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Sexual Fantasies With No Apologies (Part One)

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It is not at all uncommon that I hear the voice on the other end of the line issue an apologetic disclaimer on the subject or content of the sexual fantasies they would like to share, have just shared or long to share but are afraid.

While I very much appreciate the thoughtfulness and consideration from which these apologies spring, I never want you to feel that you are going to be judged or censured by me for sharing your secrets and what is on your mind, because you certainly will not be subjected to anything like that.

Regardless of whether you’re a vanilla fella (who feels like a total kinkmeister), one who fancies being THE most submissive male ever, a humiliation junkie or a partaker of any of another myriad of fantastic sexual delights and desires, we’re in this together, and as long as you are respectful, I will support you rabidly and without question!

My Own Disclaimer on Sexual Fantasies

By the way…

Honey, this is not my first rodeo, and I am NOT easily shocked. Furthermore, this IS the world of phone sex, where I expect you to let your fantasies run freely, so rest assured I’m not waiting with a stick of judgment in order to start drawing lines in the sexual sand! This is your safe place where you can let that freak flag fly in the breeze – I’ll even help you raise it! *wink wink*

Apology Appreciated But Not Necessary

Now, about these apologies…

I have heard everything from the subtle apology (“I know this is probably weird or freaky…”) to the more pronounced one (“I really hope I don’t offend you…) to the flat-out, overt apology (“I am so sorry if this is too much or over the top…) – and every time I have the same response, and the following are things I would like you to keep in mind when you’re feeling a little apprehensive:

  • Everyone has what constitutes sexual fantasies, whether they choose to admit it or not.
  • Everyone has some sexual fantasy or trigger that they think they are the lone individual on Earth to have. (Trust me. You are NOT alone in yours!!)
  • Everyone has a “sexual fantasy skeleton” in his/her closet that he/she feels is best kept there for fear of negative repercussions were they revealed.
  • Everyone is entitled to his/her sexual fantasies, whatever they are. (Having a fantasy does not mean one would ever want to act on it!)
  • Sharing is all about respect – in BOTH directions! I do not have to “be into” the fantasy that you present in order to enjoy it and you.

That said, there are certain courtesies you should grant both yourself AND others when it comes to sharing the spicy tidbits that stoke your sexual fires. We’ll take a look at several of these in my next post…

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“The Other Hand”: A Guided Masturbation Game

guided masturbation, orgasm controlSwitching Up Your Guided Masturbation

It is obviously only natural that we all do at least the bulk of our masturbation with our dominant hands. When we’re set to handle our business, we do not stop to ponder which hand we prefer; we already know our preference is automatic.

I have decided that it’s high time your dominant hand submits to not only Me, but also to your non-dominant hand. Unless you happen to be truly ambidextrous, then you’re fair game for this challenge…

How this Game Is Played

For this particular guided masturbation -and orgasm control- game, while you will be using only one of them, you will need to take both of your hands into consideration in a way that will be counterintuitive. Your dominant -aka stroking- hand will now be “out of the picture,” as it were.

In fact, depending on your environmental situation at the moment we play, I will require that your dominant hand be “disabled” in some way, where it becomes impossible to stroke with it or it is impeded in a manner which disrupts any attempt -accidental or intentional- that you make to use it.

Trust me when I tell you that you WILL have -in ANY situation, whether you think so or not- something available that will suffice for keeping your (formerly!) dominant stroking hand at bay and incapable of assisting or enhancing your masturbatory efforts. You will find that being unable to use that “ruling” hand definitely adds another layer to your cock control!

Instructions for the “Other Hand”

The “other hand” in this masturbatory event is your non-dominant hand -aka the hand that is NOT “the” hand with which you typically stroke- and it is the hand that will be given stroking instructions for the duration of the game.

I will instruct the manner and speed of your stroking and edging as I would at any other time, when your “main” hand would be doing all (or at least a vast majority) of the work. Whether it proves to be difficult, not so bad or nearly impossible (which it will not be, perhaps any desperate assessment you may make in the moment), you will NOT be allowed to switch hands.

