just perfect at the moment.

Submitting to Your Crossdressing Calling

Then questions begin to arise: Do you want to dress yourself first OR do you long to hear a strong dominant woman sensually or strictly lead you through your dressing ritual? Whether you present yourself all dolled up for her or desire her to have you get dressed per her instructions, how submissive do you want to be to her? Do you want to be her classy protege or her sexy slut? Do you want her to humiliate you – and, if so, how and to what degree? What kinds of things do you want her to order or coax you into doing?

Potential answers to these questions swirl around in your head as you go for the phone, feeling your stress already beginning to decline, knowing that by the end of your session, you will be feeling like a new man…

To be continued…

Mission Brand New Sissy: Selecting the Perfect Name for My Newest Girl

Empress EmmaJane — Wed, 11 May 2011 23:36:23 +0000

Let the Sissification Siren Blare!

Your Mistress EmmaJane is SO excited! I have a new sissy-in-training – and I do mean BRAND spanking new! It’s so enjoyable for me to take an aspiring sissy with absolutely no experience and help her explore and discover her fabulously feminine sissy self. It’s like taking a fledging bird and watching it feel its wings and fly for the very first time…

Beginning the Journey into Feminization

I met this lovely sissy via a wonderful introductory message, which has evolved into chatting back and forth on a regular basis. She sends me the sweetest messages when I am both on and offline, and I have been so impressed with her manners and pleasant demeanor. After some correspondence, I discovered a delightful fact about her: She is a sissy who is just getting started on her “official” journey into feminization.

Brand New Sissy, Brand New Name

In fact, this lovely girl is so new on the sissy scene that she doesn’t even have a girlie name yet! Of course, on discovery of this news, I told her that one of the first things we need to do is seek out the perfect name for her. (We all know that every sissy girl MUST have a suitable and fitting name.) This is currently at the top of our sissification to-do list!

The Importance of Choosing the Perfect Sissy Name

Now, I believe in getting to know “who” your sissy is before naming her, as simply grabbing a name out of thin air is too arbitrary, random, and meaningful as it should be. Everyone’s name is very personal and carries within it our identity and experiences – and my wonderful sissies are no different. The name chosen should be “perfect,” express exemplary femininity, and fit like a silk glove!

The Sissy Name Will Embody Femininity

So… Here I am: On a mission to ferret out the most appropriate name for my new girl. Whatever names I consider will have to reflect her gentle, enthusiastic, thoughtful, and sweet nature, as she exemplifies every one of those traits. I intend to ensure that her new girlie name will be one that is as delightful and pretty as is she. What a wonderful way to help an aspiring sissy FEEL that exciting first step in becoming the most feminine girl she can possibly be…

Mistress’ Tired Toes in Need of Foot Lover for Massage and General Adoration

Empress EmmaJane — Mon, 25 Apr 2011 22:44:46 +0000

So… I spent my Easter Sunday outside amidst my flower garden. (Yes. I am very much a true Southern girl when it comes to pretty things – especially my flowers!) I spent all day stooping, squatting, bending over, and crawling around in the dirt – barefoot and in my sexy little shorts. (Yes. Go ahead and get your mental image – especially of my naked tootsies…)

When I finally finished planting and tending my herbs and colorful flowers, I walked to my back door, and had a flash: I most certainly was in need of a passionate foot slave… a podophilia pet, who would greet me with hands and mouth fully prepared to service my tired, sweaty, dirt-covered feet. I could clearly envision a dedicated foot boy, kneeling just inside the door, eagerly waiting to gently brush the specks of dirt and dust from my toes and the soles of my feet. He would also be ready to massage my tired tootsies in an effort to help me relax.

Once inside and after his initial attention to my lovely but brown-tinged feet, it would be time for my foot slave to place my feet into a hot and steamy foot bath, where he would rinse my feet just before lifting each foot from the tub for a very personalized cleaning with his mouth and tongue. Ah… I imagined just how delightful it would feel to have my foot boy’s tongue slipping and sliding between each and every one of my gritty, smelly toes, winding his busy lips over and around toe after toe… Maybe even burying his face between my feet and wallowing in them as if they were a soft, inviting pillow.

