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Twelve Reasons to Try Male Chastity: Basic Cock Control

Chastity, Cock Control, and More

There are many reasons to consider male chastity. From instituting impulse control to sexual self-improvement to gaining the freedom that allows attention to be directed tomale chastity, cock control more important things, being confined in a cock cage can serve many a valuable purpose.

In this multi-part series on the benefits of chastity, we’ll look at more than a few good reasons you should consider giving it a chance. Part one focuses on you and two of the most common reasons that call for the kind of extreme cock control that chastity provides.

#1: You’re a Wild Wanker

You’re out of control and you know it. You not only think about jerking off entirely too much. You are without question plagued with chronic masturbation – and you need help. You need cock control – but with a “solid” twist!

When you are locked inside a chastity device, it doesn’t matter how much you want to grab your cock and give it a tug. You are truly in cock control lockdown – and you have no choice other than to collect yourself and resign yourself to the fact that masturbating AT ALL is off the menu.

Stroking is entirely impossible, so it’s time to redirect your energy and focus elsewhere.

#2: There’s More to Life Than Jerking Off

When you allow your masturbation activities to rule your thoughts and dictate your schedule, you are taking other parts of Life for granted and letting them suffer. You’ve lost focus and sight of all that Life has to offer that doesn’t revolve around the whims of your cock. Being devoid of any semblance of orgasm control gives you tunnel vision and a one-track mind!

This is where chastity training can hit the reset button and offer you renewed focus on your life as a whole. Your concentration at work improves. You remember why you enjoyed your hobbies and leisure time. You realize that you’ve been neglecting both people AND things that are important – and it’s being in chastity that helps you have this epiphany. (Plus, when you can’t stroke your cock, you HAVE to find something else to do!)

While these first two reasons for chastity revolve around the need for “mechanically enforced” cock control, there are other personal benefits of chastity that go beyond ways to wrangle an unruly cock and bring about improvements across your sexual experiences, both alone AND with a partner.

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7 comments to Twelve Reasons to Try Male Chastity: Basic Cock Control

  • Petey cream puff

    I’ve accepted who I am and become ldws chastity cream puff girl.

  • A question to the articulate and beautiful Mistress EmmaJane-one of a kind, among the best,certainly revered by many including myself.What if one is taking care of their responsibilities in life and the erotic life is healthy .Sexual desires are part of the human condition.As long as they are controlled and healthy why would chastity be a good idea.

  • EmmaJane

    Gigi darling, you jumped the gun a bit, my dear, and I know you’ll see why when you read the posts following this one. BUT… I’m glad you asked, and I’m happy to answer.

    Even if you are the most balanced of individuals, there are nonetheless reasons for trying something new, challenging yourself, shaking up the status quo, and striving to allow yourself an opportunity for sexual evolution. Having a healthy sex life and keeping your masturbatory habits in check do not preclude trying things that hold the potential to stimulate your growth as a person, sexually and otherwise.

    By the way, while sexual desire (which can vary greatly across individuals, as it is NOT confined to or solely defined by physiological responses but is multi-dimensional beyond physicality) is part and parcel of the human experience, what one individual calls “controlled” can be viewed by another as “excessive” – as what one person considers “healthy” can be seen by another as “abnormal”. Such variations in perception and interpretation are also part of the subjective experience of being human.

    Nonetheless, neither feeling “controlled” or “healthy” should be viewed as an arbitrary reason for stopping in one’s tracks, drawing lines in the sand or becoming stagnant. Life is too short not to be open-minded and consider a variety of options -and the only way you find out what rings your bell or sinks your battleship is to try something for yourself. Vicarious learning is all well and good, but personal experiences (which provide the basis of an informed opinion) are unmatched and required for your own self-awareness to grow. For instance, you might discover your submission for the first time or have a suspected submissive streak in yourself confirmed – and finding out with certainty necessitates that YOU have the experience which shows/teaches you that. (As well as revealing a taste for chastity, you may have think you’ll dig being locked up, but actually trying it lets you know that it’s not really your thing.)

    (All that said, it bears mentioning that vicarious learning really should suffice when it comes to one’s health and safety. I mean, you wouldn’t need to experience falling from a fifth story window to know that you’re not going to like the outcome. You don’t need to chew on a mouthful of barbed wire in order to know you’re not going to enjoy the experience. However, chastity is a horse of a completely different color. You might get ants in your pants after being caged for “x” amount of time, but the world is not going to end, you are not going to spontaneously combust, you are not going to break any bones or put your eye out [though maybe once you’re out of chastity…], and your dick is NOT going to fall from your body like an apple from a tree. It’s just a chastity device, which may get uncomfortable when you try to get an erection – but it’s NOT Alcatraz, and you’re not going to be shot by guards or drown if you try to escape.)

    I hope this helps, my Gigi girl! 😉

  • These are great reasons to try chastity. It seems that most men do masturbate much too often. Some of my callers confess to wanking three or more times a day. It amazes me that anything would get done with that much jerking going on! Sometimes chastity is the only way to take the focus off the penis.

  • EmmaJane

    I absolutely agree with you, Ms. Lena! When you’re whipping your willie senseless three times a day, how can you possibly be getting other things done that SHOULD take precedence over rubbing one out? Sometimes you just have to take a man’s toy away from him completely before he’ll leave it alone. Thank you chastity!

  • EmmaJane

    And what a cream puff sissy girl you are, Petey! Keep up the good work. 😉

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