This orgasm control game can be played whether you desire tease and denial (as in full denial) or tease and delay! And… For an added level of difficulty for you brave strokers, we can always combine “The Other Hand” game to the edging favorite that is the “Stop-and-Go” game!!

Are you ready to see just what you can accomplish with that “other hand”???? Let’s play!!

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Eleven Sexy EmmaJane Facts You May Not Know

While I am an open book and a what-you-see(or in this case hear)-is what-you-get kind of woman, there are naturally things you may not know about me. Here are some hot sexy EmmaJane facts, Mistress triviaand sexy EmmaJane facts that you may or may not know…

1.  My favorite harness for strap-on sex was custom-made for me by a partner.

I like to refer to it as an “industrial-strength” harness – and one that was built out of necessity in order to be able to handle very large toys. Then there’s the fact that I am quite vigorous when putting that strap-on where it belongs

2.  I love, love, LOVE gay porn.

If you know very much or have read more than a few of my blog posts, you KNOW why I love the gay porn. One word: cocksucking!!

3.  I HATE straight, vanilla porn, and it does absolutely nada for me.

Why? I have one word there too: FAKE! It’s totally contrived and off-the-mark, and I have no patience for those bitches who do a complete disservice to women by encouraging men to believe that a woman longs for nothing more than to be immediately and primitively pummeled by some crazed Neanderthal.

(Try that kind of crazy ass, leg-humping-like, auto-pilot pussy-banging nonsense here, and you will be welcomed to the wonderful world of ball-busting…)

4.  My most sensitive of the five senses when it comes to sexual attraction is olfaction.

In fact, I love to sniff  a man of whom my nose greatly approves (I’m a pheromone huffer!), and I have put the kibosh on an evolving sexual moment in its tracks when my nose decided to veto my potential partner. Fyi, no level of physical attraction will override my nose’s decision on the matter.

5.  Calling me “Baby” under any circumstance – especially during a sexual interlude- is an instant mood-killer for me.

You’re not watching “Dirty Dancing” here. I have a name, and it isn’t “Baby”… It’s “EmmaJane” during sex or bust!

6.  I love to laugh during sex…

…and I sometimes spontaneously burst into tears after an especially powerful orgasm.

7.  While I find attention being given to my feet to be an erotic score, I actually get the willies and an “ick-attack” over other people’s feet.

Am I a complete hypocrite for enjoying an intense round of foot worship but having such scorn for -especially men’s- feet? Be that the case or not, it is what it is, and

8.  I really do prefer to have a man on his back when I get the strap-on out.

All the better to see you -and vice versa- my dear! Watch as I have my way with you…

9.  I think the sexiest part of a man’s body is his back.

Yes. I appreciate just about every part of a man’s body (except for the feet!), there is just something about the way a man’s upper back tapers down to his waist and the small of his back.

10. Beware the claws! I can be quite the scratcher while in the throes of passion, so watch -or protect!- your back!!

 

So… How many of these sexy EmmaJane facts did you know – or not? Surprised at all?

 

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He’s One A-maize-ing Ass Slut

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I make no secret of the fact that I am a die-hard ass woman – and it’s NOT just your run-of-the-mill appreciation for a man’s backside that I have. I love a man who loves his own ass and having it fucked good, whether it’s done by himself or a woman using a toy on him or wielding a strap-on.

All of this ass business rings my bell even more when the ass-loving, dildo-riding man happens to be a total, bona-fide ass slut, who loves rabidly stuffing his ass to the hilt with just about any and everything he can find with which to (safely!!) fuck it.

Not only am I going to oblige such a man, I am going to do everything in my power to encourage his anal hijinks.

Ass-Plowing Show-Off

Speaking of such a man, I just so happen to get to enjoy such a proud and shameless ass slut, who works his horny, hungry derriere with a number of accoutrements ON WEBCAM, where I can with my very own eyes see just how brash, brazen, and completely depraved he is when he’s getting ready to show off his “riding skills,” as it were, and then invariably puts on a salacious show that would make a hooker blush.

