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Yes, it’s true. I have been away this week, BUT I will be back in the saddle on the evening of Monday, April 23rd!

In the meantime, if you would like to introduce yourself, ask questions about or begin setting up your session, make an appointment for my return or just to touch base with me, as always, you can send an e-mail to emmajane@enchantrixempire.com and I will get back to you on or before Monday.

If you’re considering a session but are not sure where to begin, take a look at some pre-session questionnaires I have for helping us both plan the best possible session for you.

There is a general questionnaire, as well as topic-specific ones on the following fantasies and topics:

Whether you’re new to my blog or a frequent visitor, why not take this time to catch up on my recent or past posts and enjoy the audios that accompany some of those posts.

If you do happen to be a newbie, you can read up on my style, what I have to say about my preferences, why I love being a phone Mistress, and why you should never underestimate a Southern Mistress who happens to have impeccable manners.

Scouting my blog posts can be a very good way for you to get to know me better, be reminded of why you adore me so, and even find some new ideas for us to explore in session together, so grab your specs and the beverage of your choice, get comfy, and read, read, read!

Should you need immediate assistance, you can contact our Live Helpers who will assist you with your questions.

I’ll see you very soon, so get ready!!

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Why I Love Being a Phone Mistress (Part Three)

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More Reasons To Love Being a Phone Mistress

All walks of Life… From near and far… Any and all orientations and identities… Fantasy and real-time… These are all pieces to the puzzle that make being a phone Mistress and Masturbatrix a virtual Nirvana for me.

Now, what about those callers who want a good time based on their sexual fantasies only, with no real-time element involved? Read on…

(Note: While the following predominantly applies to men, there are others to whom it applies as well. However, given that men almost exclusively comprise this “group,” for ease of discussion I will refer to “men” throughout the section.”

The “What” and “Why”: Sexual Fantasies

“I Would Never Really Do This, But…”

Some men who wish to focus on a strictly fantasy phone sex call begin with this very disclaimer, wanting to make it immediately known that they feel (or have been made to feel) that their particular fantasy is just “too much” to expect a woman to ever understand; a tale that NO woman on Earth WANTS to hear; something about which they should feel embarrassed and ashamed to tell anyone; somehow makes them a deviant of some description; and/or is a fantasy that no other man has ever had or will.

I take great joy in telling these anxious men that I am extremely difficult to shock, and I openly welcome hearing what they have to say. It’s not just lip service; I mean it every time I say it.

Bring on those sexual fantasies!!

Not Alone, Even If Only For a While

These men feel relegated to sexual silence, destined to explore their taboo fantasies all alone in erotic daydreams. It’s absolutely no wonder at all why these men call! LDW… Phone sex… A valid prospect -maybe the only one ever, they think- for sharing their fantasies with a woman

I am one woman who looks forward to joining in an erotic expedition, regardless of how kinky or over-the-top a man might think it to be.

Free To Fantasize

I cannot tell you how gratifying it is to give men a chance at unfettered sexual expression of those fantasies they keep -and have always kept- locked tightly in “the vault” but have this burning need to share with… someone… anyone… maybe finally a woman who might, just might, not reject them, curse them, ferociously wag a finger of warning or disgust at them, and/or run away.

Look no further! You have found a very open ear and mind here!

Whether they call for the thrill of domination -submitting mildly along one theme or aiming for complete immersion in the depths of subspace brought on by multiple forms of domination – or to share a lusty fantasy they consider to be off the beaten path, men and their fantasies intrigue me to no end.

Just more reasons I love being a phone Mistress!!

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Why I Love Being a Phone Mistress (Part Two)

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Yes… Every kind of man from everywhere across the globe… So fantastic!

I mentioned in my last post that my love of men and the diversity I encounter are two of the reasons I love being a resident Mistress at a phone sex service that is of the superior caliber and has the kind of reputation which LDW has.

…But it doesn’t end with who these men are and where they happen to be – or just men. The diversity of callers that find their way to LDW, and hence to me, is seemingly without limit or comparison.

No two days, people, fantasies, conversations or real lives are ever alike – and, as a woman AND a femdom, I love, love, LOVE that!!

Sea of Sexuality, Identity, Fantasy, and Reality

Because LDW is comprised of very bright, capable, understanding, talented, sexy, AND knowledgeable women, it’s only natural that men would not call just for domination phone sex and a quick orgasm. Furthermore , it also stands to reason that not only men call.

All Orientations and Identities

So many people think phone fantasies are just for straight men, but they are not

Straight men, bi-curious men, bi-sexual men, gay men, straight women, bi-sexual women, lesbians, trans women, bigender individuals… I’ve encountered them all, and it is this wonderful assortment of people who have continually made my experiences with LDW so colorful, enlightening, rewarding, and worthwhile.

Since I am not a fan of the human affinity for and reliance on the necessary evil of labeling for recognition (and I cringe in typing that…), I treat every single person to whom I speak in one way only, the same way, and that is getting to know them as a unique individual, within their own personal context and idiosyncrasies.

I feel so lucky and privileged to occupy a position when I can give people a free and open place to just let go and be authentic. No worries… No apprehension… No judgment… All I have for you is understanding, acceptance, and a most positive experience!

Pure Imagination and the Real Deal

Given this beautiful melting pot of people, you know, of course, that they each bring with them a myriad of different purposes, which tend to be one of three reasons: indulging in fantasy only, toying with combinations of fantasy and real-time elements, and confiding about their realities.

