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The Dynamics of Cuckolding (III): A Mistress’ Take

The Cuckoldress and the “Truth”

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Now, when you ask for my real opinion (whether on cuckolding or anything else!), I take you at your word, and I give you just that. I give you what you tell me you want and need.

One of the reasons I do that is this: When a man asks me for my honest insight and as a woman -whether “generically,” as a Dominant Woman or as a cuckoldress- in order to help him understand the woman in his life, he’s often looking for real communication and some troubleshooting or words of wisdom (aka help); therefore, I don’t morph into Pinocchio and begin spinning yarns. I attempt to offer possibilities, options, and an objective opinion.

Now, if you asked me to fudge the details, that would be different – but that’s not what our dear cuckold requested.

EmmaJane on Cuckolding

It is an absolute fact that different people have different motivations. That is a fact of life. Why a woman desires to cuckold her man can be for one or multiple reasons. While keeping in mind that my take is just that -mine- this is my two-cents on what the aforementioned cuck boy had to say.

Cuckolding and Variety

“Despite chalking up his wife’s being a cuckoldress to her desire for “variety” in men (his assumption, not her words)…”

The Generalities

While I’m sure some women do opt for cuckolding because they like “variety,” as it were, there is often a reason behind that. Perhaps a woman is not getting her sexual needs met by her current partner; she loves him, but he can’t get it up or keep it up, he doesn’t have the stamina, he’s got a penis that’s too small to hit the spot… It’s not so much about the other men as it’s about what she needs from those men that her #1 is not delivering – but even that is not a blanket rule.

As far as domination (with or without some level of humiliation) goes, that can an overt goal or not actually in the mindset of the particular cuckoldress.

The EJ Facts

For instance, the last partner I cuckolded (1) first of all, had it going on in the bedroom with a nice (thick and 8”) cock and amazing skills, so I wasn’t looking to have some unfulfilled need met, (2) I did not decide to “dominate him” by virtue of a cuckolding scenario, (3) there was no humiliation involved, and (4) he is definitely NOT a submissive man.

WE decided on cuckolding as a team and went down that path merely as an adjunct to see if it would add something new and different into our vast pool of sexual antics together. Nothing about it was stereotypical or based upon some compelling need I had for being with a “variety” of men.

Just One of Many

I am not the only one who has stepped into the role of cuckoldress and had a partner(s) who wanted to tick off the cuckolding box on a couple’s sexual bucket list. I’ve heard from more than a few men who want to be cuckolded just for the sexual thrill. They weren’t interested in being dominated nor did they want or expect to feel or behave submissively or be humiliated in the role. They already had great sex lives with their wives or girlfriends. They weren’t running around ashamed of their size or being an incompetent lay. They just wanted to share a sexually taboo and potentially very titillating experience.

So… Regardless of how typical or common the reasons behind something can seem to be, you have to keep in mind that every experience is all about individual perception, purpose, and expectation.

Just because you think that “norm” can or should apply to the cuckoldress or one being cuckolded, that doesn’t mean it does apply…

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