Whether he’s working a big, juicy dildo or stretching himself out with something he picked up in the produce section, he does it with complete gusto and wild, unabashed, primitive carnality (all the while being wise and well-versed enough to appreciate and practice well-advised and crucial anal play safety!) .

He IS an anal play dynamo, as well as being a perfect strap-on femdom and assplay-loving Woman’s dream! The confidence he exudes during each and every one of  his lascivious “performances” never fails to make my panties wet and my nether regions want to explode like a  gigantic Roman candle!!

Tricked Out Sissy Slut

I would be remiss if I neglected to mention that my lewd ass-reaming whore is always dressed like he behaves -like a whore!- when he’s getting warmed up to take it up the ass like a champ, probing and reaming his starving anal fuck hole.

Ivory fly-away babydoll… Floral bra… Pink panties… White fishnet stockings… High-heel sandals… Wig and fuck-me-for-$5 make-up… And that’s just the last time he appeared on cam.

He loves looking like sissy gutter trash – you know, a smutty harlot you might find sucking and fucking to please behind a dumpster somewhere, complete with cheap neon lighting illuminating the dirty wanton deeds.

…And Then There Is His Mouth

After modeling his “after-hours” ass slut attire, it’s then naturally time for him to drop to his knees -a couple to several dildos suctioned to his surface of choice at the time- and show off his natural cock-sucking skills, which ARE beyond impressive.

While he has never had a cock in his mouth before (or should I say “yet”?!?!), he works a fake phallus with his mouth like he’s been the most popular chap at the glory hole for decades. It’s obvious that his oral talents are just natural, and he could satisfy even the pickiest of cocks.

(Speaking of his mouth, let me just say he sucks his own cum down as if it’s THE best digestif ever!! Of course, after made a meal of those dildos from both ends, you’ve got to have something to “wash it all down,” right?!)

By the way, did I mention I love a flaming, exhibitionistic ass slut????

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The Real Houseboys of LDW: A Mistress EmmaJane Production (Part Two)

Service Slut as the Personal Care Professional!

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It’s all well and good for a houseboy to run the manage the household like a domestic goddess extraordinaire, but a truly well-rounded and all-purpose houseboy knows how to go into service slut mode and pamper his Mistress, meeting her every personal need.

Here I am speaking of a hybrid that combines and elevates the positions of your “run-of-the-mill” houseboy and a service submissive, who longs to please a pamper a woman for the praise and joy it brings him.

The Dedicated Personal Touch of a Hybrid Service Slut

What does a “special” and superior service slut, service submissive or “higher houseboy” do that is beyond just household chores and maintenance? He also attends to the more intimate needs of his femdom and proves his ultimate submission in doing so. He excels in femdom worship and doting on his Dominant.

He is allowed to provide attentions that could be simultaneously considered duties, rewards, and privileges. In return, he earns her praise for his efforts and a job well done.

The Service Submissive’s “Intimate Job Description”

Literally a Personal Touch

Running bubble baths… Feeding her… Shampooing the mane of his Mistress… Massaging her tired muscles… Giving her a pedicure… Worshipping her feet or any other part of her body she allows…

While he is not allowed to just willy nilly take liberties at his own whim, the “houseboy of elevated status” -the service submissive- is afforded the occasion to serve and touch her in an intimate manner as the Mistress/Woman deems appropriate, acceptable, and desirable.

Entertainment Value

Wearing panties for her amusement… Eating his own cum to prove his dedication (and show his appreciation for being granted the privilege of an orgasm)… Happily “accepting” her strap-on… Being put on display for a group of women… Finding himself in chastity for any of a number of reasons…

It’s all about doing those thing that are pleasing and score the service slut/submissive praise from the Woman he adores.

These are only some of the ways a houseboy becomes a service slut for his Mistress.

So… Do you think you have what it takes? Would it help to have a role model for a point of reference?

Stay tuned for an upcoming post, in which I interview a longstanding LDW houseboy and service slut who more than what it takes!!

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