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Q&A 103 With EmmaJane: Spanking Phone Sex

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There’s Nothing Like a Good Spanking…

Do you really like giving a spanking or is that just pretend?spanking, phone sex

Oh yes! You better believe it!! I enjoy spanking submissives, bad boys, naughty sissies, those with shamefully disappointing like pinky peckers… You name it! I am always ready to dole out some corporal punishment to a backside, whether it is a sensual ass-smacking or a harsh bottom-blistering.

In fact, when you ask me to light up your ass or tell me you’ve been a bad boy or misbehaving sub and desperately need put in your place over my lap, I am nothing short of thrilled to give you just what you require!

…And, yes, I DO like giving them in-person too!

What’s your favorite way to spank someone?

I don’t know that I have an absolute favorite way to spank someone, but I will say I am partial to an over-the-knee (OTK) spanking. There’s just something intimate about having you place yourself over my lap -perhaps you’re naked, perhaps you’re in panties- while I playfully paddle or wail on your sensitive tushy with my bare hand.

As far as spanking implements, hands down (no pun intended!), I prefer my bare hand, wooden hairbrush, ping-pong paddle or a wooden spoon for an OTK spanking. I like the control and ability to deliver each lick with great precision to the spot I desire.

That said, sometimes I do like to go a bit wild with a rattan cane, leather belt, and a few other select items…

Do you consider yourself a sadist?

Absolutely not! I don’t ever think of myself as a sadist -sexual or otherwise- because I do not get off on arbitrarily hurting anyone or subjecting them to pain. Your asking for a spanking is much different that my “forcing” corporal punishment upon you, dominating you arbitrarily or pointlessly dominating you, and/or or subjecting you to “bad pain”.

When I am giving you the stinging spanking you request, need, and desire to send you into that subspace you long to visit, I am acting on your giving me permission to spank you, and we have an mutual understanding that it is “good pain” you seek; therefore, despite the fact that I very much enjoy whipping the daylights out of you, I do not at all consider myself to be at all or in any way a sadist. I am just a randy, rowdy femdom, who loves serving up a hot ass – literally!

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Q&A 102 With Ms. EmmaJane: Vanilla Phone Sex Calls

In this post, I’ll be tackling a few common questions I receive on vanilla phone sex fun and diddling my kitty -or not- during a call!

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Is Vanilla Phone Sex an Acceptable Flavor?

I know you’re a dominant Woman, but do you like vanilla calls?

I can… While I very much enjoy domination on calls and those are by far predominantly what I do, I also enjoy sexy vanilla calls when there is mutual interaction. With domination calls, I feed off the energy, drive, and passion of the other party, and vanilla calls are no different. As long as we are “equals” or the balance of power is tipped in my favor on a vanilla call, I promise you we will have an incredible roll in the hay together.

Session Fact or Fiction?

Do you ever masturbate on calls?

Never! That is a personal choice and blanket decision on my part for several reasons.

One reason is that I like to be 100% focused when I am dominating you, and I find unacceptable anything that may impede or distract that my focus, concentration or control. While in session, I do not peck away on my keyboard, I do not watch the telly, I don’t file my nails, and I do not masturbate. This applies to ALL -both domination AND vanilla phone sex- calls.

I get a thrill from teasing you on a vanilla call and a huge rush purely from domination itself; I do not need to touch myself to enjoy our sessions. It is just not necessary for me to enjoy you and the time we spend together.

Asking me to make an exception or begging me to “do it just this once” will not work. I want all of my attention directed to you. Period.

Will you make noises and pretend to have an orgasm on a call?

No! Whether it’s domination phone sex time or I am engaging in a vanilla call, I do not fake anything. I believe in authenticity in all aspects of my life, and sessions are no different. (Incidentally, even if we are engaging in a vanilla phone sex call, I am still naturally a dominant Woman, and for me that precludes pretending.)

Sharing a fantasy of steamy sex, enjoying a round of pussy worship, and being fucked into oblivion by a huge cock while in session will not result in my moaning like I am in mortal pain, howling at the moon like a wild animal or screaming like a banshee. I will let you know in no uncertain terms how much I am enjoying the action, but that will not be via primitive, guttural “sounds of sex”.

It is simply something I do not do, based solely on personal preference. It has nothing to do with anyone else, any particular call type or any certain subject matter – and it doesn’t mean I don’t want you to have the best phone sex call ever!I most certainly do!!

