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Cock Control and the Compulsive Masturbator (Part Two)

Cock-Locking the Compulsive Masturbator chastity, orgasm control, cock control

When a cock is so unruly that it without question controls the man, it is time to present a form of cock control that overrides the desires of both cock and man; this tool of ultimate control is chastity.

Once I have decided that chastity is necessary (or a compulsive masturbator has enough insight that he requests is), it’s time to put that cock where it can no longer give the orders. The conditions for the cock-caging may be a result of a degree of collaboration, BUT in all cases, mine will be the ultimate deciding vote.

Let’s Get You Caged!

When the time arrives for you to have that troublesome, nagging cock locked in chastity, don’t think there is a promise of a pre-caging orgasm looming. The guarantee of orgasm denial that chastity brings may begin even before that lock snaps shut.

Depending on your individual circumstance, you may be allowed a “last orgasm” (strictly per my directions) OR stroking with repeated edging, very minimal stroking or no stroking AND no orgasm. You need to learn that not being able to masturbate and have an orgasm every time your cock twitches is NOT going to kill you, drive you insane or cause some sort of global apocalypse.

You’re a compulsive masturbator who is in this position because you are out of control. Suck it up, stop that whining, and act like a man.

Once Your Cock Is in Jail…

For how long the hyperactive cock will remain in holding, how it will “earn” being allowed out, the circumstances that will be in effect when it is out (for example, whether and how much stroking will be allowed; IF and when it will be granted a release), and when it will be locked up again will all be by my design as your chastity Mistress.

Under my guidance and instruction, you WILL succeed in learning self-control the chastity way! Are you ready to ask for help with your stroking problem? I am only a call and a cage away…

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Cock Control and the Compulsive Masturbator (Part One)

cock control, compulsive masturbator“Mistress, I Have a Problem With Stroking…”

Whenever I hear various forms of this particular lead-in, I know just exactly where it is going. The problem is not with technique, manual dexterity or achieving an orgasm; it is with frequency – and he who cannot keep his hands away from his hard-on is a a compulsive masturbator, spanking the monkey every time he gets the chance. His problem is a deficiency of cock control!

Thoughts of stroking, having an orgasm, and accommodating that “need” to take care of business often dominate the compulsive masturbator’s mind, many times proving to be extremely distracting when the problematic stoker is actually trying to focus and stay on task with work, household chores, outings, social occasions, and more.

These thoughts are so disruptive that they are responsible for driving the non-stop wanker to seek “professional help” in the way of a Mistress who will teach or somehow given him some orgasm control.

Can a Compulsive Masturbator Get a Little Help Here?

When this incessant stroking issue is presented to me, it is often followed by a desperate request for help in controlling those demanding urges to stroke to an orgasm, whenever, wherever the masturbator thinks he may well be able to get away with it. He knows these constant urges are inappropriate and unacceptable, and he is at a loss for solving the stroking problem himself.

Sometimes orgasm control can be achieved via a masturbation schedule, behavioral contract, and/or stroking assignments, which are intended to reduce the number of masturbation sessions a man has when left to his own devices.  If successful, these measures can refocus the addicted stroker and improve his concentration, and the accountability to his Mistress can ensure his compliance.

When the First Line of Defense Is Not Enough

However, there is many an occasion when those options result in failure, because the compulsive masturbator in question is simply devoid of even one ounce of self-control. This is when nothing short of stronger orgasm control measures are required…

Do you care to guess what the absolute form of cock control is?

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Pussy Demystified 104: A Final Vagina Tutorial

vagina tutorial, female anatomyThe last vagina tutorial with some closing knowledge for those who want to make a pussy purr like a kitten…

One: A vagina is not a 2002 Viper Hennessey Venom 1000 Twin Turbo that goes from 0-60 mph in 2.2 seconds and runs a 9.4-second quarter-mile.

A vagina does not have an on-off switch. It does not have a nitrous button you can hit, then hold on and feel that horsepower skyrocket. It does not respond positively to the snapping of fingers to get going.

I’m not by any means suggesting that hours on end of foreplay are needed to get a woman all revved up and ready to go, but just because your cock might leap to attention when a small breeze blows, that does not mean that a vagina operates in the same way.

