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Laying the Foundation For an Assplay Newbie

Someone Has Discovered His Ass!

Bottoms up, assplay newbies! How far do you want to take your anal adventures? Mistress EmmaJane, Lover of Asses 800-601-6975

Bottoms up, assplay newbies! How far do you want to take your anal adventures?
Mistress EmmaJane, Lover of Asses
800-601-6975

One of my great joys in being a phone Mistress is hearing the excitement, curiosity, and enthusiasm in the voice of someone who has discovered a new sexual titillation. Take, for instance, a recent caller who has been dabbling with some “introductory” assplay and found that “it feels really good” – and we’re talking only about hanging around outside the mall with a couple of very quick trips inside and back out with a finger. He has only experienced some delicate brushing with his fingertips and barely penetrating that delicious backdoor entrance, but he knows there is so much more to anal masturbation.

So the Anal Play Journey Begins…

In talking about how he enjoys brief moments of anal titillation when he is stroking (which I had him do WHILE he was stroking), it was obvious his curiosity has been piqued, but it is tempered by apprehension of the unknown. He is well aware that anal exploration and stimulation of the prostate hold the promise of eliciting explosive orgasms. He is also well aware that the ass is a delicate area, which requires time and patience when deciding to proceed with anal play. He has no toys as of yet, but he does not rule out the possibility of acquiring some at a later time. (I can see him being quite a devout disciple of dildo training.)

For now, he has plenty on his plate with trying more intense digital stimulation, but his voice offers a hint of the excitement and enticement anal play holds for him – and I fully intend to lead him as far down the pathway into ass play adventures as he should decide he wants to go.

Are You an Assplay Newbie Ready To Push Forward?

Are you a man who can relate to the beginner’s experience of this particular individual? Have you discovered that touching and lightly stimulating your ass sends shivers through your body and makes your cock even harder? Do you hold back because you worry how it will feel and whether it might be uncomfortable to penetrate yourself with one or more fingers? Are you unsure as to how you should progress and/or pace yourself?

If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, maybe all you need is a little nudge… some guidance… consistent reassurance… step-by-step directions… exposure to a strong Woman who loves a man’s ass. It may involve domination or it may not. What it does involve is pleasure, an increased awareness of your body, and broadened sexual horizons. Whatever it is that will encourage you to further explore assplay, either alone or with a partner, I have it in spades. Where do we begin?

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8 comments to Laying the Foundation For an Assplay Newbie

  • Steven

    Slow and easy..lol .. i think im a beginner level 2 maybe if there such a thing. But one thing for sure. Feeling some one gently touching me excites me greatly.. and makes the slut mode kick into the next gear. ;).. whether it be myself or my girlie self as Stephanie. . Ha ..

  • Empress EmmaJane

    Oh yes. I KNOW you love those gentle, slow, and sweeping anal caresses. In your case, that’s because you’re just a slut, my dear! 😉

  • I love this post Ms Emma Jane! I’ve known several guys who have had a bad experience with ass play when their partner moves too fast and it hurts. Well, of COURSE that will happen if he or she just shoves something up there! But, slow anal teasing makes that ass WANT to feel something in there … that’s when it’s possible to do some amazing anal and it’s smokin’ hot for both!

  • Ohhhh, I admit, I love, love, LOVE ass play! And getting a newbie started on this amazing path is just the icing on the cake! The look on a man’s face when a bit of vibration hits his prostate for the first time… *giggles* There is just nothing like it!! Steven is lucky to have such a knowledgeable Mistress. 😉

  • Empress EmmaJane

    Oh, Ms. Rita! Isn’t assplay just the best?! I love helping a man make such an exquisite discovery, leading him to wonder how he could have missed such delicious sensations for so long. Novice or old hat, small or huge toys, regular or sporadic players, I am ALL about a man and his ass! 😉

  • Empress EmmaJane

    Thanks a bunch, Ms. Olivia! That’s exactly what I’m saying: Delicate territory ahead. No abrupt, rough or sudden movements – especially with a beginner!! One bad experience -or unfortunate injury- is all it takes to rob this potentially mind-blowing experience of its magic and promise. Patience is key for successful backdoor fun!

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  • […] Furthermore, my affinity for such a man grows by leaps and bounds when he is brazen, full of vim and vigor, and devoid of even an ounce of shame with regard to his assplay adventures. […]

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