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Stress, Submission, and the Successful Man (Part One of Three)

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For many men who hold positions of great responsibility and suffer the stress which that naturally brings, going to a place where the burden of decision-making is lifted from their shoulders can be a most appealing proposition. This post, along with the two to follow, will explore different ways in which men whose daily lives are filled with endless stress, responsibilities, control, expectations, and decision-making can seek the relief AND release in trading their daily dominance for submission.

Crossdressing For Stress-Relief

Feminized With No Choice

One of the ways in which a man who yearns to give up control can experience a sense of  submissive liberation is via the combination of domination and feminization.  A strong woman takes the reins and tells him what to do. In this instance, those orders consist of dressing in something feminine. There is no choice, no discussion, no option. You put on the panties (bra, stockings, skirt, etc.) or else. You will put on the specific pair of panties in which I want you to be. You will touch those panties as I tell you to do. You WILL make a mess in them – but only when you are told to do so. Between the soothing tactile sensations and complete surrender to the orders of a woman in charge within the coerced feminization experience, submission for the stressed man can feel like a vacation like no other. It’s like checking into a 5-star resort, where your every need is met while you simply relax and enjoy the pampering.

Slipping Into Feminine Attire and Out of Stress

We then have those men who voluntarily slip into lingerie and feminine clothing in the search for a respite from the expectations of being the man’s man who is always in command. These men willingly find comfort in crossdressing in items that give them a sense of the literal and figurative “softness” of women and the feminine experience. The sense of relief and submission they feel may occur as the result of stereotypical notions in which women are seen as delicate, fragile, subdued, weak, and/or overtly submissive – aka the opposite perception of an ultra-masculine man who is in control of everything and everyone around him. The tactile representation of this view of femininity -soft, velvety, delicate, refined, silky, fragile- is quite literally felt and underscores the accompanying submissive sensations.

Whether dressing is a choice or an order, feminization can be one of the keys a tense, responsibility-laden man can leave behind the world’s expectations of him, relax, and allow submission to take him to both mental and physical heights of ecstasy and release.

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3 comments to Stress, Submission, and the Successful Man (Part One of Three)

  • jim

    dear miss emma,

    I have, a couple of times, in my life, had a female ask me to “put something on for her”. The first time it happened it caught me very off guard – I did not see it coming at all. It was not said in either a harsh way or as a ‘request’ – I can still recall the exact words – “I’d like you to try those on for me” (it was a pair of panties). I sort of “froze” at the “request” but what struck me was the depth of both my response and my friends (female, not “my girlfriend”). I have thought about it many times since. I could tell she felt like she “could” make me do this (or she would not have asked, no?). Also the fact that she said it so plainly – not at all harsh but not “sexy” either – it was more “plain” like she expected me to………..”for her”. Even caught off guard I realized in the back of my head that if I did it I was doing something uniquely embarrassing and emasculating that she could (if she so chose) hold over my head forever. Yet even knowing that I felt like I literally could not refuse her. It is very hard to explain this. I also realized and was aware that this was NOT a request she would make of most men she knew. I knew that. But somehow she felt she could make it of me.

  • jim

    I do not think a more dominant or alpha type male can understand what it is like for a more naturally submissive guy if a woman “forces” or “coerces” him into a compromised situation with something feminine. I have only had a couple of experiences with this but in retrospect it sort of ‘froze me’ when I heard the request – which in both cases came out gentle but very firm. I felt as though I could not say “no”. It truly was a very deep feeling and a very body feeling. The first time the female friend (not a girlfriend per se) simply said “I’d like you to try those on…for me”. I knew that this was not something she asked of boyfriends or guys she dated in general. I knew consciously that I would be embarrassed and she could “use it” afterwards. Nonetheless it felt like I was on automatic – weird. I felt so “unequal” to her that she could expect (and it did feel like expectation) this of me. All of it seems quite “deep”.

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