Let the Sissification Siren Blare!

Your Mistress EmmaJane is SO excited! I have a new sissy-in-training – and I do mean BRAND spanking new! It’s so enjoyable for me to take an aspiring sissy with absolutely no experience and help her explore and discover her fabulously feminine sissy self. It’s like taking a fledging bird and watching it feel its wings and fly for the very first time…

Beginning the Journey into Feminization

I met this lovely sissy via a wonderful introductory message, which has evolved into chatting back and forth on a regular basis. She sends me the sweetest messages when I am both on and offline, and I have been so impressed with her manners and pleasant demeanor. After some correspondence, I discovered a delightful fact about her: She is a sissy who is just getting started on her “official” journey into feminization.

Brand New Sissy, Brand New Name

In fact, this lovely girl is so new on the sissy scene that she doesn’t even have a girlie name yet! Of course, on discovery of this news, I told her that one of the first things we need to do is seek out the perfect name for her. (We all know that every sissy girl MUST have a suitable and fitting name.) This is currently at the top of our sissification to-do list!

The Importance of Choosing the Perfect Sissy Name

Now, I believe in getting to know “who” your sissy is before naming her, as simply grabbing a name out of thin air is too arbitrary, random, and meaningful as it should be. Everyone’s name is very personal and carries within it our identity and experiences – and my wonderful sissies are no different. The name chosen should be “perfect,” express exemplary femininity, and fit like a silk glove!

The Sissy Name Will Embody Femininity

So… Here I am: On a mission to ferret out the most appropriate name for my new girl. Whatever names I consider will have to reflect her gentle, enthusiastic, thoughtful, and sweet nature, as she exemplifies every one of those traits. I intend to ensure that her new girlie name will be one that is as delightful and pretty as is she. What a wonderful way to help an aspiring sissy FEEL that exciting first step in becoming the most feminine girl she can possibly be…

The Wide, Wonderful World of Sissy Style

How I love the diversity of presentation, demeanor, and attitude of my sissies! Whether my sissy is a prissy, flamboyant, showy sissy; a sweet, soft-spoken, gentle girlie girl; or a sexy, provocative, wild sissy slut, I absolutely adore her in all of her feminine glory. Every sissy has her own unique style that says so much about who she is – and each and every one of my sissy girls is absolutely beautiful in her very own way.

Sophisticated Sissy: My Confident but Conservative Sissy Girl

For example, I have one sissy who is calm, cool, conservative, and a bit shy. While she obviously thrives when feeling and looking like a lady, she is rather soft-spoken and reserved in her attire and her behavior. She is very modest and doesn’t think there is anything particularly special about her – but she is simply a living doll. She has this certain air about her that radiates gentle femininity, and the grace with which she carries herself makes her a beautiful, classic, ultra-girlie sissy in my eyes. Just lovely!

Sissy Does the Proud, Prissy, Pin-Up Pose

Now, I have another sissy who loves to dress to the nines, displaying her glamorous and colorful sense of style. From the top of her perfectly coiffed head to the pointed toes of her perfect platform pumps, she certainly makes a statement that demands to be noticed. Her obsession with bright colors and big boisterous bows coincides with her love of attention and all things that underscore beauty and femininity. She is a sight to behold, and certainly lights up every room she enters.

Scorching Hot Sissy Slut

Then, we have yet another of my beloved sissy harem who gets her kicks from accentuating her exceptional sex appeal. She dresses like a sex kitten who is on a mission to leave men’s tongues wagging like flags blowing in the breeze! Barely there lingerie… Micro mini skirts… Skimpy, cleavage-accentuating tops… Towering platform heels… Pouty cherry red lips… Sex on a stick this sissy slut is – and hotter than blue blazes.

Fascinating Feminization a la the Sissy Spectrum

Regardless of what a sissy’s particular style is, the beauty about her is not only in what she wears but how she wears it. Attitude is everything, and I am one incredibly fortunate Mistress to be able to see and enjoy such a wide variety of sissy styles – all unique, special, amazing, and completely gorgeous! *blows kisses to all of my girls*

Now, Who Are Those Chronic Strokers?

In my last post, we discussed several different types of chronic willie wankers and how each kind can get completely carried away and consumed by curling their sticky little fingers around their “equipment” and stroking, stroking, and stroking! We talked about a sissy’s fondling fascination with her little clitty, that leaps to attention as soon as those soft satin or silky panties slide over that tiny bulge. Also, there was talk of men whose growth deficiencies leave them in the position of being a worm wrangler, and we closed with men who just can’t say “No!” to the head-rearing of their lap lizard.

Introducing Mission Cock Control…

The next thing we need to begin addressing is this question: How does one control a stroke-craving clitty, dicklet or cock? Despite these different members, there are some remedies that are applicable and successful with all of them, and we shall explore some of these all-purpose cock control efforts in this post. This will be an introduction of methods into which we will delve more deeply in future posts.

