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About That Public Humiliation Thing… (Part I)

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Public humiliation is a very common element within a myriad of different scenarios for those who become aroused at the prospect of being on display while engaging in an act(s) that make them feel awkward, ashamed, embarrassed, and scrutinized.

Given the popularity of public humiliation fantasies and the fact that some humiliation junkies long to experience the depth of a real-time experience, I -as your helpful Humiliatrix– feel it is essential to throw out strong words of warning and underscore the definitive differences between the fantasy and reality of “going public”!

#1: Real-time public humiliation can result in being bounced and banned from various places; public humiliation fantasies cannot.

Even what you yourself might consider a “mild” or “tame” venture in public can well be found very offensive, horrifying, and reprehensible by others – so much so that your first efforts at public humiliation in a particular venue may well be your last visit there EVER.

Showing off your “wares,” getting caught in the act or professing your desires in certain ways can be one-way tickets to a “don’t come back here again” request from your favorite shop, salon, boutique, store, park, and more!

#2: Humiliation scenes that play out in your mind’s eye pose no risk to violating another person’s personal boundaries; in real time, they do.

While you may pop a fierce woody and get your jollies at the thought of brazenly and/or crudely announcing or displaying your humiliations to unsuspecting store clerks, sales associates, restaurant servers, bartenders, the driver of the car next to you, passersby on the sidewalk, and so forth, they have neither volunteered nor agreed to be a part of your scandalous behavior – and they might well want absolutely no part of it.

After all, intentionally trying to force your own kinks on others is just wrong in an situation or environment. It is a gross violation of the boundaries of others. NOT acceptable!

#3: It is perfectly appropriate to go for public shock value within your fantasies; in reality, it is not.

In Fantasy Land, you don’t have to worry about any ill effects of shocking the bejeezus out of someone by doing something like…

  • Disclosing that you’re a flaming sissy gurl shopping for a pair of panties to cover your tiny clitty or chastity device;
  • Whipping out your stiff little Johnson when you see a woman about to walk past you in your car in the Walgreen’s parking lot;
  • Exposing your pantied ass to a hot man OR woman at the club;
  • Sauntering down the hallway from your hotel room room naked;
  • Graphically telling the young woman at the upscale sex shop how you like to fuck your own ass with a huge black dildo and how hard it makes you cum.

You cannot predict the outcome of shocking someone.

In public humiliation fantasies gone wild right into reality, these kinds of unsolicited, inappropriate, unwelcome, and unwelcome shocks can go off the rails in many bad directions, as some people react to shocks in far less than desirable manners. While some folks might just laugh it off (to your joy), you’re gambling, and you NEVER know how it will end.

Put the shoe on the other foot for a moment.

You need to stop long enough to put yourself in the other person’s place and imagine how you would feel if you were suddenly aurally assailed with words or a topic that made your jaw drop and you want to run screaming in the other direction.

…But those are not the only cautionary points to be made about public humiliation fantasies versus reality, and I’ve not yet told you just why I am mentioning them. (Hint: It’s NOT AT ALL to be a Negative Nancy or Debbie Downer!)

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