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Feeling Feminine: Five Quick Fixes (Part One)

feeling feminine, beauty regimen, crossdresserWhen Your Femininity Is Restricted…

Plenty of sissies and crossdressers would walk a country mile and back every day if it meant they could freely and openly dress in whatever feminine attire they like and feel comfortable, carefree, and no fear of some dreadful consequence occurring.

In the real world, however, time and privacy are both at a great premium. That means being crafty and innovative are invaluable in finding ways to enjoy a temporary escape, when hopping into a pair of panties, matching bra, stockings, and a dazzling dress is just not possible.

To that end, I’ve taken it upon myself to get you started with a few suggestions for feeling feminine in a flash.

Turning the Everyday Into Something Special

From the Neck Up

#1: Give Yourself a Facial

Not THAT kind of facial, silly! I’m talking about the kind where you stop off at Walmart or the nearest drugstore; pick up a cucumber and avocado, honey and milk or Dead Sea mud mask in those handy single application packets; and head home to wash your face and apply your mask.

Once on, follow the directions for the amount of time you’re to leave it on. Set a timer, kick back, close your eyes, and think about all the things you love about feeling feminine.

#2: Do Something With Your Hair

Hair is a woman’s crowning glory, so have some fun adoring yours, even if it isn’t your ideal head of hair. I  love my own hair so much that I don’t wait for anyone else to worship my hair; I do it myself! (Do you think I get up in the morning with my hair looking like this just because I’m a woman?!)

In the Shower

You have to shower, and hence wash your hair, right? If you want to kill two birds with one stone, you can grab some feelings of femininity while you’re in there! After you shampoo, condition if you typically do not. After you shampoo and condition, apply a hair masque, deep conditioner or hot oil treatment to improve the texture and feel of your hair.

Think about getting yourself leave-in conditioner and treat your hair with it post-shower. You can do this with absolutely no one knowing!

Out of the Shower

After you hop out of the shower, hang out in front of the mirror for a bit and play with your hair for a bit. If you don’t already have any in the house, pick up some product on your way home one day. That product can be mousse, gel, pomade, wax or something else. Put some in the palm of your hand, apply it – liberally or in a limited quantity- per the directions, and then play, style, and experiment.

By the way, your hair does NOT have to be long for this suggestion to serve its purpose of helping you feel feminine. It’s all about the act and product, not the finished look!

So put your regret to the side and give yourself the gift of beauty and at least a little touch of feminization, a gift for which you are never too old!

Next post: On to tips to help you feel instantly -and quickly!- feminine below the neck!

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Before You Give a Blowjob…

*Shall I read the post to you?*

In the past, I’ve blogged about preparing to suck your first cock, but I focused on those things you need to think about and do once you’ve arrived on the scene and you’re just cock-sucking, blowjob, coerced biabout to slurp your way up and down your first dick.

You’re there to take your test, and I’ve given you a cheat sheet that will get you a perfect blowjob score! …But wait! Isn’t it prudent to study BEFORE you take the exam? Yes, it is…

Think Before You Blow

When you consider having your first oral encounter with a cock, excitement, anxiety, uncertainty abound. You can’t help having those first-time jitters. You have so many questions, so many concerns.

Whether you’re a sissy who wants to end her date with a “special kiss” for her hot man, a seasoned cocksucker or a man who wants a dominant woman to show him the joys of coerced bi fun, if you’ve thought about wrapping your virgin lips around a cock and delivering a smoking hot blowjob, you need to think about a few things first…

Do NOT Show Your Fangs!

You do not want to deflate the first hard-on in your mouth by playing “Teeth or Consequences”! Believe you me, letting your teeth get in on the action will bring about undesirable consequences. It will be game over for your first ATTEMPTED venture at devouring a dick.

While that cock does want to be devoured, it wants to feel that it’s being done by an enthusiastic cocksucker, NOT a starving lion that is trying to tear apart a gazelle on the savannah.

Cover those teeth, cock maestro and sissy slut! You want to make the cock in your mouth cum, not look like it just tore its way through a briar patch.

Gagging Is Hot, Strangling Is Not

I always encourage a cock slut to deep throat that throbbing hard hunk of man sausage. Show it you mean business! Savor it with zeal and intensity. Do not fear gagging, which can be a great turn-on for the blowee, but…

Do not get so carried away that you forget to breathe and swallow all the drool you’ve worked up over that tasty man stick and start coughing, sputtering, and spewing like you’re choking on a chicken bone.