After the delicious foot bath, it would be time for a long, lengthy, luscious massage with my foot slave showing just how much he adores worshipping my tantalizing tootsies – regardless of how clean and sweet-smelling OR dirty, sweaty, and smelly they might happen to be. After all, a true foot slave cares not what shape his Mistress’ feet appear to be; his desire to serve is enflamed simply by having those objects of desire right there in front of him… in his face… touching his lips… filling his mouth… He just wants to worship!

Bring on the Sissies! Adoring All of Those Pretty, Pouty, Prissy Sissies and Salacious Sissy Sluts…

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 18:00:30 +0000

The Wide, Wonderful World of Sissy Style

How I love the diversity of presentation, demeanor, and attitude of my sissies! Whether my sissy is a prissy, flamboyant, showy sissy; a sweet, soft-spoken, gentle girlie girl; or a sexy, provocative, wild sissy slut, I absolutely adore her in all of her feminine glory. Every sissy has her own unique style that says so much about who she is – and each and every one of my sissy girls is absolutely beautiful in her very own way.

Sophisticated Sissy: My Confident but Conservative Sissy Girl

For example, I have one sissy who is calm, cool, conservative, and a bit shy. While she obviously thrives when feeling and looking like a lady, she is rather soft-spoken and reserved in her attire and her behavior. She is very modest and doesn’t think there is anything particularly special about her – but she is simply a living doll. She has this certain air about her that radiates gentle femininity, and the grace with which she carries herself makes her a beautiful, classic, ultra-girlie sissy in my eyes. Just lovely!

Sissy Does the Proud, Prissy, Pin-Up Pose

Now, I have another sissy who loves to dress to the nines, displaying her glamorous and colorful sense of style. From the top of her perfectly coiffed head to the pointed toes of her perfect platform pumps, she certainly makes a statement that demands to be noticed. Her obsession with bright colors and big boisterous bows coincides with her love of attention and all things that underscore beauty and femininity. She is a sight to behold, and certainly lights up every room she enters.

Scorching Hot Sissy Slut

Then, we have yet another of my beloved sissy harem who gets her kicks from accentuating her exceptional sex appeal. She dresses like a sex kitten who is on a mission to leave men’s tongues wagging like flags blowing in the breeze! Barely there lingerie… Micro mini skirts… Skimpy, cleavage-accentuating tops… Towering platform heels… Pouty cherry red lips… Sex on a stick this sissy slut is – and hotter than blue blazes.

Fascinating Feminization a la the Sissy Spectrum

Regardless of what a sissy’s particular style is, the beauty about her is not only in what she wears but how she wears it. Attitude is everything, and I am one incredibly fortunate Mistress to be able to see and enjoy such a wide variety of sissy styles – all unique, special, amazing, and completely gorgeous! *blows kisses to all of my girls*

Calling All Foot Fetishists, Lovers, and Worshippers: The Attraction to Your Mistress’ Feet

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 01:01:09 +0000

Fancying Feet: The Current Craze

Hello, my dedicated feet and toe lovers! It seems to me there’s been quite a buzz about honoring and worshipping feet lately, so let us take some time to talk about your love of tootsies – aka your blazing podophila!

What Is the Attaction?

What is it about feet that makes you want to drop to your knees where your face is inches from those color-tipped, immaculately manicured toes? Why is it that you get all revved up and excited when you slip a shoe slowly off of a nylon-covered tootsie and slide your hands all over it? Just what do you find so appealing about bowing in front of and glorifying a pair of peds?