…And let’s face it. We both know I can give you much more to curl your toes and bring your cock to life than some fake whimpers, groans, and squeals!

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Q&A 101 With Ms. EmmaJane: Domination and Description of a Diva

 Ddomination, phone sexomination Dynamite Comes In Small Packages!

After you’ve been cracking the whip and cranking out the domination phone sex as long as I have, patterns of all description begin to emerge. Understandably, some of the most common questions right out of the gate are those on what I look like. If the visual experience of my photos is not quite enough (or if you’ve not really looked at them or seen them at all), here are the basic EmmaJane stats:

Height: 5’4”

Weight: 110-115 pounds, depending on the time of year

Measurements: 34-25-35

Shoe size: 7 or 7-1/2, depending on the design and designer of the shoe

Hair color: Can vary, but is naturally very dark blonde w/strawberry highlights

Eye Color: Green

Accent: Yes, Honey! It’s definitively Southern, as I was born and raised in the Deep South. (Where in the South? Hint: You’ll hear me yelling “War Damn Eagle!” during college football games.)

EJ’s Lowdown on Domination

*Audio alert! For more of my thoughts on domination and descriptions, click here or on the audio player below.*

Dominant “Look” and Style?

Being a femdom, of course I get many question on my style, demeanor, preferences, and so forth. Following are my take on some general questions I hear regularly on being a dominant Woman:

You look so sweet and innocent, like the girl next door. You don’t “look like a Mistress”. Can you really be dominant?

This question always makes me laugh. Haven’t you ever heard that old adage that warns you about judging a book by its cover?!

I was raised a proper Southern belle. I know how to look and behave like a consummate sophisticated lady in public AND still get precisely what I want, all with a smile and without breaking a sweat or a nail. The only difference behind closed doors is that the “white gloves” come off, and it’s game on in the domination department!

Just remember: I don’t have to look like a bitch or act like a bitch to be “the bitch in charge”.

 I know you consider yourself a sensual domination Mistress. Does that mean you aren’t or can’t be stern or harsh?

While I am a very sensual Woman and Mistress in general, that absolutely does NOT in any way preclude my having the ability to be very stern and downright mean. I tailor my approach to each submissive’s needs and “behavioral requirements”. (More on my look, style, and sound is included in the audio.)

 Mistress EmmaJane in Real-Life and On the Phone

Are you dominant in “real life”?

Cue more laughter! You better believe it, my dear!! From Day One, I have been a dominant Female – and males have been my minions. Some have been well aware, while others were clueless.

Do you ever switch?

No. I do not switch nor do I ever assume the submissive role when in a phone session. Never have; never will – and there is no need to ask IF I will consider it. (You can hear my assessment of switching in real-time on the accompanying audio.)

Do you have submissives/slaves in “real life”?

No. However, that’s not to say that I would not do so, given the right time, place, and circumstances. At this point in time, that is simply not feasible at this juncture in my Life.

Next up, we will zero in on common questions I encounter on specific fantasies and fetishes…

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Political Correctness and Phone Sex?

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We live in a society where “political correctness” has become more than a passing buzz phrase and makes more than an occasional appearance in the media spotlight, whether as the immediate topic of a direct discussion or a byproduct of another subject or occurrence. Some people defend the propriety of being politically correct, while others condemn it as yet another form of censorship.

But… What about an arena where some people actually want -and pay- for verbiage, tone, and/or expression of an attitude (whether directly or implied) that would be considered by many to be politically incorrect, unacceptable, and even downright offensive?

Are there occasions and places where anything goes, holding one’s tongue is completely unnecessary, and political correctness is optional? Is a phone sex call one of those places?

Distinguishing Between Phone Sex Fantasy and the Reality of Life

Knowing and Acknowledging the Difference

Take note of the definitions of the following as indicated by Merriam-Webster at www.merriam-webster.com:

  • Reality… 1. the true situation that exists : the real situation    2. something that actually exists or happens : a real event, occurrence, situation, etc.
  • Fantasy… 1. something that is produced by the imagination : an idea about doing something that is far removed from normal reality  2. the act of imagining something   3. a book, movie, etc., that tells a story about things that happen in an imaginary world

Now, consider the fact that phone sex is based on fantasy. That means that you pick up the phone in order to share something erotic you are imagining, and you know you are going to a place that is safe for you to share and explore your sexuality and express what is on your mind.

