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Offering Up Your Ass (Part One)

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Did I Hear Someone Say “Anal Play”?!

While I can definitely have a rousing good time on any call in which the person on the other end of the line is enthusiastic and interactive, it certainly never hurts when some good ol’ ass play fun is thrown into the mix, whether as a primary or secondary element of the session or be it confined to fantasy play or implemented as a realistic element of the call.

Oh yes! You better believe that any mention of anal play perks my ears right up. I am more than happy to cultivate a curiosity, train and encourage the novice, push the experienced ass fan to new heights, and paint an anal play fantasy so electrifying and enticing that you simply can’t stay away from your own backdoor playground!

…And there are so many opportunities for some femdom, ass play fantasies and sessions!

Let’s Play “Fuck the Sissy”

Whether it’s pulling down some pretty pink panties for pegging time or having a sissy pop in a favorite butt plug, I love it when a sweet sissy has a full love hole! I also get quite the kick out of hearing a sissy gag all over a realistic dildo while she’s smearing her bright red lipstick all over it! Take it, my sissy bitch!

Prior to Your Pegging

Speaking of gagging, sometimes there’s really nothing like having a sissy pucker up, part those pouty lips, and go to town on my dildo, getting it wet and prepped before I bend her over and give her a good, hard strap-on fucking.

This is your chance to show me how much you want me to pound you strap-on style! I want to see you working yourself into a sissy frenzy of licking, sucking, and deep-throating while you think about my pegging party for which you’re about to be the guest of honor.

Your oral service of my dildo is the appetizer, and your sissy pussy is the main course!

Breaking In the Sissy

If a sissy’s in possession of a virgin pussy and not ready for all that pumping and pounding, no worries! It’s a good time for some dildo training and words on anal play safety! I’ll help you pick out some toys (or “evaluate” what you’ve got), recommend a good lube, teach you the do’s and don’ts, and then away we go to ass play Nirvana!

Sex toy shopping… Progressive anal training assignments and exercises… Coaching and encouragement… Together, we will turn you into a sissy pussy-play junkie. After all, I adore a sissy who wants to please her Mistress by striving to have sex like a girl (even if she’s just doing it solo or in session).

Now, if you’re not a sissy, there are still reasons why you might offer up your derriere for a good time. Some of those motivations are next on my ass agenda!

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Mistress EmmaJane’s Birthday Trivia Round Two: Girl Time

Round Two: A Real Girl’s Feminization Experiencefeminization, feminization Mistress, Mistress EmmaJane

In my last post, I tossed out to you some tidbits you likely don’t know about me, BUT… There was that little catch of having them presented in multiple choice format, only for the answers to be revealed, with details, at a later time.

I also promised a second go-round of more Mistress EmmaJane fun facts, so here we go with more erotic conversation from yours truly. This set will be all about those things I love about being a woman, and one who so thoroughly takes immense joy in being feminine and leading others to and through the beautiful world of feminization.

Must-Have Make-Up

If I were stranded on a deserted island, what three (3) cosmetic items would I absolutely want to have with me (in addition to a good moisturizer with SPF)?

a) Blush, lipstick, and mascara

b) Blush, lipstick, and eye shadow

c) Blush, lipstick, and foundation

d) Powder, lipstick, and mascara

e) Lipstick, mascara, and false eyelashes

Night of the Knock-Out Lingerie

I have hordes and hordes of lingerie. After all, what could make a girl feel more femme, beautiful, and sexy, not to mention serve as one of the essential elements of any woman’s own feminization process?

However, if I plan a particularly special evening and decide to slip into some amazing lingerie that will knock my man on his ass, which of the following might well be my first choice?

a) A delicate, beaded, satin and lace, white bra and panty set with a matching, short, kimono-style robe

b) A sheer, black, strappy bodystocking and a pair of classic, black stiletto heels

c) An elegant, lace-trimmed, red corset with matching panties, red fishnet stockings, and a pair of red satin platform heels

d) A bright pink, halter style, deep V plunge neck, teddy with tanga back and a pair of retro, high-heel, pink marabou high heels (mules/sandals)

e) A red and black underwire chemise (fitted, lace detailing, attached garter straps), black seamed stockings, and black stiletto heels (with a narrow ankle strap)

Beautiful Women, Beautiful Queens

In being so in love with femininity in all its forms, you know I can’t help but adore drag queens, so which of the following is my favorite drag movie?

a) To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar (1995)

b) The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert (1994)

c) The Birdcage (1996)

d) Connie and Carla (2004)

e) Kinky Boots (2005)

Pamper Me Please

Of all feminization rituals, which of the following is at the top of my list when wanting a little spa treatment?

a) A shampoo (scalp massage!), cut, dry, and finish for my luxurious locks

b) A colorful gel polish mani/pedi (stimulating hand and tootsie massage)

c) A desert hot stone massage (for an hour)

d) Olive oil body exfoliation, followed by a warm vitamin and mineral wrap (with accompanying scalp massage)

e) A long and relaxing clarifying facial (Massage action here, too!)

