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What is the Titillation in Being Cuckolded? (Part One of Two)

Cuckold Phone Mistress EmmaJane 800-601-6975“I never thought I would be a cuckold…”

No man ever sets out thinking of being a cuckold or aspiring to be dominated in that very intimate and inherently humiliating way. One doesn’t wake up one morning and think being cuckolded sounds like a neat idea. There is no sitting down and developing a carefully conceived, well-thought out, logical plan for becoming a cuck. It’s one of those things that can feel as though it “just happens”.

However it does come to be, you can’t help but find yourself asking, “How did I get here?”

Just how does the cuckold experience begin?

Perhaps your being a cuckold began innocently enough as a form of mental foreplay or a naughty roleplay topic, spawned by the delight of pretending to engage in something taboo. It could be that fantasy was taken to the next level, where the voyeur in you wanted to experience the “ultimate” of voyeuristic fantasies. Maybe your wife/girlfriend wanted or needed to “experiment” – and you went along with that, because you “only want her to be happy.” Perhaps she had already gone to graze greener pastures and finally clued you in on her fun on the side, letting you know that this is now how things will continue to be.

However it began, all you know is that you are now a cuckolded man, you accept it, and yet you find yourself asking “But WHY do I like it?” Let us explore this…

The Emotional Conflict of Being Cuckolded

From the beginning, a cuckolding candidate experiences a whirlwind of emotion. There’s the natural jealousy, then there is titillation of something so intimately forbidden and taboo. There is the bewilderment over how a “real” man could ever entertain the idea of allowing, encouraging, imagining, and/or watching “his” woman with another man – yet there an undeniable turn-on in that idea. There is the conflict between feeling humiliated, belittled, and/or like the ultimate submissive male and experiencing undeniable sexual fireworks.

These conflicting emotions all spiral into a fiery cyclone of taboo desire, multifaceted submission, natural underlying humiliation, and unmatched sexual titillation. You feel it, but you cannot understand or explain it; you only know that -whether you admit it or not- you really do get off on being cuckolded.

Join me on my next cuckolding post; when we further explore the more overt humiliation that may be a part of the cuckolding experience.

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