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In Consideration of Cuckolding (Part One)

Because Cuckolding in Fantasy Is Not Cuckolding Realitycuckolding, real-time cuckold

While fantasy safely affords a no holds barred experience, one in which caution can be thrown to the wind with no regard for any potential consequences, pondering a real-time cuckolding arrangement with your partner is a very different situation.

Unless you are prepared to live with less than desirable results that hold the real possibility to negatively impact your relationship when your wife has sex with another man, it is only wise, responsible, and advisable to gauge all angles of the prospect of introducing cuckolding into your committed, intimate partnership, regardless of how open-minded and adventurous you may be.

Honesty Is the Best Policy

When a couple decides to discuss the prospect of the husband becoming a real-time cuckold (whether only once or as a possibly regular part of their sex life), each partner needs to lay all of his/her cards on the table, as it’s a little late in the game to begin sharing when you’re right smack in the middle of your first cuckolding experience.

This is not a prospective engagement where sugar-coating, ego-stroking, coddling or humoring belongs, unless you are willing to risk your relationship over a serious and irrevocable misunderstanding.

When sharing your expectations, desires, and feelings regarding cuckolding, remember than an ounce of prevention (honesty) truly is worth a pound of cure (trying to repair a damaged relationship).

Don’t Jump into the Fire

One sit-down does not a thorough exploration of any serious topic make. Going -or ultimately declining to go- the cuckold route should be a lengthy, “sober,” and multi-faceted series of discussions. Fantasizing about the thrill of cuckolding or titillation of becoming a cuckold during sex and discussing it in the heat of passion does not qualify as a substantive discussion!

Whether you are the one doing the cuckolding or the one to be cuckolded, you need to make every effort to see the view from both sides of the fence, play the “what-if” game regarding potential feelings and actions from the planning stage to the cuckolding event to the aftermath, ask questions of your partner, and outline expectations from choosing the other man in the scenario to safety requirements to behaviors.

Always remember that even the best-laid plans can go off the rails, so you can be sure that going off half-cocked when it comes to real-time cuckolding can be a very good recipe for disaster!

In the next post, I’ll highlight why discussing safety, laying out boundaries, and being on the same page are responsible relationship safeguards in your discussions on cuckolding.

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Blowjobs Abounding at the Glory Hole!

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Another Insatiable Cock-Sucker

Sometimes it feels like there are cock-suckers jumping out of the woodwork – and how I love those times. What makes those instances even hotter and more riveting for me is when a fiery, shameless, rabid cock-monger is calling to report in on his glory hole cock-gobbling and cum-slurping.

Let’s talk for a moment about such a proud prick-pleaser with amazing cocksucking lips

Going Where the Action Is

He rolls up into the adult theatre, like a well-trained hound hot on the trail of one of America’s most wanted. The knowledge of what he is about to do gives him a rush that is unmatched.  He craves cock, and he is about to get his fix…

Promises in the Dark

He makes his way into the big, open room, in which the cloak of darkness, corrupted only by the light flickering on the big screen, visually stifles any attempt to clearly see the actions of those figures -standing, sitting, on their knees, gathered in small clusters of sweat, panting, and the smells of sex- in the room.

He roams through the maze of writhing, grunting bodies, making sure he catches the hungry eyes of the shadowy figures in this crowd of copulation and cock-sucking. Licking his lips and curling his finger to beckon a following, he begins to make his way to “one of those little rooms” and prepares to “man” the  glory hole.

Glory Hole Gayfest!

He drops to his knees, peeks through the glory hole, and soon becomes the center of attention, as a hard cock slides through that duct-taped, wooden hole in the wall, and he detects the movement of others on the opposite side of the wall. Let the cock-sucking and cum-eating begin!

Oral Gang-Bang Ahead

You see, he is no stranger to this particular venue, and he knows there is a line forming in the next room. It is to be a procession of hard cocks that occupies that hole, some of which are experiencing his mouth for the first time and others who are more than a little familiar with his sucking skills.

The glory hole Prince ecstatically gives out blowjob after blowjob and guzzles down load after load of fresh cum like a fiend. He is in his own dick-sucking paradise and is committed to servicing cock after cock as long as he can remain on his knees and his jaw hasn’t locked from being so viciously and greedily active with his mouth.

Yes. He’s a fervent, frenzied, fanatical, cock-obsessed sucking machine – and I love that about him…

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What Stops You From Cum-Eating? (Conclusion)

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Simply put, eating your own fresh -or frozen!- cum load is not “gay” any more than is enjoying a good ass tapping.

Why should anyone’s enjoyment or experimentation of their own body (or any part of it in any way) be arbitrarily considered negative, bad, labeled by some self-feared stereotype, and/or be indicative of some “unknown” self-truth? That is unfounded, illogical, and just plain silly.

If your “I-want-to-try-my-own-cum-but-haven’t” excuse is “the gay thing,” well, this is just grasping at straws for some reason -any reason- not to satisfy your cum-eating curiosity. Would you insist that a woman who tastes her own juices or cum is a lesbian??? I didn’t think so.

Seriously, Honey, if you are gay or bisexual, then that is who you are, and your eating your own cum is NOT going to have any bearing on your sexual orientation.

“Once I Cum, the Urge Is Gone”

This is certainly in my opinion one of the most understandable reasons for failing to getting that cum load to your mouth. I may not find it acceptable, but I can understand why it exists.