Take a little time to savor every part of a woman’s body like a fine wine and forgo treating a woman’s pussy like a toll booth, where you stop, quickly pay your fee to be granted further access to the road, and then take off like you were shot out of a cannon.

Instead, become a master of the art of body worship and/or sensual massage to get her in the mood! Use this vagina tutorial as your cheat sheet for impressing a woman!

Two: The G-spot is there, but it’s not going to grab your finger and show you where it is or throw you a roadmap.

Three words: Know female anatomy! There’s fingering a woman like you’re trying to tickle her from the inside out – and then there is fingering a woman where you locate her G-spot (analogous your prostate) and send her to the moon by tapping, rubbing, and/or stroking it per the degree of pressure that the woman prefers.

There is no treasure map that will lead you directly to where the X (to the “G” in this case) marks the spot, but you should know the spongy G-spot is in the front wall about 1” to 2” inside of the vagina. It is roughly the size of a quarter, feels somewhat different from (some describe it as “rougher” than) the area surrounding it, and swells in response to vasocongestion that occurs during arousal.

The G-spot is THE place that holds the magic of multiple orgasms if this magic place is stimulated repeatedly and with the right amount of pressure, whether from fingers or toys – so stop thinking the end all and be all of a woman’s pleasure is the clit and nothing more!

This leads to my next point…

Three: A woman can have THREE different kinds of orgasms –  but she will almost assuredly NOT have them by dick alone, so don’t fault her when she doesn’t get off only from your sticking it in and pounding away.

A woman can have a clitoral orgasm, a vaginal (aka G-spot) orgasm, and a blended orgasm (simultaneous clitoral and vaginal orgasms, which is THE Holy Grail of orgasms). However, you are setting yourself up for failure in helping her have any of them if you think penetration alone with prompt any of the three.

If you do your homework, you will discover that it is somewhat rare for a woman to orgasm AT ALL via dick power alone.* Mere thrusting with no additional stimulation is simply not enough to set off any kind of orgasm. (Let this underscore the importance of digital stimulation and oral servitude!)

This is an even better reason for you to become very familiar with every part of the vagina, both inside and out. Knowledge is truly power, and I know I, for one, appreciate and adore a man who cares enough to make himself a sexual sage when it comes to the wonderful world of a woman’s vagina and all that it entails!!

Food For Though on Orgasm Through Penetration

*On June 2, 1016, Women’s Day reported that Planned Parenthood’s statistics state “1 in 3 women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex. And as many as 80 percent of women have difficulty with orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone.”
*SOGC states on their website that “Only about a third of women experience orgasm regularly during intercourse” – aka by penetration alone, as they go on to suggest that another 30% of women can have an orgasm during sex BUT only with additional stimulation beyond penetration.
*In 2009, an article by Susan Donaldson James reported that “About 75 percent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone — that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances.”
*There are some professionals that do think these commonly reported 75-80% figures could well be “a bit too high, “ as Dr. Justin Lehmiller of www.lehmiller.com and author of “The Psychology of Human Sexuality” (2014) puts it.

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Pussy Demystified 103: A Clitoris Tutorial

One: The clitoris does not require -or like- being pounded like a quiz show answer button or roughhoused as though you’re working a joystick during a high-intensity game.clitoris myths, clitoris facts

True Pussy Power

Dear men, not to rub it in or taunt you, but you really should know that our clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as does your beloved joystick. There are 8,000 sensory nerve endings in the clitoris, while the penis only has 4,000 – and, as a general rule, the clitoris is much smaller. Follow me?

Think of it this way: Let’s say your penis is Ford Park Arena in Beaumont, Texas, maximum seating capacity of almost 10,000; a clitoris is Madison Square Garden, maximum seating capacity of almost 20,000.

Ford Park Arena is home of the Ringling Brothers and Barnum and Bailey Circus and Disney on Ice and has hosted such acts as War, Kid Rock, Miranda Lambert, Candlebox, and the O’Jays. Powerhouse artists, like The Doors, Madonna, Led Zeppelin, Elton John, U2, Billy Joel, and Lady Gaga, have sold out the Garden, multiple times over.

Are you getting the picture now? The Garden packs a crowd and boasts some exceptional happenings; Ford Park can accommodate only half as many as the Garden and hosts less impressive events.