Lustful Leering at Those Tempting Tootsies

Is it that you find unmatched visual appeal in the foot’s appearance? Oh… Your gaze fixes upon the gentle slope of the topside of those lovely feet. So soft… So smooth… Your eyes then fall upon each and every painted toenail, then wander to the sensitive undersides of them. You’re drawn to that delicate, sexy, subtle rise and fall of the arch, which joins the ball of the foot to the heel. Your eyes roam while your hard cock grows…

Kiss Those Toes and Lick Those Soles

Let’s not forget one of the aspects over which so many foot lovers drool: the smell of feet that have been encased within the strict confines of shoes all day long. How do you feel when you release a foot from its leather prison, and the first essence to waft up your eager nostrils is the pungent scent of sweat. Of course, that aroma of nastiness only makes you salivate, anticipating the moment when your lips will brush against those toes, just before you extend your tongue and slip it between each and every one of those smelly digits.

Hit Those Knees and Worship ‘Til Your Heart’s Content

To worship, to wallow, to adore feet… Smelly feet… Dirty feet… Your Mistress’ feet… You’ll bow at them at a moment’s notice and pay full homage to them – relishing those feet, regardless of the current condition in which you find them. Why? Because you have a foot fetish that just will not stop!

Big Pennies for Your Penis: Join the Scavenger Hunt!

Empress EmmaJane — Fri, 01 Apr 2011 03:29:50 +0000

Do you want to earn some big pennies for the Penny Auction on Enchantrix Empire? With all of those amazing items the participating Mistresses have so kindly contributed to the auction block for your bidding wars, of course, you do! Well, I’m going to help you rack up some coins while you enjoy getting to know more about some of our smart, sexy, sassy, and sensual Mistresses.

All you have to do is be the first, second or third person to correctly answer the sixteen (16) questions below.

“But how do I find the answers to these questions?” Well, that’s the easy part! It’s as simple as visiting the blogs of the luscious ladies listed below and reading until you find the answer to the question about her. You don’t even have to look that far, and you’ll be rewarded handsomely for your efforts.

For the first three (3) who answer ALL of the questions correctly, you will be awarded pennies as follows:
First place – 150 pennies
Second place – 100 pennies
Third place – 75 pennies

Here are the questions. Now, hunt down those answers – and think of what goodies on which you’re aching to bid… and win!! (Links to each Mistress’ blog are included here on the right-hand side of the page.)
1. What does Ms. Alexandria want her naughty crossdressers to wear?

2. What is the co-branding name borne from Ms. Alexis’ appearance on Ms. Gemma’s CockRadio show during the Super Bowl?

3. What is Ms. Andi’s favorite way of spanking? What is her favorite implement to use? (Hint: Immediately after Ms. Andi mentions her favorite way of spanking, she mentions a phrase…)

4. On what episode (date) of Ms. Bella’s Fetish Free for All did Ms. Ann and Ms. Delia join Miss Bella? (Hint: On what date did the show air?)

5. What does Ms. Delia like to hear her submissives do?

6. About what does Ms. EmmaJane refer to as “orgasm deprivation with a twist”?

7. When Ms. Gemma feels a bit mean, what perfect part of her body does she specifically mention that you do not deserve the privilege of looking at?

8. What is one of Ms. Ivy’s favorite toys to use on strap-on trainees?

9. What new edging technique did Ms. Layla feature and explain in her blog this month? (Hint: ________ __ _______ edging)

10. According to sexpert Ms. Meredith, who knows your innermost intimate details, what part of you can she reach “without so much of an effort”?

11. To whom was Ms. Morgan introduced on St. Patrick’s Day?

12. What did Ms. Scarlet specifically request that her new submissive George buy?

13. What kind of training does Ms. Sirena is good for Tantra because it can help increase your sexual energy?

14. What is it that Ms. Sophia mentions that James Spaders’ character cannot do in the presence of another person?

15. According to Ms. Tia’s research, when are our orgasms the strongest? (Hint: Click on one of the tabs at the top of Ms. Tia’s blog…)

16. How many live-in slaves does Ms. Violet have?

Pennies for Your Penis! Auction Goodies for Sissies and Strokers

Empress EmmaJane — Wed, 30 Mar 2011 04:09:36 +0000

Hello, my sissies, strokers, suckers, strap-on lovers, and other sexpots! If you haven’t yet gotten wind of the amazing event set up by our amazing Ms. Ann, let me fill you in: Participating Mistresses who are taking part in our Penny Auction have put up some hot, steamy, and sexy items on which you can bid with pennies you earn in various ways. Items that will be up for grabs include free calls and text sessions, custom audios, panties and other sexy lingerie, goodie bags for sissies, and more!