When we’re engaged in a hot phone fantasy, you have complete license to delve into “something that is far removed from normal reality” precisely because you do not need to worry about real-life ramifications, consequences, impressions, and/or reactions.

Really good phone sex fantasies play by different rules than those of reality…

Caller Concerns on Being Politically Correct

Sometimes I can hear it within those hushed tones or feel that reticence to express “certain things” a caller might feel are not in the realm of political correctness. Other times I get a disclaimer of “Before I tell you, I just want you to know this is just a fantasy. I would never do/say anything like this.”

Whether you want to be called a “cocksucking faggot,” wish to dress up and behave according to dated stereotypes of women or get all wound up about BBC, I know you aren’t trying to be offensive to me or anyone else. You simply have a particular trigger over which some people would wag a finger and shame you for even thinking.

However, our phone sex romp is not the territory of those finger-waggers. Whatever your reason for calling a phone sex service, our time is your “free space” where you can be naughty in those ways you never could or would in your daily life – all with no judgment, no condemnation, no censure.

The Respect in the Racy Talk

Let me assure you that ours IS a world of fantasy, and it is not a place where lines will be drawn in the sand because you happen to get off on something that would prove to be an outcast of political correctness. If everything that titillates us was okay out in the harsh light of day, we wouldn’t need our fantasies, now would we?

Unless you somehow lead me to believe something to the contrary while communicating about your phone sex desires, I do NOT believe (nor will I even think for one moment) that your non-PC fantasies make you a bad person any more than they arbitrarily make you a bigot. I also won’t think you are espousing abuse, maligning any particular group of people or intending disrespect to anyone.

As long as I know your triggers are just that -sexual hot points- I will not only welcome them, but I will fan that flame until you all but spontaneously combust. So… You can park your political correctness at the door, and let your imagination run away with you. As always, it will be our little secret…

Let It Rayne on Your Sensual Phone Sex Parade!

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So I’ve been letting people inspire me lately and play muse for my consideration of blog post topics. Lighting has just struck again and I have been moved by one of our lovely LDW ladies to hit the keyboard. My muse for the night is none other than Ms. Rayne with whom I’ve shared some electric and very titillating sensual phone sex time lately.

Talk about a woman being multifaceted! Rayne is naughty and nice… sweet and spicy… coy and coquettish… Dominant and submissive… a sex kitten and pouncing tigress… a good and a bad girl, all rolled into one irresistibly seductive package. She may be young, but don’t let that fool you into thinking she’s naive, demure or inexperienced – because those are the last words to describe Rayne.

She’s fun. She’s flirtatious. She’s sexy – and she knows precisely how to push your hottest buttons, tease you mercilessly, and have you wrapped around her little finger in no time at all! If you haven’t met her yet, you’re missing out on a delightfully and sensually racy romp that you won’t soon forget!

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If you’ve seen her photos, I don’t have to tell you that she’s a petite, provocative, smoking hot, blonde bombshell AND she’s cute as a button! She’s one of those women who can look so innocent at first glance, but then you look a little deeper and find that she is not so innocent at all. Even her sweet young voice can easily belie her knack for exhibiting a delicious sense of hedonism that is well beyond her years.

Then there’s that alluring little sparkle and come hither look in those beautiful green eyes that makes you wonder just what she’s thinking – or planning for you. Make no mistake, this kinky vixen will make your head swim, your cock throb, and –being a switch– your every erotic fantasy come to life. Your time with Rayne is a win-win interaction, whether you’re a man or a Mistress!

Joining a Princess of Divine Sensual Phone Sex

You see, I can attest to all of these things personally because I have shared time in sessions with Rayne, and I found her to be a sultry, sexy, funny, and smart-as-a whip woman right out of the gate! I knew with the greatest of confidence that she was going to be an exceptional asset to our -and any!- sensual phone sex call.

I witnessed first-hand how she is just as comfortable enticing and playing with a squirming horny man as she is with another woman. She has a very natural and effortless air about her that makes everyone involved comfortable, completely at ease, and game for anything. Not only that, but she is a dynamite listener as well as a wily seductress. She is incredibly attentive and cares enough to take the time to tune in to all those subtle verbal cues and feedback that could be easily missed if one is not equally mindful and perceptive.

If you have never had the pleasure of being caught in her web of sensual phone sex sins and secrets, you would do well to point yourself -and your throbbing erection- in her direction. If you’re especially brave and daring, maybe you should consider offering yourself up to both of us at the same time…

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