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The Dynamics of Cuckolding (V): A Mistress’ Take

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“Mr. Regular is ‘dominant’ with his wife by virtue of having an affinity for “exploring and probing” her body (with his hands – and, I assume, cock as well).

Clarity SOS!

Hmmm… “Exploring and probing”… Vague much? So if I walk up to a stranger and probe his mouth with my fingers, then I’m dominating him? Poke! Poke! Poke, man I don’t know! You’re now my bitch! How about a drive-by groping of his crotch? Would that qualify as being dominant?

Never before have I been poked, prodded, probed or otherwise explored by a man and arbitrarily felt I’d been dominated, so I just don’t even begin to get this reference.

Surveying the Land Does NOT Imply Owning the Land

Is it that a woman who wants to put herself in a cuckolding situation and wants the stunt dick (I am referring to the entire man, not just his joystick) to rock her world with some sexual spelunking mean she’s being subjected to domination by him?

Great Scott! If that were the case, I’d have to be have my Mistress’ club card stripped and be banned for life! Allowing a man to roam freely does not give him ownership of the property!

Cuckolding and Submission

“A little ass worship automatically indicates submission.”

I Had No Idea!

…And here I had men being submissive to me when neither of us knew it!

Yes. Ass worship can be a submissive act, but showering a woman’s ass with attention is not by definition submissive. “A little ass worship” may or may not indicate submission, but only the giver knows if he feels submissive in doing so – and the recipient only knows that if he makes it known.

And if it happens while a cuckolding scenario is unfolding? Well, that depends on the particular context. The cuckolding doesn’t just “make” any act act by the cuck a submissive one.

Asking Makes All the Difference

The feelings and experiences of being Dominant or submissive are defined by a number of variables, so whether you’re in a strap-on, foot or ass “worshipping,” crossdressing or cuckolding scenario, the particular dynamics are defined by the parties involved, not the acts themselves.

…And how do we come to know of these dynamics, motivations, desires, purposes, and so forth? We don’t try to mind-read; we communicate. We don’t assume; we ask and discuss.

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