When you’re all revved up and hot over the prospect of drinking down that freshly squeezed man juice, you are committed to doing so until… *Boom!* You bust that nut and wait entirely too long to exert an effort to get at least some of your cum to your mouth – and now your orgasm has taken the urge away!

The curiosity has gone straight to the back burner, until the next time you’re hot and horny…

Success Found in Coached Cum-Eating

When you feel that cum-eating itch yet have a problem actually scratching it, there IS hope for reaching your jizz-gobbling goal. The remedy for your fear, shyness, cowardice, and concerns is as simple as a session of coached cum-eating.

All you need to do is reach out, explain your cum-curious quandary, and ask for some help from a dominant woman, then you are on your way!

During your coached cum-eating session,  I, your femdom, will give you clear instructions and explain my expectations for turning you into a cum-muncher. I will custom tailor the  path to cum-tasting that I think will work best for you, and I will require nothing less than your doing precisely what I tell you to do and when. I will not have my plans foiled!

If you’re a good boy and follow directions to the letter and without question or hesitation, you WILL end up with some of your own cum in your salivating, albeit anxious, little mouth before our time is over and done.

Whatever your reasons were for shying away from trying the custard of your loins, they will be a thing of the past!

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What Stops You From Cum-Eating? (Part Two)

cum-eating, cum load, taste of cum“It’s Just… Gross Though, Isn’t It?!”

Excuses, Excuses…

Uhm… And just why is it gross? Do you think it’s gross when you want to pump a hot cum load in a woman’s mouth?? No. Is it gross when she swallows your spunk? No. You’re curious about something you expect a woman to do without flinching, so stop with this grasping for excuses NOT to indulge in a shot o’ spooge yourself!

Beyond the Taste

It’s Cum-Eating, Not Cum-Huffing, Time

If it’s not the idea of the taste of cum that bothers you, is it the smell or a textural issue that makes you squeamish? So it can smell a bit like bleach, certain exotic mushrooms or Magnolia trees in bloom, and those are not particularly delightful aromas. However, no one said you need to be sniffing your cum like some bloodhound getting ready to track a fugitive. Sometimes you just have to grin and bear some things in order to partake of the enjoyment they offer.

I realize taste and smell are designed to work in tandem, but having a bad attitude regarding either of these aspects before you ever try cum-eating is just being plain silly. If you took some time to ponder some foods you really enjoy, I promise you will eventually think of more than one that may not be particularly enticing to the nostrils, but damn if they doesn’t taste good!

The Way It Feels Against the Tongue

As far as the texture is concerned, well, it’s not the same every time you cum either. It can range from not much thicker than precum (like a thinner sauce) to creamy (like pudding that is just beginning to set) to a consistency like Jello when hot water is stirred into it and it begins to gelatinize. Cum’s texture is not always predictable!

Think of it this way: Cum can be a bit of a delicacy in that each shot is one-of-a-kind in its own way, and you just have to learn to accept and appreciates the nuances of each cum load. It’s a peculiar culinary delight, as it were, that can only be “cooked up” in your very own body – AND you might even want to consider that cum-eating can potentially be good for you! Positivity goes a long way in achieving success!!

Next, I will address a reason for cum-eating hesitation that I can actually understand, and I have a suggestion for you and that cum load that is waiting to make its way successfully to your mouth!

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What Stops You From Cum-Eating? (Part One)

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I was recently speaking with someone about male curiosity regarding cum-eating, and we got into an in-depth discussion as to various reasons that exist in the mind of a man when he has an inclination to try tasting his own cum but hesitates or stops just short of doing so. (Naturally, there was an accompanying discussion of the virtues of coached cum-eating, led by a dominant woman to help remedy this “problem”.)

I thought our cum-eating “troubleshooting” thoughts were worth sharing, since they might be reassuring to some of you who want to taste your man pudding but can’t quite get there. While I am going to mention several different reasons, I will begin with what seems to be one of the most popular causes of apprehension in a potential cum-eater

“I’m Afraid of the Taste”

Fearing What You Don’t Know

My first question in response to this statement is always “Why???” I mean, if you have never had your own cum (or anyone else’s, for that matter) in your mouth, then HOW could you possibly have any idea how it will taste?

If you’ve been listening to other people -whether male or female- comment on their own taste-testing experience, then stop. Each person’s sense of taste is different, so only YOU can know what cum tastes like to you – and there is only one way you are going to find out. To get the answer you seek, you are absolutely going to have to take a deep breath, commit to the cause, stop being a pussy, and just eat that cum!

Thinking One Time Will Tell the Tale

And… As far as your delicate palate is concerned, there are subtle differences in taste each time you engage in cum-eating, depending on the various food, drink, medications, and other substances you ingest. This can mean that one cummy sample can taste bitter, while the next has a slight hint of sweetness to it.

While cum-eating may well be an acquired taste, it’s not like you’re eating hydrochloric acid, cyanide or trash from the garbage bin. Your cum is… YOUR own bodily fluid, so stop worrying about what you do not yet know about its taste! You really might rare well to do a little reading on how your diet affects the taste of your cum, as this can give you a feeling of some degree of control over the prospective taste.

Now, if it’s not a fear of the unknown taste, what are other reasons that keep you from cum-eating? Tune in next post for some of the additional possibilities that my previous conversation yielded. Feel free to contribute your own thoughts on cum-eating and what thing(s) make -or made- you hesitate.

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