“How do I get involved?” you ask? It’s easy. Simply e-mail Ms. Ann for the rules and details on how to earn pennies, and get involved by joining the Penny Auction group at Enchantrix Empire! You can go to the Auction Block discussion in the Penny Auction group and see what items our participating Mistresses have put up for sissies and strokers alike!

As far as earning pennies from me, for every 50+ word comment you post in response to any blog entry of mine, I will give you 10 pennies. Also, be sure you visit here this Thursday for details on a fun Scavenger Hunt that can earn you up to 150 pennies if you’re the winner! I’ll also be popping up in the chatroom from time to time in order to give you surprise opportunities to gather some pennies. In addition, check back here on my blog to get updates on other opportunities to earn pennies!

Good luck and have fun earning pennies and winning some fabulous items from our wonderful, sexy, and talented Mistresses!!

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Five)

Empress EmmaJane — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 00:54:15 +0000

“May I Cum?” Well… Yes AND No…

Last time on the denial-go-round, we took a look at “no” meaning just that, both in and out of chastity. Now, how about times when “yes” may sound like music to your horny little ears, but that affirmation is NOT indicative of fun times ahead for you? To that effect, I have two words for you: ruined orgasm…

Cock Control Via Ruined Orgasm

“Ruined orgasm”… I’m sure in your perpetual prick-pulling state that all you hear immediately is the word you so long to hear: orgasm. As opposed to letting Mr. Hard and Horny Head between your legs do your thinking, you need to stop for a moment and ponder things with the head that rests on your shoulders. Look at that word preceding “orgasm.” What does “ruined” mean in this case? Hint: Nothing good for you, whether you’ve got a sissy clitty, nubby needle dick or an ever-excited cock.

What Is a Ruined Orgasm?

Merriam-Webster online defines “ruined” as “facing certain defeat, disaster…” – and you better believe that to be an accurate description of your impending orgasm! While you may just whip it out and go to town with your cock stroking or edge for hours –or days!- there will be an ending, but it will NOT be a happy one. When you are eventually given the go-ahead to erupt like a geyser, you will also be given further instructions, which will turn that cumming sensation that usually feels like a magnificent Fourth of July fireworks display into something like the absent “pop” of a single, dud firecracker.

How Is an Orgasm Ruined???

Whether you are told to take your hand away (aka abandoning) or directed to employ a technique like palming, thumbing, dictating or thwacking, your orgasm will feel like a balloon that has just been deflated. You will experience a sensation that says “Hey! Someone took my orgasm away!” There’s nothing like the orgasm deprivation of a ruined orgasm.

Stroke all you want, my chronic wanker, but your release will NOT bring relief…

There’s Nothing Like Watching a Big Dick on Cam to Wake a Girl Up!

Empress EmmaJane — Fri, 25 Mar 2011 05:25:48 +0000

The Stuff of Every Girl’s Dreams: A Big Dick and a Webcam!

I know I’ve been focused on rolling out my series on compulsive masturbation and stroking control, but I have been temporarily sidetracked by something that’s guaranteed to stop any woman in her tracks: a big, thick, absolutely beautiful cock! I have seen proof positive that not all gorgeous, delightfully appealing, and sizable cocks are the stereotypical BBCs. No! This is NOT at all the case of a certain “shinyknob”…

Not Just Any Big Cock… The Perfect Cock!

While I have previously watched him stroke his hot and hard stuff on cam, several days ago I was once again wowed when our shinyknob, who is the sexy, smoldering owner of a “perfect” dick that is well-known by our Mistresses, sent me an instant message in which he invited me to get an eyeful of his superb specimen of manhood once again. Of course, I was already answering in my mind before he even got the question typed out: “Oh! Yes! Yes! Yes! Let me see that big dick NOW!”

