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Merging Your Feminization Fantasies With Your Reality (Part I)

feminization fantasiesCan Feminization Fantasies Become a Part of Your Feminine Experience?

Regardless of where you are on your personal journey into feminization -whether you are a sissy or a crossdresser– there are inevitably things you would like to experience and possibly implement as a regular part of your “girl time” that you leave in your fantasy world. Your hesitation to think of your feminization fantasies becoming a part of your reality can be a result of fear, anxiety, uncertainty, shyness, and a host of other reasons.

However, you cannot help but wonder how you would feel if you could bring some of these hidden feminization fantasies into your real-time experiences. You’re not sure if what you would like to try or achieve only sounds good in theory or there is some realistic merit to pushing forward to see where things might go.

So how do you temper your excitement over these forbidden fruits of feminization and determine if you’re overly worried for no valid reason or you’re playing with fire? How do you know in which direction(s) you really should or should not go?

Objective Evaluations of Your Feminization Fantasies

Put On Your Pink Thinking Cap!

What you need to do is slip into your favorite loungewear, sit down with a cup of tea, and ask yourself the following questions (or discuss them with your Mistress), while considering who you are, what your feminine experience is like now, and what exists only in your feminization fantasies at this point in time:

  •  “If I could transform my feminine experience into anything I want it to be with NO restrictions, what would I do/add to make my current experiences perfect?”
    • Make a list of the top 5 (or more!) things you would add that would increase your happiness within your feminine experience, whether you’re a sissy or a crossdresser. Do not focus on the possibility in or reality of these things. This is a “wishful thinking” list.
  • “If I am fully realistic, honest, and as objective as possible, could I at least try or even regularly implement any of these things into my current feminine routine?”
    • Rate the (five) items on the list with the following scale from 1 to 10:
      • One means there is absolutely NO way you could EVER realistically accomplish the item, as the repercussions would likely be disastrous or somehow detrimental to your priorities, relationship(s), career,  and/or any sense of your well-being.
      • Five means the item might be something you could manage in real time, whether now or in the future.
      • Ten should be assigned to those items/activities/behaviors (that you might fear, find anxiety-provoking or simply have not done for no good reason) which you have not done, but would in no way be impossible or pose any threat to you or your well-being.
    • If the 1-10 scale doesn’t work for you, I will in the next post offer another way to organize your thoughts into an organized format.

In the post to follow, I will offer you more food for thought on how to use the evaluations you are making and the possibility of bringing some of your feminization fantasies (or at least elements of them) to life within your present feminization endeavors.

emmajane@enchantrixempire.com YIM: empress.emmajane Call 800-601-6975

emmajane@enchantrixempire.com
YIM: empress.emmajane
Call 800-601-6975

 

 

2 comments to Merging Your Feminization Fantasies With Your Reality (Part I)

  • Yvonne

    iThis is such a wonderful idea. Sissies and crossdressers need to realize that this whole feminization thing is a process. Making a list and setting goals that can be met helps a great deal and makes the feminization experience that much more fulfilling. In my personal experience just setting a couple of easy goals and maintaining them has been very rewarding. Something just simple like filing your nails and keeping a clear polish on gives you a sense of accomplishment. It makes you feel good about yourself which can be so difficult for us.

    xxxx
    yvonne

  • EmmaJane

    Your being organized and setting yourself goals does not come as a surprise at all, Yvonne. You actually understand that, as Rome was not built in a day, NO ONE -real woman, sissy or crossdresser- hops up in the morning looking like she just walked off the set of a photo shoot for Vogue. While it’s true that sissies and crossdressers have to invest more of their time and energy in the -short and long-term- transformational process involved in feminization, setting realistic goals for the present and the future can keep a girl on-track.

    And you are so on target, Yvonne, in pointing out the fact that something easy and simple can be a great reinforcement and bring a sense of fulfillment. After all, you have to start with and master the basics before dreaming about other things. Thank you for being such a shining example, Yvonne!! You more than make a Mistress proud! 🙂

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