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The Cuckold and a Different Kind of Jealousy

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Cuckolding and the Emotional Merry-Go-Round

Being newly inducted into the life and position of a cuckold can be an overwhelming -and yet incredibly exciting- experience of tangled and colliding emotions. You don’t know what to expect or where to put those conflicting feelings that are coming at you from all sides at 100 miles per hour.

There’s the thrill of doing something taboo and kinky… the fear of the unknown… the titillation of envisioning your partner becoming that hot wife who’s on the prowl for big cocks and multiple fucks… the worry that your wife or girlfriend will end up sidelining you and your cock permanently… the vicarious pleasure you experience from seeing and hearing your partner being completely gratified… the cuckold jealousy of another man touching your partner in the most intimate way possible.

It can bring a feeling of damned-if-you-do-damned-if-you-don’t – but you just can’t seem to resist. The allure of this particular form of domination is too enticing…

“Traditional” Jealousy and Cuckolding

The Perception of Territory

Before that first cuckolding occasion, you think you feel what is jealousy, and you know the last thing you -as a male- “should” want is to see you girlfriend getting the daylights plowed out of her by some virile young stud or your wife having sex with other men. Despite the titillation you feel at the prospect of being a cuckold, you have those undeniable moments when you feel that her pussy is your territory – and you don’t want anyone else being between her legs in “your” place.

Growing Tolerance of Cuckold Jealousy

While this sense of ownership and protectiveness may be more common with the novice cuckold, it does not simply vanish as one wanders further down another-man-is-fucking-my-wife lane. It may be tempered and not nearly as pronounced, but jealousy still rears its head now and again. It is not as nagging. It becomes more bearable. There is a unique acceptance of how things have now become.

However, there is a phenomenon that occurs with some cuckolds where jealousy takes on a new form, and the cuck finds that there’s something that makes him even more jealous than another man…

(Yes. There will be a Part Two that tells you what that is!)

6 comments to The Cuckold and a Different Kind of Jealousy

  • Mike

    This is not (exactly) cuckolding I don’t think but it feels like it relates. Especially to the idea of
    “growing tolerance”. I had a girlfriend who would speak openly (with me present) about how endowed and attractive other guys were. Her girlfriends would talk to her too and it was often open banter between them. All of that would have been “fine” – except that they would still do it when I was there….as if I was one of the girls. It was like a “tolerance” thing and I felt like if I objected or said something to her it would have made me more vulnerable. It was always the endowment talk that made me most uncomfortable but also unable to object

  • EmmaJane

    I think, like so many things, that the various dynamics of a relationship or interaction are in the eye of the beholder. When it comes to cuckolding, I believe it can be much more complex a dynamic than the “traditional” idea, which focuses on the overt sexual component. I think the most powerful form or presentation of cuckolding results from the mental component of how a man feels and sees himself in relation to a partner. It certainly sounds as though you felt a unique manifestation of cuckolding that left a huge impression on you. Very interesting…

  • Mike

    Your comment is interesting. Yes, I agree. I had thought of cuckolding as more “overt” originally. I did not actually know the word itself when I first had this experience. But the experience of “your” girlfriend openly discussing how awesome (and big) other guys are (or “must be”) and you feeling as though you need to accept this (it is hard to object to without sounding a bit dumb) is a form of cuckolding perhaps? She talked (a lot) and also flirted some (yes in front of me) but as far as I know it mostly stopped there but there was a power dynamic in that she sort of expected me not to object.

  • EmmaJane

    I do believe that cuckolding can be in the eye -or the mind- of the beholder of “those certain kinds” of verbal and non-verbal cues. If you feel like a cuckold in some way, then that is all that matters in your own perception.

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