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The Dynamics of Cuckolding (V): A Mistress’ Take

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“Mr. Regular is ‘dominant’ with his wife by virtue of having an affinity for “exploring and probing” her body (with his hands – and, I assume, cock as well).

Clarity SOS!

Hmmm… “Exploring and probing”… Vague much? So if I walk up to a stranger and probe his mouth with my fingers, then I’m dominating him? Poke! Poke! Poke, man I don’t know! You’re now my bitch! How about a drive-by groping of his crotch? Would that qualify as being dominant?

Never before have I been poked, prodded, probed or otherwise explored by a man and arbitrarily felt I’d been dominated, so I just don’t even begin to get this reference.

Surveying the Land Does NOT Imply Owning the Land

Is it that a woman who wants to put herself in a cuckolding situation and wants the stunt dick (I am referring to the entire man, not just his joystick) to rock her world with some sexual spelunking mean she’s being subjected to domination by him?

Great Scott! If that were the case, I’d have to be have my Mistress’ club card stripped and be banned for life! Allowing a man to roam freely does not give him ownership of the property!

Cuckolding and Submission

“A little ass worship automatically indicates submission.”

I Had No Idea!

…And here I had men being submissive to me when neither of us knew it!

Yes. Ass worship can be a submissive act, but showering a woman’s ass with attention is not by definition submissive. “A little ass worship” may or may not indicate submission, but only the giver knows if he feels submissive in doing so – and the recipient only knows that if he makes it known.

And if it happens while a cuckolding scenario is unfolding? Well, that depends on the particular context. The cuckolding doesn’t just “make” any act act by the cuck a submissive one.

Asking Makes All the Difference

The feelings and experiences of being Dominant or submissive are defined by a number of variables, so whether you’re in a strap-on, foot or ass “worshipping,” crossdressing or cuckolding scenario, the particular dynamics are defined by the parties involved, not the acts themselves.

…And how do we come to know of these dynamics, motivations, desires, purposes, and so forth? We don’t try to mind-read; we communicate. We don’t assume; we ask and discuss.

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6 comments to The Dynamics of Cuckolding (V): A Mistress’ Take

  • Mistress EmmaJane I simply love this series. We’ve had many a chat and I know You have an innate understanding of the mind. You know the variables and nuances with a multitude of D/s scenario’s. You are able to put it plainly, and yes even a humorously, I’ve enjoyed them greatly. Can’t wait to see what else is in store!

    See you around the Empire!

  • Ownership from roaming? Hell no. Since when does a good fucking grant a bitch squatter’s rights? And don’t even get me started on the “cuckolds” who think they can whore their wives out for the cuckold’s amusement. No, the power in the cuckolding dynamic rests firmly with the Mistress and all males involved will do well not to forget that!

  • Petey cream puff

    If you dress me up as your cream puff girl I’m definitely interested in doing this!!! I know I’m to submissive to be dominant in relationship as I like to wear women’s clothes. I’ve accepted this as it’s who I am and become.

  • EmmaJane

    That’s all I’m saying, Ms. Piper! “Squatter’s rights”! I love it! What a perfect -and hilarious- way to put it.

    Yeah… Being invited to be a house guest is NOT an invitation to move right on in and act like you own the joint. Cooking a splendid meal in a woman’s oven does not make that oven yours. Some men obviously do not understand this point. You can play my body like a first chair violinist, but I’m still the conductor. Make no mistake about that!

    Shout it from the rooftops, Ms Piper! Tell it! Yes! As for the presumptuous wannabe cuck who thinks he is somehow “entitled” to get his jolly’s from pushing his wife into being a cuckoldress… Well, it would behoove him to remember that her body and desires are… HER body and desires. What on Earth does he think gives him the right to try turning his wife out just because it gives him a boner? Seriously? What if she wanted to pimp out his mouth because it got her all wet in the nether regions to think about him on his knees with a dick down his throat? I’m just sayin’… No difference.

  • EmmaJane

    Thanks, Ms. Erika! I’m so glad you’re enjoying it. I guess you could say I had a big bee in my bonnet with this series. Stereotypes, presumptions, and assumptions tend be quite the powerful muse for me. Nothing is as black and white as many might think or wish them to be – and that goes for being a cuckold or cuckoldress too!

    Of course, I know that you understand all too well the importance of communication and clarity. That is just one of the reasons it’s been such a joy to interact with you. 🙂

  • EmmaJane

    You always have such a positive attitude, Petey! You know you’re a true submissive, and you embrace it.

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