Masturbation Training with a Side Order of Scheduled Stroking

Masturbation training is an excellent way to “teach” you how to better control that driving compulsion to jerk off constantly. One of the things we’ll do is put you on a stroking schedule. The severity of your “problem” and my perception of your ability to follow instructions to the letter will determine how frequently –or rarely!- you are allowed both masturbation privileges AND relief. Just because you get to work on your trek towards carpal tunnel syndrome, this does NOT mean you will get to release.

Tease and Denial: To Cum or Not to Cum…

This leads us to another method that can be used to address your palm pounding: tease and denial. Perhaps I will have you relentlessly edging yourself –either on your stroking schedule and/or within our sessions. You will work your hand only when I tell you to do so – and you will either stop your hand or remove it completely when I instruct you to stop. The temporariness or extendedness of your denial will depend on your ability to follow directions, and do precisely what I expect of you.

Now, if you are unsuccessful with these methods, where do we go next? Stay tuned…

Dick Diddler ISO Cock Control!

So we have established your “issue”: You have a “problematic” prick that is in dire need of cock control. Now, you need to ask for help. “How do I go about it?” you ask. Well, it is quite simple: Step into the virtual office of sexpert EmmaJane, and together we will collaborate, form a plan, and keep your hands from permanently freezing in a clenched stroking position!

What Kind of Pud Pounder Are You?

The first thing we need to establish is what kind of chronic masturbator you are (as well as your stroking severity) so that I will have a clear idea of why you can’t keep your hands off of yourself. Knowing your prick-pounding personality will help me to determine the reason(s) for your incessant hand-humping. Tell Mistress EmmaJane all about yourself…

The Self-Loving Sissy Stroker

Maybe you’re a sissy who has an ever-excited, itty bitty clitty, and it’s always rearing its mini-head, begging for attention. You’re so overwhelmed when you get all dolled up in your lingerie and frilly dresses that you can hardly keep your tiny pee-pee tucked inside your panties. Even when you do manage to keep your almost-microscopic clitty in your ruffled panties, you can’t keep from slipping your hand beneath your petticoats and straight toward your crotch.

The Little-Dicked Gherkin Jerker

Perhaps you are a man who is all grown up now, but your little dick didn’t get the memo. Every time you look down into your lap, the corners of your mouth turn down in frustration and you are reminded of how inadequate you are. So… Since you know all too well that women will scowl, laugh, and be completely disinterested in having any form of sex with you, you simply take the easy route and tend to business yourself, but you just can’t get enough…

The Compulsive Carrot Cuffer

On the other hand, maybe your cock is a decent or even above-average size, and, while you get plenty of action with a partner, you are still compelled to spend entirely too much time with yourself. “It just feels so good,” you say, and, of course, it feels good. However, it feels good to do many things, but you don’t spend every waking moment preoccupied and distracted by thoughts of the next time you’ll have a chance to do them – and you don’t insist on doing them over and over and over… Give it a rest already!

Next Step: Learning to Limit Your Mule Loping

Once we have determined into which classification of compulsive cock crankers you fall, it is now time for me to decide how to help you put on the brakes – before you break off your boner!! Join me for the next installment, where we will begin looking at some methods for getting your excessive hand-humping under control…

Words of the Small Dick

Little… Runtish… Wee… Shrimpy… Miniature… Tiny… Inadequate… Scrawny… Slender… Pin-like… Oh! The list of  words that are so “fitting” when describing a small dick seems almost endless. Too bad there is such a large pool of descriptors for something so pathetic, useless, and teeny! If you’re a man who has heard any of the plethora of terms that can be uttered by a woman in shock to describe the horror and disappointment of seeing a wimpy weenie, we need to talk…

Defining a Small Dick

So… You with the dinky dick… the puny pecker… the bite-sized boner… Let us get one thing very clear: YOU are insufficient and have a waifish worm if (1) Your dicklet is small and toylike and/or (2) You have a skinny pencil dick. If you are lacking in length and/or girth, then YOU have a small dick! 7” in length, but no bigger around than a needle? Small dick! As thick as a fireman’s hose, but a mere 3” with a full hard-on? Small dick! If you’re on the proverbial short end of either stick, then YOU are lacking AND you DO, in fact, have a less-than-desirable –and small!!- dick!

Deserved Humiliation for the Small Dick

Now, while no woman in her right mind is going to have any interest in your lack of manhood, at least it can provide her with some amusement! Since you do not measure up, it is only natural that laughter and humiliation should be directed at the scrubby, fingerlike projection between your legs. Seriously! What do you expect? To be welcomed with open legs and invited in for a visit? I think not! In such a case, laughter is definitely the best medicine for being subjected to a dainty dick. Not to mention the fact that you deserve to be embarrassed, maligned, and ridiculed for calling yourself a “man.”

