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Stopping Your Topping From the Bottom

No Topping From the Bottom Allowed Phone Femdom EmmaJane 800-601-6975Respecting Your Top

As is the case in any quality Dominant-submissive relationship, the sub must always respect and come to fully trust his/her femdom in order to truly experience the thrill of domination.

It is my duty as you Mistress to discover your submissive desires and triggers, zero in on them in ways that take you to dizzying submissive heights, and push your boundaries in a way that encourages you to reach out of your comfort zone yet do not feel as though you are being made to go in a direction that does not complement -or that actually dampens and offends- your being the best submissive you can be.

You must respect and trust both me as your Dominant AND the process of Dominance and submission, else you’re only going through the motions.

As for your role in our endeavor, now that I am in the driver’s seat, your only duty is to sit back and enjoy the submissive ride.

Committing To Being a Bottom

The flip side of my commitment to giving you the most thrilling, satisfying, and profound ride on the domination train possible is (or should be!) your commitment to acceptance of the manner which I deem to be the most suitable and appropriate to you and your own unique sense of submission. You have to work on cultivating a solid sense of trust within yourself, in me, AND between us in order to succeed at maintaining the proper dynamic.

You should trust that I have listened and paid attention to your submissive needs. You should trust that I know what I am doing in meeting those needs. You should trust that I know how to be in control of you. You should trust ME implicitly and commit yourself to your place as the bottom.

Topping from the bottom undermines the establishment and maintenance of trust – and not just for you…

A Practical Example of Top and Bottom Roles

It’s like this: Imagine I am a master chef, and you ask me to cook for you. You share with me particular foods you do and do not like, pointing out specifically those that excite your palate without fail. While you may even buy the ingredients for the meal, I will be the one who decides what each component of the meal will be -from appetizer through dessert- and I will be the one who prepares each of these things.

As I am a master chef, you will not be dictating to me -aka micromanaging- HOW it is I prep the ingredients and cook the meal. In fact, you will not even be in the kitchen! You should be patiently waiting at the table, napkin at the ready to mop the excess drool from your chin, in anticipation of how I will expertly begin, pace, direct, and otherwise deliver an exquisite meal, from beginning to end.

When each party knows his and Her place, topping from the bottom should never be an issue.

emmajane@enchantrixempire.com YIM: empress.emmajane Call 800-601-6975

emmajane@enchantrixempire.com
YIM: empress.emmajane
Call 800-601-6975

2 comments to Stopping Your Topping From the Bottom

  • bambie

    Wow Mistress Emmajane that is the most perfect analogy. Thank you so much! You are the best teacher I’ve learned so much from you thank You.
    Have a very Merry Christmas
    bambie

  • Empress EmmaJane

    You are most welcome, Bambie! I’m always happy to help you be the best you can possibly be! 🙂

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