Dynamite Cums in Small Packages, So Handle With Care!

All this means that from a sensory perspective, the clitoris trumps the penis – and it doesn’t require your man-handling it as if you were being commanded per the adage of “Turn it up and rip the knob off!” By virtue of numbers alone, a clitoris is twice as sensitive as your pocket pal but in a fraction of the size, so easy does it there!

Two: More Stimulation Immediately After Clitoral Orgasm Is NOT a Welcomed Gesture!

The Penis-Vagina Connection

Many men do not understand that a clitoris shares more than just a bit in common with a penis when it comes to some key points:

  • (1) When a clitoris is aroused, it gets bigger; not remarkably so, but it does.
  • (2) It also gets harder, due to vasocongestion.
  • (3) After a clitoral orgasm (NOT a vaginal one), the clit is generally very sensitive.
  • (4) Direct, continued stimulation of the clit after clitoral orgasm can be very uncomfortable and -as with a penis- can lead to another orgasm: a forced or coerced orgasm.

That said, think about your best buddy down below and how it feels if you continue stroking after you’ve had an explosive orgasm – and imagine that your penis had twice as many nerve endings. Would it feel good if someone grabbed your joint then and stroked it like they were trying to build a fire from sheer friction alone? I thought not.

When you’re handling a clitoris, imagine it is a mini-dick (Some of you don’t even have to imagine that!) that is twice as sensitive, and  you will be on your way to having a happier woman on your hands!

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Pussy Demystified 102: A Vagina Tutorial Continued

vagina myth, vagina fact, tight pussyThree: A big cock or toy does NOT stretch a vagina beyond use or recognition.(Thinking otherwise is a HUGE vagina myth, men!!)

The Stretching and the Snapback

Stretching a vagina only makes it easier to stretch. It’s not like taking a ball of Silly Putty, pulling it out to half the length of your arm, and there it stays. Some men like to think they can stretch a pussy out of shape because they liken it to planting a flag or marking their territory, thus warding off men with smaller members.

Sorry to burst your bubble, Biggie. This “stretching it out” business is nothing but another vagina myth that needs tossed right out the window!

A vagina typically widens or opens from 1/2” to 2” in diameter when aroused, and width of the upper two-thirds of the vagina can become even larger (called “tenting,” which is also when and where the vagina lengthens). The vagina is designed to return to “normal” size, even after being stretched by a larger penis.

(Thinking of man’s true best friend, I am laughing my ass off at the 1/2” and looking pleased over the 2” option…)

Built To Stretch!

Also, let us not forget for what the vagina was designed by Mother Nature. They don’t call it the “birth canal” for nothing. That fine piece of female equipment is made to be able to stretch A LOT, and after childbirth, IF vaginal elasticity is a concern, a woman can tighten her vagina with PC exercises, also known as Kegel exercises. (Google it.) Gym time for the vag!

(It is also interesting to note that a vaginoplasty -per most objective parties- is rarely warranted as a “necessary” cosmetic procedure and is only truly required when a congenital malformation, injury or other medical condition necessitates reparative surgery to effect functional ability. Vaginoplasty, as marketed for generally tightening a twat, is merely a way for many plastic surgeons to play on women’s fears brought about by men and pervasive comments about “looseness”. Apparently, promoting this particular vagina myth is a big money-maker.)

IF you think a woman’s pussy feels “too loose,” perhaps you should be considering the possibility that YOU are the problem because your penis is too small in its girth, O Skinny One. Maybe your dick should have the ability to be pumped up like an inflatable dildo!!

First-Hand Pussy Experience

Now, speaking from the position of a size queen who loves big cocks and even bigger -much bigger than any man who ever lived- sex toys, let me assure you that…

  • (1) a vagina does NOT become “loose” when stretched to a very substantial degree,
  • (2) Kegels DO work wonders for tightening the PC muscles and making the vagina feel tighter, and
  • (3) tightened and toned vaginal muscles that have been stretched wide can fool even the smartest dick.

Be sure that my Vaginator can put the iron grip on any cock – except for those tiny dicklets that require only a two-finger jerk or can be fingered like a little pseudo-pussy! (For those that are stubby or scrawny, nothing could make a vagina feel tight!!)

NEVER underestimate the power of a well-trained pussy!!

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