Not a “Real” Dick? NOT a Real Man!

A “real man” has a real cock, one that can satisfy a woman’s desire to be stretched AND filled. When you cannot accomplish BOTH of these goals, you are a worthless, pitiful, and pathetic wannabe man. You’re a prick poser! The next time you think about revealing your “little” secret to an unsuspecting woman, keep in mind just what you deserve: fits of laughter, merciless mocking, chastising, and full-on humiliation! Then… Once you have been made to feel as miniature as your nipped nub, put that thing away and keep it where it belongs: out of sight (or in a pair of panties)!!

Our final two crossdressing myths will highlight (1) the false notion held by a great number of crossdressers that purging is the answer to bringing their affinity for dressing to a halt and (2) the impropriety of women feeling threatened and/or offended by crossdressers due to the mistaken thinking that a man who crossdresses is insulting and/or ridiculing women in some way. Neither is the case, so let’s find out the truth…

Myth #10:  Purging will stop the desire to crossdress.

Fact: Whether it is done under the auspice of keeping from being caught or asserting that the urge to dress has “passed” or waned, purging everything tied to one’s crossdressing ventures will not stop the cycle or inherent compulsion to wiggle into lingerie and/or full dress. When a crossdresser decides that tossing everything feminine he has will curtail his girly habits, this is simply nothing more than entry into a phase of denial and making the erroneous assumption that ignoring the “habit” or “phase” and removing all remnants of it will put the dresser back on the path of  (what he sees per society’s dictates) “normalcy” and “appropriate” masculine behavior. While the crossdresser may be able to maintain this semblance of “normalcy” for an extended period of time, the desire and longing to dress does not magically vanish (as it is not just a conscious choice as we discussed previously); it simply lies in wait until such time that the crossdresser can no longer ignore its strength and presence. The cycle then begins all over again…

Myth #11: Crossdressing is an insult to, a mockery of or “threat” to women and femininity.

Fact: With regard to such an assumption, nothing could be farther from the truth. In fact, those who crossdress appreciate and honor femininity to a great extent. They are giving an enormous compliment to women in their attempts to emulate a feminine appearance and accompanying behaviors. Panty boys who simply want to experience the titillating tactile experience of feeling silk, satin or microfiber panties against their skin are showing appreciation for an aspect of the female experience. Sissies openly adore women and show nothing but the highest respect and appreciation for all things girlie. Even the transgender client who identifies herself as a woman and longs to have her external appearance match her internal self is appreciative of “biological” women and their feminine form, dress, style, mannerisms, and so on. If anything, women should find crossdressing to be a most sincere form of flattery and the highest of compliments.

For an erotic phone sex session with me, Empress EmmaJane, call 800-601-6975.
Must be 18+ to call.
Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum.
Discreetly billed to a major credit card
http://ratemycall.com/

Our next two myths will be targeting the misconceptions that (1) crossdressing is a rare or uncommon occurrence, even as reported by statistical numbers, and (2) the “big” goal of all crossdressers is to be as passable as possible so he/she can venture out into the public arena and blend into the crowd. Read on to find out the truth of these matters…

Myth #8:  Crossdressing is uncommon.

Fact: While very few empirically-derived, accurate statistics exist that provide information on the true depth of the male crossdressing population, the phenomenon is considered by professionals and “experts” to be markedly underreported and, therefore, the real numbers unknown. However, one can (across multimedia formats) easily and with minimal effort find evidence of extensive crossdressing behaviors and a booming TG population. The number of transgender support and information websites, CD forums, personal blog and webpages, documentaries, and printed materials all attest to the relative size of the CD population in all of its manifestations. Due to the fear of negative responses and consequences of their behavior being openly known and, hence, a compelling desire to keep their “secret” contained, it is no surprise that a more accurate count of the crossdressing population has thus far been impossible to obtain.

Myth #9: All crossdressers have the goal of venturing into public while dressed.

Fact: It is true that there are a number of crossdressers who have a desire to eventually make their way into public at some point, and some who specifically have that goal in mind as part of their crossdressing journey. However, donning women’s clothing –complete with make-up and wig- is an incredibly private experience for many men, and they have no yearning whatsoever to make their way into any public arena at any time in the present or future. They are happy and satisfied slipping into their lingerie and favorite ensemble, and they want nothing more than to experience the comfort of being dressed in their own homes. Some crossdressers never entertain the idea of going out dressed, as that is simply not a part of their personal preference or individual goals.

For an erotic phone sex session with me, Empress EmmaJane, call 800-601-6975.
Must be 18+ to call.
Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum.
Discreetly billed to a major credit card
http://ratemycall.com/