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Sexual Fantasies With No Apologies (Part One)

The Fear in the Fantasysexual fantasies, femdom, Mistress EmmaJane

It is not at all uncommon that I hear the voice on the other end of the line issue an apologetic disclaimer on the subject or content of the sexual fantasies they would like to share, have just shared or long to share but are afraid.

While I very much appreciate the thoughtfulness and consideration from which these apologies spring, I never want you to feel that you are going to be judged or censured by me for sharing your secrets and what is on your mind, because you certainly will not be subjected to anything like that.

Regardless of whether you’re a vanilla fella (who feels like a total kinkmeister), one who fancies being THE most submissive male ever, a humiliation junkie or a partaker of any of another myriad of fantastic sexual delights and desires, we’re in this together, and as long as you are respectful, I will support you rabidly and without question!

My Own Disclaimer on Sexual Fantasies

By the way…

Honey, this is not my first rodeo, and I am NOT easily shocked. Furthermore, this IS the world of phone sex, where I expect you to let your fantasies run freely, so rest assured I’m not waiting with a stick of judgment in order to start drawing lines in the sexual sand! This is your safe place where you can let that freak flag fly in the breeze – I’ll even help you raise it! *wink wink*

Apology Appreciated, But Not Necessary

Now, about these apologies…

I have heard everything from the subtle apology (“I know this is probably weird or freaky…”) to the more pronounced one (“I really hope I don’t offend you…”) to the flat-out, overt apology (“I am so sorry if this is too much or over the top…”) – and every time I have the same response, and the following are things I would like you to keep in mind when you’re feeling a little apprehensive:

  • Everyone has what constitutes sexual fantasies, whether they choose to admit it or not.
  • Everyone has some sexual fantasy or trigger that they think they are the lone individual on Earth to have. (Trust me. You are NOT alone in yours!!)
  • Everyone has a “sexual fantasy skeleton” in his/her closet that he/she feels is best kept there for fear of negative repercussions were they revealed.
  • Everyone is entitled to his/her sexual fantasies, whatever they are. (Having a fantasy does not mean one would ever want to act on it!)
  • Sharing is all about respect – in BOTH directions! I do not have to “be into” the fantasy that you present in order to enjoy it and you.

That said, there are certain courtesies you should grant both yourself AND others when it comes to sharing the spicy tidbits that stoke your sexual fires. We’ll take a look at several of these in my next post…

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13 comments to Sexual Fantasies With No Apologies (Part One)

  • Petey cream puff

    My fantasy is to be caught wearing your bra/panty set with heels & lipstick and you keep me this way all the time with shopping trips in which you take me for bra fittings/make up applications/shopping for dresses in which I’m wearing nothing but heels/bra/panty set with you picking out dresses for me to hold and try on.

    Also my massuse had me take her purse to buy things for her last week. I’ve never had this happen and it me off guard. I didn’t dare say no to her as I’ve upset her once and won’t do that again. What does this mean? Other sissies said she knows I’m weak/submissive and feminine and that she has total power control over me.

  • Dick Breath Sissy JayMe

    MsEmmaJane- LDW women such as you are THERAPISTS, pure & simple. You, and several others, have demonstrated a thorough grasp of not merely diverse sexual needs, but also an understanding of human behavior. Thank you.

  • We all know closely tied to a man’s gratification in imagining his wife asserting full, unmitigated reasons to let loose her most secretive eroticism for example, with another male is a thrill that most men have. This is one reason why having secrets heightens his arousal.

  • EmmaJane

    Yes, Ms. Cindy. It’s all about owning those naughty secrets and allowing them to fan that erotic flame, as opposed to letting them (secrets) undermine passion and sexual elation due to shame or guilt that someone else thinks you should feel for having them. When we embrace our fantasies and own them, liberation and ecstasy are ours!

  • Petey cream puff

    This is why I’ve always been single/never had a girlfriend/kissed a girl or been kissed by girls. Though I’ve met 3 women and they don’t know of my fantasies. I do want to have all 3 take charge and keep me in line. With my massuse she did give me her purse to carry to buy things for her and I did as she asked of me. That’s never happened and it caught me off guard but it was hot turn on how she did this to me. We’ve had deep conversations about life and I told her my love life sucks. I didn’t tell her about my interest in dressing but I think only way is to wear women’s slacks/boots and finally come out and tell her this is reason why I’ve never had girlfriends/never kissed a girl or kissed by girls. The 2 women I’ve become friends playing tennis with don’t know of this. I have hots for one and the other has hots for me. I’m a train wreck and I’m scared what all 3s reaction will be if they find out about this. I don’t mind if all 3 take charge and keep me in line. I want that! How can I make all of this happen?

  • EmmaJane

    Thank you for those kind words, Sissy JayMe. I am so very pleased, as I know the other Ladies with whom you interact are, that you feel not only are your needs met, but you are appreciated, accepted, and understood for exactly who you are, free of conditions, judgment, and feeling like you have to censor yourself. Everyone needs a place of true personal freedom and support; I am happy you can find that with us. 🙂

  • EmmaJane

    Oh, Honey! If I were to catch you in my things, you had better believe I am not going to allow you out of them!! You ARE going to embrace the girl in you ALL THE TIME. That’s just how it would have to be.

  • Petey cream puff

    You wouldn’t be upset if you did catch me in your clothes would you? Just seeing what you wear along with the sexy dresses/tops/boots is to much to resist. I’ll do what you say as long as you don’t throw me out and dump me. It’s just all your girlfriends/mistresses are now going to find out that you along with Ms Cindy have turned me into your cream puff with no intention of letting me go.

  • EmmaJane

    Do any of these women yet know what a girl you really are? Have you dropped any additional hints? I’m curious!

  • EmmaJane

    Honey, I wouldn’t be at all upset! In fact, I would forbid you to stop!! I’d have you dressing for me ALL the time! 😉

  • Petey cream puff

    With 2 girls no but with my massuse yes. I came out of closet with her. She asked if I worn makeup/sleep in lingerie and I said yes. She sold me coach purse and told me I look better with it then she does. She called me purse boy and even fitted me for bra and had me wear it last weekend. I asked if it was ok to go shopping with her and her and she said yes. She has lipsticks for me as do I and hope she will put it on me. I see her 3x week for 2 hour massages and I’m her cream puff sissy boy.

  • EmmaJane

    Enjoy this new experience, Petey! 🙂

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