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“Topping From the Bottom”: What Does It Mean?

Hello, my pets, peons, and princesses! Let’s take a moment to discuss and clarify a phrase about which a considerable number of you have asked “What does that mean?” when I have been forced to chastize you for temporarily forgetting your rightful and proper place. The particular idiom we will be discussing is topping from the bottom, which some of you subs and slaves occasionally like to do when you’re feeling a bit too sassy and attempt to tell me how to handle you in your submission. Your topping from the bottom is especially unacceptable when you have asked me adamantly and repeatedly to punish you and/or put/keep you in your place. Now, let’s take a look at what this naughty phenomenon is…

 

If one Googles the phrase “topping from the bottom,” the following results are found:

 

“…a person simultaneously adopts the role of bottom and dom.” (from Wikipedia)

 

“What is bottom topping, you may ask yourself. Well, that is when a submissive tries to control a scene or situation, manipulating the dominant to their desire, rather than what the dominant wants from the scene or situation. Topping from the bottom is considered inappropriate behavior in most D/s circles.” (by Margaret Kerr in her article “The Bottom Topping Submissive” [April 10, 2006] from the Associated Content website)

 

“…to control the scene from the bottom” (from www.sex-lexis.com)

 

“…a person who wants to be dominated but simultaneously direct the top to do it according to their wishes.” “Topping from the bottom is usually considered poor practice… although fairly common amongst the ‘BDSM curious’ or newcomers who have had submissive sexual fantasies for some time but lacked real experience of a sexual dominant.” (from en.allexperts.com)

 

I think you all get the point. So… The next time I tell you to stop trying to top me from the bottom, you will know exactly what I mean. There will be no mistaking that you’re being naughty and attempting to assume MY position as the dominant one within our session – and you will have to be dealt with accordingly… *familiar wicked grin*

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