Figuratively choking on a man bone, good; literally choking on a man bone, bad.

These things are easily enough avoided if you think about it, and… It’s more than worth a ponder before you hit your knees, because you DO want your first blowjob to leave that cock wanting to cum back for seconds!!

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Twelve Reasons to Try Male Chastity: It’s All About Her

chastity, cock cage, orgasm controlNow, it’s finally time to bring women into the mix and put them at the forefront of the argument for male chastity…

#8: The Gift of Chastity

When you are locked in a chastity device by a woman, you are giving her reign over cock and cum.

Your cock is now not your own because you want to prove the true depth of your respect, loyalty, and devotion for your wife, girlfriend or Mistress – and you can think of no better way than to submit to her by giving her control of the prized possession that is your cock.

…And that’s okay with you because you want her to know that you value her over preoccupation with and/or access to your cock. You want it to be completely understood that are completely devoted to her and the decisions she chooses to make on the “ins and outs” of your penile imprisonment.

#9: Bending to Her Will

Going a step beyond just showing a woman that you are willing to put her above your carnal needs, you might find you genuinely enjoy feeling that she is the one in charge of cock cage “regulations,” expectations, and ultimate decisions.

You want to experience her domination control of you, your cock, your stroking habits, AND your orgasm – and while you may find yourself immensely frustrated, this submission to her choices brings you an ironic sense of gratification and an atypical kind of pleasure..

Chastity could be how you meet your submissive self!

#10: Let Me Have Your Attention Please!

When you’re horny and locked in a cock cage, the level and range of your concentration changes – and when you find yourself in chastity that is monitored by a woman, giving her THE deciding vote on to your orgasmic fate, it can be amazing how pliable and attentive to her -and perhaps all women- that you become.

When you’re confined in chastity, jerking off, edging, and cumming are not options that can keep you from directing your attention elsewhere. You are free to focus on her in practical and “everyday” ways!

#11: Her Pleasure Is Paramount

Since a good ol’ cock cage puts an end to immediate pleasure for you any time you want it, you are better able to focus your efforts on HER pleasure. You now have time to explore her body, preferences, fantasies, and so forth without thinking about or getting into a hurry to attend to yourself.

#12: A New Avenue of Submission

You are already well aware that you are a submissive male, but… You’ve not been exiled to the Land of the Locked Cock. However, you think the time to try forced abstinence is now, and you are more than set to hand your Mistress total control of your cock.

So what will be your reason for deciding to try a little bit of chastity…???

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Twelve Reasons to Try Male Chastity: Shaking Up the Status Quo

A call to male chastity is not reserved solely for the man who is entirely to preoccupied with his own cock and orgasm or has fallen commale chastity, cock cage, submissionpletely out of touch with his own body and erotic sensory perception.

Sometimes it’s about having yet another option on the table for sexual exploration and adventure, trying something completely new and unknown or enjoying the challenge of enduring orgasm denial.

#5: Broadening Your Horny Horizons

Perhaps you’ve never tried chastity. Maybe you’ve never considered it because it hasn’t popped up on your sexual radar. It could be that a fleeting thought, borne of a second of curiosity, flashed through your mind, and you immediately dismissed the possibility that you would EVER agree to being locked in a cock cage of any description.

However, you pride yourself on being sexually adventurous, and you want to liven up your sex life (whether that’s solo or involving a partner) with something different than anything you’ve ever done. Enter male chastity…

No one said you would find you like it; no one said you have to like it – but you can’t make a valid judgment call without  giving it a fair chance. Challenge yourself to do so. Push yourself and find out of what you’re made!

Whether you find you get a rush from being in a no touching zone or you want to rip the chastity off and bash it with a sledgehammer, you can at least say you’ve tried something new, and now you can give your opinion on the matter because you have at least some experience on what it’s like – or at least what it was like for you as a newbie.

#6: Learning to Give Up Control

You may feel that broadening your horizons is all well and good, but you rebuff without question giving up control of anything, let alone your cock. That goes doubly for the notion of orgasm control.

Chamale chastity, cock cage, submissionstity can help you learn that you DO have the ability to give away control of your masturbation and orgasm AND find that doing so will not result in the world coming to a horrific end.

