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Ditch Those Oral Apprehensions! (Part One)

There Need Be No Shame in Your Cock-Sucking Fantasy Game!

cock-sucking fantasies, cum-eating, domme-guided biIf I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard a curious or confused man lay angst and even upset at my feet over his questions, concerns, interest, and quiet excitement with regard to cock-sucking fantasies, I’d be one wealthy Mistress.

Regardless of whether the consideration of orally exploring another cock is cursory or consuming, even the mere prospect of indulging in any fantasy involving servicing a cock not his own -under any circumstances of the imagination- can elicit strong feelings of embarrassment, humiliation, guilt, and personal confusion, which detract and undermine the right to and genuine enjoyment of one’s own erotic kinks.

But… It doesn’t have to be that way…

Own Your Own Inner World!

Rule #1, my bi-curious husbands, boyfriends, and lovers, is this:

Know, understand, and accept that only you know what flips your switch, and NO ONE else can tell you how you feel, what you want or when and how you want it. Furthermore, it is for no one else to tell you whether you should or shouldn’t get turned on at the idea of engaging in cock-sucking fantasies or cum-eating scenarios!

The whole point of a fantasy is to let your mind run wild and the thrill of something you wouldn’t necessarily do in real-time send you into the throes of masturbatory ecstasy! So grab the reins and own those naughty thoughts (from first time jitters to a glory hole visit to an oral gangbang to a sucking scene of coerced bi) that make your cock squirm with excitement – whether you choose to share them with another or not.

Kick the Labels to the Curb

While it is human nature to feel compelled to label everything we encounter in the name of “understanding” and to quash fear of the unknown, being married to labels and insisting on having one on hand at all times can undermine the actual truth of who we are as unique individuals.

In the name of wearing labels, none fit you as well as you allow them to fit, so check the negative labels and the stigmas they carry at the door to your fantasy land of cock-servicing and cum-collection!

Understand the Misunderstandings

“Oh god! Are you gay?” “Do you want to be in a relationship with a man?” “Have you been in the closet all this time?” “So that’s why you want to eat your own cum?”

“Do you want to be a woman?” “Is it because it makes you feel like a girl?” “Do you want to be ‘fucked like a woman’?”

You try to share your cock curiosities with a partner, and you get reflexively slammed with various versions of statements like these. Any attempt at understanding your cock-sucking fantasies are completely bypassed, and it’s full-steam ahead into a whirlwind of accusations, based on a failure of said partner to put forth any effort to try finding out who you are, what makes you tick, and perhaps why imagining sucking a throbbing, aching, bouncing cock makes your own cock spring to life.

That lack of due diligence is rigid, it is unfair, it is short-sighted – and it is NOT your problem; it’s a shortcoming of someone else and not your problem unless you make it yours. Letting such incorrect snap judgments only leaves you feeling guilty, ashamed, humiliated, and otherwise bothered by something that may be an incredible sexual trigger for you – and we’re just not going to have that!!

Next up, I’m going to share with you an erotic rule of thumb for kicking everyone’s -whether yours or someone else’s- labels that dampen and hinder your ability to liberate your cock-sucking fantasies!! Sound simple?

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