The First Glimpse of That Strikingly Gorgeous Big Dick

As if I weren’t already needing to change panties upon hearing his sexy, soft-spoken, and incredibly alluring voice, I cannot begin to tell you how much my excitement grew –and the tingle in my nether regions was amplified- when shinyknob sent me a cam invite. I was all too prepared for some intense guided masturbation! My green eyes were fixed on that little black box, eagerly awaiting the first image of that hard, slick, and absolutely perfect cock! To say that engorged, deep red cock was as mouth-watering as always is an understatement.

Stroke for Me While I Melt…

I watched in awe as those fingers curled around that proud, horny, twitching dick, and continued gliding up and down that lube-coated crimson shaft in an almost effortless manner. Every now and then, shinyknob would slip his talented fingers down to his taut balls, tug them firmly, and make that big dick stand at perfectly erect attention. Talk about wanting to run the flag up the pole! I would be thrilled to have shinyknob’s flagpole planted in my front yard any day of the week!! (*Overtly sexual metaphor!!*)

Guided Masturbation of a Big Beautiful Dick

That big cock bobbed, jumped, and lurched, as I feverishly watched. I’m quite certain my eyes were glazed over and I was foaming at the mouth like a wild, rabid animal. Of course, that is precisely how that huge perfect dick of shinyknob’s makes me feel: wild, full of abandon, passionate, and completely on fire! Then… To see that rock hard dick arch, pulse, and copiously drool strand after silky strand of precum in his hand as it edged again and again was both thrilling and torturous (as I could think of a lengthy to-do list for that big dick only required shinyknob to lie back and take it!).

Edging Turns Into Enormous Eruption!

Finally, that beautiful dick could take no more, and shinyknob released an amazing load all over his stomach. However, did that magnificent dick begin to soften (or rapidly deflate like a punctured balloon) as all too many cocks disappointingly do? Absolutely not! After all, this is one of the most amazing cocks –in length, girth, patience, shape, stamina, and so on- that I have ever seen! I am more than happy to encourage shinyknob to stroke that mesmerizing dick any time he likes, as it is an opportunity to stare at a vision of manhood – and what woman would not enthusiastically welcome visions like that every day?! No woman I know…

Thank you, shinyknob, for making my day, and giving me plenty of my own stroking material…

The Trials and Tribulations of Compulsive Masturbation and Cock Control (Part Four)

Empress EmmaJane — Thu, 17 Mar 2011 03:59:02 +0000

More Cock Control Fun!

In our last get-together, we began exploring some techniques for learning cock control. We began our technique tour by taking a look at masturbation training, stroking schedules, tease and denial, and edging. Now, we’ll push forward and take a look at some additional proven remedies for taming your itty bitty clitty, wee little man or ever-edgy, big boy’s cock.

“No!”: When Release Is Denied

When tease and denial just doesn’t work, what is one to try next? Let’s take the teasing out of T&D, and what do we have left? We have denial! Actually, we have more than simple, temporary denial. While you may be allowed to edge for hours or days, the only word you will hear when you beg for release is “No.” If you behave your hands and keep them otherwise entertained, maybe I will set a date on which you will be allowed your jerk-off joy. Fail, and there will be no relief in sight for you.

Locked Up for Your Own Good: Denial Via Chastity

However, if your idle hands become the wanker’s workshop, trusting you to maintain denial will be a privilege promptly removed. We then kick things up a notch and go for orgasm deprivation with a twist: a twist of the key in the lock of your chastity device, where you will remain until such time as I feel you have learned a lesson and/or earned the reward of release. You could be caged for days, weeks or months before being allowed to remove your “penis protector” – and you should consider your break to be just that: a temporary reprieve because after the “O,” back in you go…

Next Up: Even More Methods for Controlling Your Cock

What about adjuncts and additions to the aforementioned techniques? Yes. There are some, and our next post will look at taking the fun out of your release and delving into tricks of the mind that can also help you back off as opposed to constantly getting off.