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Twelve Reasons to Try Male Chastity: Reclaiming the Joy of Jerking

orgasm denial, orgasm control, chastity, cock cageThe next four reasons (two in this post, two to follow) that you should be scouting for a chastity device -and actually wearing it!- revolve around breaking out of a masturbatory lull, getting away from same old same old stroking, and breaking free from those well-established habits that have you stuck like a needle on a record.

Time to let chastity enlighten you and cock control reacquaint you with… yourself.

#3: Learning to Appreciate Your Orgasm

For the Rabid AND Mild-Mannered Masturbator

When you’re a chronic masturbator, popping off one frenzied orgasm after the next whenever the wind blows, you may get caught up in the good feelings in that moment of release, but you nonetheless take them for granted amid your non-stop jerk off sessions.

The same thing goes for those men who masturbate but are not obsessed with choking the chicken every single chance they get. Yes… You love the sensation of tugging on your hard cock and blowing your load, but you don’t take the time to really acknowledge and appreciate it or consider why and how it feels so divine.

In both cases, you know what you’re after, and when you’re finished, you’re finished.

Welcome Back, Orgasm! How I’ve Missed You!

When you’re all locked up in a cock cage, woefully suffering from the horror of orgasm deprivation

, you can experience all the (stroke-free!) build-up you like, but there’s no crossing that orgasmic finish line – and you miss it! You want it, but you can’t have it – so you think about how delicious it feels when you burst.

You see, chastity’s uncompromising version of orgasm control puts a new spin on how you perceive the importance of your orgasm and the physical sensations involved when you cum, so that when you are finally out of chastity, you cherish not only the orgasm, but the stroking process and resulting physical responses you experience.

#4: Increased Bodily Awareness

From Sensory Snoozefest to Sensory Awareness

Speaking of the stroking process, it’s all too easy to get caught up in your mastery of masturbating yourself, where you jerk off like you’re on auto-pilot and pop your cork like a robot. Both your stroking and response to it almost seem rote and mechanical: You grab your cock, it’s fap, fap, fap, oooh ahhh, feels good, strokety-stroke-stroke, *boom!* cum volcano – and that’s that.

Male chastity not only teaches you value your orgasm as you should, but it can help you get to know your body and sexual responses again. When you are kept at bay by a cock cage, you are afforded the opportunity to pay more attention to and focus on the arousal you feel in multiple areas of your body, not just your naughty bits.

Rediscovering Your “Other” Hot Spots

Chastity lockdown can push you to rediscover your erogenous zones so that you interpret your arousal as a total body experience, as opposed to defining it as merely having an erection. While you can’t grasp your cock and go to town on it, you CAN touch other parts of your body that are sensitive and send a shiver down your spine and straight to your… cock cage.

Just as the sound of a fire alarm is not confined to its immediate vicinity but emanates throughout the building, you don’t have to confine stroking to your cock in order to feel arousal throughout your body. Of course, where no real fire threat is involved in a fire drill, no real orgasm is involved inside a cock cage!

 

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2 comments to Twelve Reasons to Try Male Chastity: Reclaiming the Joy of Jerking

  • Chastity does provide a chance to concentrate on other sensations besides orgasm. Sexual energy should not be wasted. There are other areas to focus on such as pleasing your mistress. If a sub is constantly tending to erections, that will eclipse everything else. Do not forget the most important organ involved in arousal is the brain!

  • EmmaJane

    Thank you, Ms. Lena!! Thank you for pointing out the sexual power of the brain. (Of course, we know that when men are busy with that little head, they completely forget about the bigger one and the way in which our brains are command central for everything we experience.) Chastity gives a man that chance to be attentive, creative, focused, imaginative, and better in tune with their own bodies. Learning about or becoming reacquainted with one’s own body can result in hidden or forgotten triggers of arousal.

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