Melt Me With a Good Massage

Speaking of massages to get a girl’s blood pumping and give her skin a glow, if I could have only one part of my body massaged, what would it be?

a) My feet and toes

b) My hands and fingers

c) My neck and shoulders

d) My shapely tushy

e) My back

A Girl Can Never Have Too Many Panties

I adore panties in a vast assortment of styles, fabrics, and colors, and you know I have an arsenal of undies. That said, which is my favorite style of panties?

a) Tanga

b) Classic bikini

c) Boy shorts

d) Thong

e) G-string

Now, once again, you can comment or e-mail me with your answers, questions, and/or comment on my EmmaJane trivia nuggets and, as always, I invite you to share your own feminization fantasies, realities, wishes, goals, hopes, dreams, and preferences with me. We’ll make our own girl time memories together!

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Mistress EmmaJane Birthday Trivia Round One: Sexy Time

Mistress EmmaJane, phone sex, dominationA Gift From Me to You For My Birthday

In thinking about Monday, July 31st, being my birthday, I thought it might be a good time to give you a gift of some insight into the psyche of EmmaJane beyond the Mistress EmmaJane. You all give so much to me in our sessions, correspondences, and relationships, and I’m always on about the importance of sharing yourself with me.

So, in the spirit of reciprocity, I want to give you a peek at some things about myself of which you may be unaware (beyond the phone sex and domination sessions), BUT… I’m going to test you first to see how well you think you know or can guess certain things about your Mistress EmmaJane. I’m going to throw out some multiple choice questions, and you see if you can pinpoint the right answer from what you know or feel you can “just tell” about me from our interactions.

I’ll identify and elaborate on the correct responses after my birthday.

You may be surprised; you may not be…

Round One: The Sensual and Sexy EmmaJane

Watch and Learn

Which of the following erotic movies featuring BDSM themes do I utterly loathe and have never watched in its entirety?

a) “Quills” (2000) [Geoffrey Rush, Kate Winslet]

b) “Fifty Shades of Grey” (2015) [Dakota Johnson, Jamie Dornan]

c) “Secretary” (2002) [James Spade, Maggie Gyllenhaal]

d) “Blue Velvet”(1986) [Kyle MacLachlan, Isabella Rossellini]

Beyond Body Shots

I love the scene in 9-1/2 Weeks when Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger have an erotic, super sensual food-fest in the kitchen, and I have been known to enjoy playing with food in the bedroom. Which of the following foods has NOT been eaten off my body in the past?

a) Chocolate mousse

b) Honey

c) Jello

d) Vanilla custard

The Harness Is Key!

If you’ve read very much of my blog or otherwise have gotten to very much about me, chances are you know I am a rabid fan of strap-on sex, whether I’m in session as Mistress EmmaJane or just being EJ in my own bedroom. Among my arsenal of sex toys, I have one harness that is my go-to and easily my favorite above all others. From where did my favorite strap-on harness come?

a) It was custom-made for me by a partner.

b) It was purchased for me by a partner.

c) It was a cast-off from a girlfriend, who decided she was not into strap-on sex.

d) It was custom-made for me by a caller.

Put Me in the Mood!

Which of the following do I find to ceaselessly flip my switch as THE ultimate aphrodisiac?

a) A surprise home-cooked meal, complete with candles and sexy jazz music playing softly in the background

b) A bouquet of fresh flowers, sought out in Nature and cut by a man himself

c) A lengthy, stimulating, intellectual conversation

d) A long, slow, head-to-toe massage with spicy, sensual oils

Before We Get Down to Business…

Which of the following do I consider to be a requirement for achieving a supremely erotic sexual atmosphere and experience?

a) Keeping the lights on

b) Having some favorite music playing

c) Slipping into some of my favorite lingerie and heels

d) Lighting scented candles all around the room

Making the Most “Sense”

When it comes to my innate sensuality and what resonates with me in an instinctively profound way, my most sensitive of the five senses is…

a) Taste

b) Sound

c) Smell

d) Sight

e) Touch

Now, give these a little thought and check back to see how well you really know EmmaJane -but before you discover the answers, give me your best guesses! You can leave a comment here, send me a private response via e-mail, and/or give me your thoughts during our session.

Who knows? There may be a surprise in it for he or she who gets the most answer correct in the most timely manner. Just saying… *wink wink*

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A Good Sissy Gurl Is a Smooth Sissy Gurl! (Part Two)

Beyond a Razor and Wax Jobsissification, sissy, shaving

In my last post, we hit the high points of the two most common ways by which well-groomed sissies keep “presentable” beneath their panties of choice, which makes for having a pleased Mistress.

In the wonderful world of sissification and feminization, hair removal most often is accomplished by shaving, followed by going for a professional waxing. However, those are not the only options for stripping away the downstairs carpet and leaving those little, gurlie goodies free to be fully revealed and put on display for a sissy gurl’s favorite femdom.

…But wait! There’s more, so if you’ve not tried them, let me give you some additional sissification suggestions for (temporarily) achieving a soft, smooth, femme “private place”.

Slathering on the Cream

No doubt you’re familiar with those annual Nair commercials that pop up every year in anticipation of bikini season. While many immediately associate depilatories (Nair merely being the most well-known of many) with banishing leg hair, it’s also a staple for some women and sissy gurls alike for saying “goodbye” to an unsightly bikini line.