Some want just some creative fantasy fulfillment. It’s not about wishing they could really do something; it’s about using the imagination for the purpose of naughty, imaginary playtime. Other individuals call LDW in order to discuss and explore their real-time sexuality, behaviors, lives, and identities. Our time revolves around what impacts them and makes a difference in a practical day-to-day sense.

Naturally, you have those who fall somewhere between complete fantasy and complete reality. Some like to bat around ideas borne in sexual fantasy for possible integration into their real-time sexual expression. This applies across people, regardless of specific identity and orientation.

In any event, one thing for me remains a happy constant: Regardless of whoever my callers are and why they call, I welcome them equally. I think that’s what truly giving good phone is all about!

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Why I Love Being a Phone Mistress (Part One)

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I find men to be absolutely fascinating, and I feel incredibly fortunate to be in a position where I meet men from all walks of Life, some about whom I never know much personal detail and others with whom a most unique bond is formed and I come to know very well. Regardless, they all make an impact on me in their own way.

My adventures as a phone sex Mistress have gifted me with an unmatched opportunity to listen to men’s deepest secrets and private desires, delve into what pushes their sexual buttons and motivates them, and gain an incredible amount of insight into why they dial up our Enchantrix Mistresses to express their sexual fantasies.

The “Who”

So who calls a phone sex service anyway? You might just be surprised!

Before You Make an Assumption…

Do not think for one moment that the men who call are ill-spoken, “afraid” of women, have no idea how to approach or talk to women, are somehow weak or losers, have nothing to offer women, and/or otherwise are failures with women, where any interaction with the opposite sex can only come about over the phone with a stranger.

Do NOT let the phrase “phone sex service” fool you into jumping to false conclusions!

It Takes All Kinds, Even in the Phone Sex World

Two words that perfectly fit the scope of men with whom I have spoken over the years are “vast diversity”. They’ve been anywhere on the age spectrum between eighteen and beyond eighty; from across every socioeconomic echelon; blue collar, white collar; single, married, divorced, widowed; introvert, extrovert; optimistic, pessimistic; vanilla, kinky; quiet, chatty; and so on.

I think you get the point, and it’s that very point which always makes me look forward to signing in for the night. I never know what combination of individuals to whom I’ll speak on any given evening, and I love that lack of predictability.

All these very different and unique men (who, by the way, are not all submissive in real time!) keep me stimulated and on my toes, and I love it!

The “Where”

So where are these men who call a phone Mistress? Again, you may find yourself surprised!

Grab Your Globe

One of the amazing things about being a phone Mistress – especially one who is lucky enough to be part of an incredible and one-of-a-kind phone sex service like LDW – in the age of the Internet is that geographical location is not a barrier, and you hear from men who hail from every part of the world.

I’ve spoken with men from every continent, with the exception of Antarctica; men who are on the other side of the globe and men from not very far down the road; men in bustling metropolitan areas and some who are almost right on off the grid; men who are at home, work, vacation, and traveling for their job; men who never seem to live in the same city, state or country for very long and those who reside in the very same area where they have always been; and on and on.

Meeting men from all over and of all kinds makes “phone sex” a priceless learning experience in so many ways (beyond just the sexual!), and then there is why they call and about what they each want to talk and fantasize when they call…

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That Ass Never Gets Old!!

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I’ll say it again, and I will continue to say it: I LOVE a man who loves his own ass!

Furthermore, my affinity for such a man grows by leaps and bounds when he is brazen, full of vim and vigor, and devoid of even an ounce of shame with regard to his assplay adventures.

There is something so very refreshing about a man who feels so confident, liberated, free, and lusty about filling his ass with the anal toy of his choice – and doing just that on a regular basis.

Alone But Armed

While I am the self-proclaimed strap-on and assplay Queen who is only more than happy to deliver a good ol’ pop and pounding to a man’s ass when afforded the opportunity, I know that my ideal kind of assplay fun is not really an option when a man is all by himself.

That means if I can’t deliver the anal play goods, then a man who gets off on solo anal sex absolutely MUST have his own anal toy – or ten- to keep him busy!

Assplay Wonderland

There are SO many choices out there for the man who revels in his ass play (that he can oh so conveniently bring to integrate into our session together), and it is my personal opinion that a man should never limit himself to just one anal toy. (I’m greedy about ass-fucking, whether giving one or guiding one. Get over it!)

Types of Ass-Bound Toys

Anal beads… Prostate stimulators… Anal probes… Butt plugs… Vibrating butt plugs… Vibrators… Dildos… And there are a myriad of variations on the basic “model” of each of these toys!

You have differences (the number and kind of which depend on the particular type of toy) in colors, sizes (in length AND girth), shapes (for instance, a butt plug shaped like a doorknob or World War II bombshell!), surface texture (as in smooth versus nubs, ridges or veins), a variety of materials, waterproof and not, with and without a suction cup base, Vac-u-Lock compatible and not, ejaculating and not, inflatable and not, different degrees of firmness and flexibility, mass-manufactured and custom-made…

I know some of you will find all of the options for anal stimulation to be quite surprising -and most enlightening- while those of you who are well-versed ass sluts were nodding your heads in full awareness and familiarity as you read that list.

Give Me the Scoop!

If you’re a man who loves “delving” into anal play –whether you’re a newbie or expert, play only rarely or almost every day- I want to hear from you! What’s your favorite anal toy? Do you have your eye on a new anal goody? If so, what is it? Is there a particular toy you’ve never tried but want to experience? What’s your Holy Grail of anal play accoutrements?

Tell me. Tell me. Tell me…

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