Whether you commit to a short time, decide to remain caged for progressively longer periods or you elect to have a woman be the gatekeeper of your cock, you may possibly discover that this experience of relinquishing control over your erections, masturbation, and orgasms is not unbearable – and you may even enjoy this particular brand of non-negotiable cock control.

IF you pledge your full effort to the endeavor, while you may not find yourself dropping to your knees and professing your place as that of a lifelong submissive slave, you might just find yourself developing an appreciation of male chastity that goes beyond just challenging yourself to give over a little control now and again…

#7: Finding or Deepening Your Submission

One of the ways in which you can find appeal in chastity is by allowing it to help you reveal or intensify submissive feelings.

Whether there’s a hidden sub living inside you waiting to come out or you’re already aware of your penchant for ever deeper submission, when you’re held hostage in a cock cage, sinking into subspace can take front and center in the experience. Giving chastity a whirl can bring out your secret submission; it can also give you that push into more profound submission for which you’ve been looking.

To amplify those submissive yearnings, having a woman “keep tabs” on your cock lockdown, can present a submissive male with the ultimate chastity experience, as you are held accountable in a way that solo chastity efforts cannot provide or guarantee.

Your orgasm denial -or allowance- is now completely under the control of another, and not knowing when or if you will get to have an orgasm, while frustrating, takes your submission to another level. Having your cock and orgasm being under a “woman’s rule” with a bit of “penile prison time” can bring about a rush of blissful and profound submissive feelings and sensations.

Who knew you had it in you to be submissive…???

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Twelve Reasons to Try Male Chastity: Reclaiming the Joy of Jerking

orgasm denial, orgasm control, chastity, cock cageThe next four reasons (two in this post, two to follow) that you should be scouting for a chastity device -and actually wearing it!- revolve around breaking out of a masturbatory lull, getting away from same old same old stroking, and breaking free from those well-established habits that have you stuck like a needle on a record.

Time to let chastity enlighten you and cock control reacquaint you with… yourself.

#3: Learning to Appreciate Your Orgasm

For the Rabid AND Mild-Mannered Masturbator

When you’re a chronic masturbator, popping off one frenzied orgasm after the next whenever the wind blows, you may get caught up in the good feelings in that moment of release, but you nonetheless take them for granted amid your non-stop jerk off sessions.

The same thing goes for those men who masturbate but are not obsessed with choking the chicken every single chance they get. Yes… You love the sensation of tugging on your hard cock and blowing your load, but you don’t take the time to really acknowledge and appreciate it or consider why and how it feels so divine.

In both cases, you know what you’re after, and when you’re finished, you’re finished.

Welcome Back, Orgasm! How I’ve Missed You!

When you’re all locked up in a cock cage, woefully suffering from the horror of orgasm deprivation

, you can experience all the (stroke-free!) build-up you like, but there’s no crossing that orgasmic finish line – and you miss it! You want it, but you can’t have it – so you think about how delicious it feels when you burst.

You see, chastity’s uncompromising version of orgasm control puts a new spin on how you perceive the importance of your orgasm and the physical sensations involved when you cum, so that when you are finally out of chastity, you cherish not only the orgasm, but the stroking process and resulting physical responses you experience.

#4: Increased Bodily Awareness

From Sensory Snoozefest to Sensory Awareness

Speaking of the stroking process, it’s all too easy to get caught up in your mastery of masturbating yourself, where you jerk off like you’re on auto-pilot and pop your cork like a robot. Both your stroking and response to it almost seem rote and mechanical: You grab your cock, it’s fap, fap, fap, oooh ahhh, feels good, strokety-stroke-stroke, *boom!* cum volcano – and that’s that.

Male chastity not only teaches you value your orgasm as you should, but it can help you get to know your body and sexual responses again. When you are kept at bay by a cock cage, you are afforded the opportunity to pay more attention to and focus on the arousal you feel in multiple areas of your body, not just your naughty bits.

Rediscovering Your “Other” Hot Spots

Chastity lockdown can push you to rediscover your erogenous zones so that you interpret your arousal as a total body experience, as opposed to defining it as merely having an erection. While you can’t grasp your cock and go to town on it, you CAN touch other parts of your body that are sensitive and send a shiver down your spine and straight to your… cock cage.

Just as the sound of a fire alarm is not confined to its immediate vicinity but emanates throughout the building, you don’t have to confine stroking to your cock in order to feel arousal throughout your body. Of course, where no real fire threat is involved in a fire drill, no real orgasm is involved inside a cock cage!

 

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