A good depilatory achieves a similar smoothness result as shaving, but there isn’t that worry of having an “unfortunate razor incident”. It’s pain-free and doesn’t require any effort other than a simple cream-on-cream-off kind of affair – and it usually lasts a bit longer than shaving. (The scent’s not so appealing, but it tends to be bearable.)

Word of Warning!

That said, on the con side, the depilatory process has a drawback that limits the range of its use and that some sissy darlings and real women may find not so desirable. While I know some sissification subjects use them as an all-over hair removal method, depilatories should be used on your BIKINI LINE ONLY.

This means if you want everything gone, you’re going to have to use a good ol’ razor or some other method closer to your clitty and your girlie globes, lest you end up with a chemical burn that can really smart on your delicate skin down there.

…And I seriously mean that depilatories can cause legitimate chemical burns, so keep them away from Shenis and the Ballgown Girls! (The bikini line area is not as fragile, so keep to the sides and avoid the center of the playing field!)

Depilatory hair removal rule: Legs and bikini lines are fine; near the sissy spout is out!

Some Sugaring For the Sissy

Yes. It really is called “sugaring, and it really does involve sugar, which is mixed with water and a few other ingredients, resulting in what looks and feels like a big ball of chewing gum. It’s applied in a similar, but not identical, manner as wax, and is snatched off like wax. However, it is supposedly not as painful as waxing. There’s no risk of burning, as with wax, and it’s less irritating to the skin.

On the downside, sugaring typically costs more than waxing. Also, it not only requires one who is trained to do sugaring, but you’ll want to find someone who has substantial experience and is talented enough to successfully carry it out; therefore, you’ll need to do your research first, Sugar.

To Each Sissy Gurl Her Own

When it comes to your sissification and honoring your Mistress by way of having a smooth or “decorative” panty area, remember that the preferred and most successful method varies by individual. If you’re unsure as to your options or choices, consult your femdom, who will point you in the right direction.

Here’s to being a sissy who’s bald in all the right places!!

(Note: I intentionally left out the semi-permanent option of laser hair removal and more permanent option of electrolysis here, as they are not for everyone and carry certain risks that need to be explored and evaluated in more depth on an individual basis. If you’re interested in these options, we can certainly discuss them in session.)

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A Good Sissy Gurl Is a Smooth Sissy Gurl! (Part One)

sissy, sissification, sissy gurlSmooth Panties, Smooth Sissy

I think it should go without saying that one of the primary responsibilities and ultimate duties of a submissive sissy gurl is to, at all times, be oh so soft, smooth, and bald – especially underneath her pretty and sweet (or skimpy and slutty!) panties.

After all, how irreverant, not to mention disrespectful to her sissy Mistress, it is for a sissy gurl to be sporting stubble or errant hairs in the neighborhood of clitty central. No Mistress wants to be exposed to fuzz or fur around a little sissy stick or its two best friends, the girly gonad twins.

No… A sissy gurl’s panties should hide a dicklet desert (unless one’s femdom wishes for her to have a perfect landing strip or maybe a cutesy little “hair-do” down there), and she should commit herself to keep her darling dangly bits as well manicured as her fingers and toes. With all the options available, frankly there is NO excuse for being a a shaggy sissy!

Being diligent and dedicated with hair removal is a sissy must!!

How Can You Keep Bare For Your Mistress?

Pruning Prissy’s Pubes

From my own experience, it would certainly seem that that majority of sissy cream puffs, sluts, slaves, and pets keep their jiggling jewels in peak presentation form by gingerly wielding a razor.

While it demands more time to complete the job, must be done very regularly, and requires a cautious hand (lest a sissy gurl might find her magic become even smaller!), shaving with a razor is very common among real women and sissies alike, and it achieves the goal of silky, hair-free skin, when one is diligent and remembers to emply the use of shaving cream or an aloe vera gel and sharp -NEVER dull!- razor.

However, not all eager to please sissies have the patience or steady hand necessary for successful razor work, so it’s a good thing there are other options.

Waxing Away the Wilderness

This is one occasion when it’s perfectly acceptable for a sissy to lie back and let someone else do all the work!

Obviously I am referring to a sissy gurl indulging in a little spa time and allowing a professional to do the waxing for her, as opposed to trying it herself at home.

This another popular option, as it guarantees exceptional smoothness, no missed areas, and a longer lasting result. However, there is a trade-off in that it can be a little uncomfortable for the more sensitive sissy gurls.

Getting Creative With Wax

Another factor that can overshadow a bit of ouchie for a delicate sissy is the option for some creative shaping of that secret place between her legs. In addition to the well-known landing strip, there’s the mohawk, the martini glass, the Bermuda Triangle, and the postage stamp, among others. One can also go for other shapes and designs – including the initials of a sissy’s Mistress!

In my next post, we’ll explore a few more options by which a conscientious and well-behaved sissy can reveal a soft and smooth -or perhaps a novelly-designed- bikini area beneath her favorite panties, which will bring a smile to the face of her Mistress…

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